I’m wondering if someone close to me is questioning our relationship as much as I am and how much of that is down to grief. I’m trying to hear him. He won’t or can’t hear me, but is making a series of decisions that affect me, have hurt me and that I should have been allowed input into. A friend of mine bluntly told me this week to just consider my mental health and stop trying to get considered or heard and just say I’m stepping away and will just sign whatever he wants whenever he wants. How did we get here? She’s right I think - but after all this, how can we have a relationship again in future when my grief, wishes, feelings counted for nothing and have led to some irreversible outcomes? How do I get past this?