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Next door's bloody tree

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Notmycircusnotmyotter · 09/05/2026 17:29

What can I do about the tree next door that blocks the sun in my garden for most of the day? I wouldn't expect it to be chopped down but it needs properly paring back. I spoke with my neighbour and she says it's expensive so if I want it done I have to pay.

what's reasonable? Are there precedents?

thanks

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MeetMeOnTheCorner · 12/05/2026 16:16

@Ponderingwindow There’s leaves to deal with in the autumn. Neighbours don’t sweep them up. There’s bird poo. There’s trees that a humungous and in the wrong place blocking all sunshine. Lawns become moss. You obviously are not a gardener. Plus the expense and difficulty over maintaining a tree. We all like some shade but a 40 ft sycamore isn’t the answer.

Thickasmincepie · 12/05/2026 20:59

Ponderingwindow · 12/05/2026 04:36

I will never understand why someone would want to lose a lovely shaded garden.

people pay good money for large shade trees to speed up the process of getting respite from the sun.

Because we get very little sun in our part of the country, so if it happens to shine on the 2 days a week I'm off work, I would like to sit in it. We wanted a big garden for years...except now it's big and shady from march to October.

And finding plants that enjoy dry shade is a twat of a thing.

Thickasmincepie · 12/05/2026 21:00

Birds don't even nest in the one next door to us. They just sit and shit. We're like a public toilet!

Effervescentfrothy · 12/05/2026 21:01

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 12/05/2026 16:16

@Ponderingwindow There’s leaves to deal with in the autumn. Neighbours don’t sweep them up. There’s bird poo. There’s trees that a humungous and in the wrong place blocking all sunshine. Lawns become moss. You obviously are not a gardener. Plus the expense and difficulty over maintaining a tree. We all like some shade but a 40 ft sycamore isn’t the answer.

Too true.

Effervescentfrothy · 12/05/2026 21:03

dreaminglife · 10/05/2026 13:09

I too am surprised at the comments - a neighbour has complained about a tree planted close to the boundary, I very quickly got a tree surgeon in - I didn't plant it - the previous owners, it's much too big for a back garden. I'm also surprised that people think it's ok to have an enormous tree in a back garden. The tree might have been there for a long time - but it wasn't always enormous and lots of people plant trees in inappropriate places.

Plus having a large tree close to your house affects house insurance . It’s a risk from the roots and if a tree falls on the house.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 13/05/2026 08:53

@Effervescentfrothy If houses have shallow foundations, huge trees are a huge risk. It’s foolish not to manage them.

dreaminglife · 13/05/2026 08:57

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 13/05/2026 08:53

@Effervescentfrothy If houses have shallow foundations, huge trees are a huge risk. It’s foolish not to manage them.

This is especially true if you live in an area with clay soil - the risk of subsidence is real and selling a property with subsidence history can be a challenge in the same category as asbestos and Japanese knotweed.

BrickBiscuit · 13/05/2026 12:42

dreaminglife · 13/05/2026 08:57

This is especially true if you live in an area with clay soil - the risk of subsidence is real and selling a property with subsidence history can be a challenge in the same category as asbestos and Japanese knotweed.

Also risk of heave developing if the tree is drastically reduced or completely removed.

Jasmin71 · 13/05/2026 13:08

We need trees. You can't trim trees during nesting season.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 13/05/2026 13:20

@Jasmin71 We need the right trees in the right places! It’s not rocket science. The op can certainly get quotes! No extra large tree is well placed in domestic gardens or in close proximity to houses. Plenty of large trees are suitable in parks and farmland. Smaller trees are wonderful in gardens.

CountryGirlInTheCity · 13/05/2026 13:22

dreaminglife · 09/05/2026 19:28

I think it rude to allow a tree to shade your neighbours garden. I moved into a terraced house and a shrub had over grown to the point where it was shading the ndn’s garden - I had it trimmed back - can’t believe other people think it’s the ops responsibility- it’s just bloody rise to shade other people’s gardens to that extent.

I have to say I agree. We were on the other side of this, being home owners with trees in our garden. We made sure they were trimmed on a regular basis because otherwise they would have been a nuisance to our neighbours. I wouldn’t have dreamt of telling them to sort it themselves..we bought the house with trees and as we saw it that made us responsible for their upkeep.

Likewise when a tree behind our house got ash dieback and dropped a massive branch into our garden I contacted the owners to ask them to sort out their dangerous tree. The tree was on their land and so I saw it as their responsibility. They apologised and got the tree removed because the disease had gone too far for it to be safe.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 13/05/2026 13:38

@dreaminglife It’s not her responsibility. But - taking a pragmatic line - it might well be the only way. At least the tree owner has agreed to it being reduced - many won’t. So either it’s stalemate with both getting entrenched, or the op pays. I know what I would do to get light and some sun! Pay up.

Effervescentfrothy · 13/05/2026 16:08

CountryGirlInTheCity · 13/05/2026 13:22

I have to say I agree. We were on the other side of this, being home owners with trees in our garden. We made sure they were trimmed on a regular basis because otherwise they would have been a nuisance to our neighbours. I wouldn’t have dreamt of telling them to sort it themselves..we bought the house with trees and as we saw it that made us responsible for their upkeep.

Likewise when a tree behind our house got ash dieback and dropped a massive branch into our garden I contacted the owners to ask them to sort out their dangerous tree. The tree was on their land and so I saw it as their responsibility. They apologised and got the tree removed because the disease had gone too far for it to be safe.

Totally agree

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 13/05/2026 16:53

@CountryGirlInTheCity You are, of course, reasonable. Many people are not. They won’t repair their fences, trim their trees or remove dead ones! Some people are dreadful irresponsible neighbours, unfortunately. Waiting for them to reduce a tree will be a long wait.

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