Was it rude of my neighbour not to get back to me?

[IsMyNeighbourRude]

Neighbour (retired) texted me at 7:30 pm yesterday asking if I was available today to witness him sign some legal documents. No “please” or “thank you” - just a brief message. I have done this for him in the past.

I replied immediately that I would be out in the morning, home all afternoon, out in the evening (I am also retired) and I asked if he had any idea what sort of time.

He replied immediately that he would “find out”.

23 hours later he hasn’t got back to me. I’ve been checking my phone throughout the day just in case.

Apart from the no “please” or “thank you” do you think that’s rude behaviour?

I am going out in half an hour so if he rings the bell between now and then it’s not ideal as I need to get ready and I don’t know how long it will take.

I know there are bigger issues to sweat about but he has upset me in the past over much bigger things and I just think he’s bloody rude! It would only take 30 seconds to text “I’ve asked someone else” or “can we do it another day”.

It’s a bit rude but it’s not a big deal. Next time id just not reply to the neighbour.

But then if I don’t reply it’ll look as though I’m rude!!!

Yes, a little bit rude, but you don't have to wait for him so don't sweat over it, just get on with your day.

Not a big deal, you don't need to wait for him so just get on with your day

It's mild rudeness...but you were never obliged to keep checking your phone or see it through. Just carry on as you were.

If this was my neighbour I would have to go and ring his doorbell, mainly to check that he hadn't died suddenly in his sleep. If he answered, I would style it out by saying I was here to sign the documents. But you may be less anxious than I am!

If he turns up when it’s not convenient just tell him that! HE is the one who’s being rude!! It’s not rude to say I’m busy at the moment so send me a message later on with your availability and we’ll work something out. If he’s rude to you or doesn’t take no for an answer tell him to forget it

If I was in your shoes I wouldn't give him a second thought. Just remember who is doing the favour here - if he wants something signed, then it gets done at your convenience. If it isn't convenient for you, then tough shit. If he doesn't get back to you, then even tougher shit!