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Ballet Boy

32 replies

DoggyBird · 02/05/2026 18:42

I was walking my dog and I overheard a bizarre conversation coming from inside a house in my village. The windows were wide open as it was warm. None of my business, of course, but it's been bugging me to try to work out what's going on. It was between an adult woman (mum) and what sounded like a teenager. It went (roughly!) like this: Mum: "I know where you were last night." Teen: "I was in the city centre." Mum: "Yeah you told me you were just going to hang out with your mates and buy a few cans, but I found a theatre ticket in your shirt pocket" . Teen: "Oh. OK. We went to see Coppelia". Mum: "Who's Coppelia?" Teen: "It's a ballet." Mum: "Ballet???? Who went with you?" Teen: "Ryan. Daz. Jack Lawrence... (I can't remember the other names). Why?" Mum: "What do you think your dad would say if I told him you went to see a ballet?" No answer. "Have you been before?" Teen: "Not really." Mum: "What do you mean not really?" Teen: "Well last month we went to see Rigoletto." Mum: "What's that?" Teen: "An opera by Verdi". Mum: "Oh my God. What have you got yourself into? Your dad will do his nut!" Then I continued my walk. I would LOVE to know the full context. My guess - Dad is either hyper-masculine and would be horrified at his lad going to a ballet; OR his dad has some extreme left-wing politics and sees these art forms as being instruments of the capitalist state - or something. I would also like to know how the idea of going to see a ballet actually cropped up among a bunch of lads. Something like: "Shall we go and watch the footie?" "Nah, let's go to the ballet instead."

OP posts:
tnorfotkcab · 02/05/2026 18:48

Ummm....

RibenaCocktail · 02/05/2026 18:50

I’m willing to bet money that that didn’t happen

BIWI · 02/05/2026 18:50

Boll. Ocks.

DoggyBird · 02/05/2026 18:52

You'd lose your money.

OP posts:
Plummagic · 02/05/2026 18:53

🙄

rainbowsparkle28 · 02/05/2026 18:54

You sure they didn’t have Billy Elliot on with the volume up loud?! 🤷‍♀️😂

Slupeyisinteresting · 02/05/2026 18:55

Jeez how long were you outside this window

ChocHotolate · 02/05/2026 18:56

How slowly were you walking?

NerrSnerr · 02/05/2026 18:58

You must have been outside the house for ages to hear all of that so clearly.

SingingHinny · 02/05/2026 18:59

Someone rehearsing a not very inspired improv?

And yes, OP, you must walk at about the speed of a sloth.

sunflowersandsunsets · 02/05/2026 19:01

And in things that never happened...

wizzler · 02/05/2026 19:01

I’m with @RibenaCocktail

Strandas · 02/05/2026 19:01

Unless they went to see the children’s version of Coppelia (as in ‘my first ballet’), I think that teenager might be spinning the truth a little! Maybe the parents don’t know how to use the internet, but a quick google can tell you those performances don’t work with the timeline you’ve described.

I also span a few tall tales to my parents about where I went in a night out.

Or, and I’m definitely sure this isn’t the case, but the OP might want to get a hearing test.

Contrarymary30 · 02/05/2026 19:01

I used to go to the opera and it was full of gay young men . The Mum sounds like she doesn't know !

CharlotteStreetW1 · 02/05/2026 19:04

Which city? I've been wanting to see Coppelia for years.

SingingHinny · 02/05/2026 19:08

The ROH had a Rigoletto revival in March/April…

hahabahbag · 02/05/2026 19:10

It’s 2 hours long and there have been a few performances recently, seems an odd thing to argue about if it’s true, my dc went to the opera as teens with student tickets!

hahabahbag · 02/05/2026 19:11

Love rigoletto btw. My all time favourite however is La Boheme

SingingHinny · 02/05/2026 19:14

Contrarymary30 · 02/05/2026 19:01

I used to go to the opera and it was full of gay young men . The Mum sounds like she doesn't know !

I still go to the opera and it’s full or straight people and completely uninterested corporate types in the expensive seats who probably don’t have a sexuality because they’re too busy.

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 02/05/2026 19:15

rainbowsparkle28 · 02/05/2026 18:54

You sure they didn’t have Billy Elliot on with the volume up loud?! 🤷‍♀️😂

Edited

Definitely not. That's not the script.

Interesting that you think the Dad might have an issue with his DS going to the ballet because he might be "hyper masculine" but also question why boys might go to the ballet.

ShetlandishMum · 02/05/2026 19:28

I would love to have a teenage boy like this.

Never met 5-8 teenager boys able to afford ballet and opera tickets and wanting to go.

Fairyvocals · 02/05/2026 19:33

The only place Coppelia is on at the moment is Sadler’s Wells, and no one in London would say “I was in the city centre”.
Shame, as I’d have loved this to be true.

tnorfotkcab · 02/05/2026 19:48

What city is this OP?

Empress13 · 02/05/2026 20:04

tnorfotkcab · 02/05/2026 19:48

What city is this OP?

You might be waiting for an answer OP is too busy earwigging !

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 02/05/2026 20:04

Cool story bro. Were you recording it, or did you write it down