As per new username: is anyone in their early 50s, with 98k left on their mortgage (which they pay on their own)? How long is your remaining term? Does it feel manageable? There are obviously lots of variables to this, but in general?
Current mortgage almost paid off (tiny monthly payments now) and have opportunity to buy DSib's part of inherited property (one part left to me). I'd buy it for disabled DC to live in eventually. DP thinks it is too much of a commitment because of my age and that I would have to take the term right up to my retirement from a public sector role.
I wouldn't need his support (but I resent that he wants to pass up the opportunity to secure a future home for our DC because he thinks it's all just a bit too much to take on).
Just wanting a reality check.