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Petsitters payment in kind.

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Georgiepud · 22/04/2026 21:39

A friend and her daughter are coming to pet sit our 2 cats and 2 guinea pigs during the summer holidays for a fortnight.
They will have the use of a nice house and garden in a pleasant location (Cotswolds). All electricity, mod cons etc.
My question is, how many "extras" should I leave out for them? I mean things like -
Tea bags and coffee capsules
Loo rolls
Dishwasher tablets etc etc
I don't want to appear mean, but ........

OP posts:
Lomonald · 23/04/2026 09:52

redboxer321 · 23/04/2026 09:43

I think it depends on how much rent she's charging them. If it's mates rates, then I think wifi off, market rate, leave it on.

There is no rent it isn't an air b&b

2026Y · 23/04/2026 09:55

In what world is Loo roll an 'extra'? It's the definition of a 'basic' 😂

2026Y · 23/04/2026 09:56

SheilaFentiman · 23/04/2026 00:12

A mangle and a carpet beater?

😂

FiveShelties · 23/04/2026 09:59

I would definitely not bother leaving loo rolls @Georgiepud just leave lots of lovely new white towels.

Lovelanza · 23/04/2026 10:00

Since forever I always thought the phrase "payment in kind" was sexy time !

dontmalbeconme · 23/04/2026 10:00

Everything you've suggested, plus a fully stocked fridge/freezer, plus leave a couple of hundred quid in cash for takeaways and incidentals. And thank them profusely for giving up 2 weeks of their time to do you such a huge favour.

Bumply · 23/04/2026 10:01

The ‘in kind’ bit is you don’t pay for the sitting. They don’t pay for the equivalent of Airbnb rent.

The extras should be what gives everyone a warm
fuzzy feeling to give and receive.

The last Airbnb I went to left tea bags, coffee, loo roll (of bleeding course) but also biscuits, pats of butter (the ones you get in cafe/hotels), milk, cans of soft drinks, bottled water, couple of bottles of beer. I gave an excellent review.

These are your friends and they’re giving you a service that would otherwise cost you money and potential stress (if cats don’t like cattery etc.)

HortiGal · 23/04/2026 11:15

OP will be putting the power on a timer and telling them to bring extra jumpers for heat!

ImDoneOnceAndForAll2 · 23/04/2026 17:59

So wanna know what the mod cons are that you talk about...

But i imagine the OP wont be back and this thread will be deleted because its causing the OP distress irl

Lordofmyflies · 23/04/2026 18:15

Wow OP.. have you offered to give them any money at all? We have a house sitter who comes to our very lovely house in Cornwall which is five minutes from a beach with its own hot tub and orchard. We still pay her the going rate of £70 a day or £490 a week to look after one cat and one small dog that has 2 x 20 mins stroll a day. This is cheap.
I still do a shop, fill the fridge with meals to keep her going for at least the first three days, leave chocolates and wine and a nice tin of biscuits.
It has not crossed my mind to ration loo roll or dishwasher tablets?!
They are doing you a huge favour and saving you over £1000. I’d certainly be leaving a Marks & Spencer‘s voucher or something else or value in a card along with a full fridge.

Newbie8918 · 23/04/2026 18:17

Everything they’d need for 2 weeks as well as a nice hamper full of snacks, nice drinks, treats as a thank you.

This has got to be a wind up, surely?

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