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Binglebong · 19/04/2026 12:31

Just seen on the news another attack against you. I want you to know that the vast majority of people are horrified by what is happening and give you their support. This is completely separate from the rights and wrongs of Gaza - this is people in the UK getting hurt and scared. It should not be happening.

You are not alone.

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Dimms · 19/04/2026 14:18

NormasArse · 19/04/2026 14:09

But the two are connected, as far as the perpetrators are concerned.

It doesn’t make it right, but there’s no escaping that fact.

I disagree. Many of these attacks are not driven by sympathy for people in Gaza (which I do actually have) they are carried out by people who simply hate Jewish people and are using Gaza as a convenient excuse. When we immediately bring up Gaza while discussing attacks on Jewish people, we risk attributing a kind of moral cause to the perpetrators that they do not deserve.

newrubylane · 19/04/2026 14:18

MeridaBrave · 19/04/2026 14:09

Sigh. Why mention Gaza? Like it’s anything to do with me?

I don't think OP does think it's anything to do with you, but she rightly thinks it has something to do with the rise of anti-Semitic attacks.

SunnyAfternoonToday · 19/04/2026 14:23

I'm sure that other minority groups also feel vulnerable in this country at times, especially Muslim.

For sure other communities may well feel vulnerable but no other minority, ethnicity, race or religion in Britain has to ensure that their places of prayer, education, community centres and businesses are constantly guarded against attacks like the four committed in the past week alone.

Have we all forgotten the two people who died in Manchester last autumn, the Jewish charity ambulances firebombed and destroyed last month (that service is for everybody who needs them, not just the Jewish community)? Will people wring their hands at this being so commonplace that when Jews are killed in large numbers it will come as no surprise? This all happened to German Jews in the early 1930s. I know because my mother was a child then. Are my own children and grandchildren going to survive in Britain?

IDontFuckingThinkSo · 19/04/2026 15:46

Comedycook · 19/04/2026 14:13

Because prior to this, anti Semitism just didn't exist, did it?!

Of course it did, it doesn’t mean that there isn’t a current discourse in many places that has certain types of people saying that these attacks happen because of the bombings in Gaza.

I read the op that and thought she was pre empting that type of comment from that type of person. Op is saying this has nothing to with Gaza, because if the people who cant seperate the two.

The ambulance attack had people coming out with ignorant comments along the lines of “what do they expect when they cause genocide in Gaza” and its not a rare mindset. It happened on every single discussion of concern, empathy, and worry. People were falling over themselves to say why they can understand why terror attacks on Jewish people will rise because of what Isreal are doing.

Maybe op has just assumed that folk who would have understood she was pre empting the blaming of Isreal and Gaza, because it happens all the time.

Chocaholick · 19/04/2026 15:50

newrubylane · 19/04/2026 14:18

I don't think OP does think it's anything to do with you, but she rightly thinks it has something to do with the rise of anti-Semitic attacks.

This is how I read it. That he or she inevitably knew somebody would pop up with the usual ‘well I don’t condone antisemitism, but Gaza…’ as they ALWAYS do. And they were trying to pre empt that, albeit clumsily.

cupfinalchaos · 19/04/2026 16:28

Dimms · 19/04/2026 12:56

You have an unconscious bias.

You have linked Jewish British people with what is happening in Gaza simply because they are Jewish.

This. I am Jewish and have nothing to do with Gaza or the war. But I’m sure you meant well so it’s appreciated x

BrinkWomanship · 19/04/2026 17:45

Thank you for your sentiments @Binglebong . I appreciate them.

I wonder if other non-Jews are feeling similarly to you and will pop by this thread to have a read. If so, I hope you don't mind me taking advantage of the situation by posing a question to them.

If you recognise and are against the horrible rise of antisemitism in the UK, have you done anything about it?

I imagine it's hard to work out what you can do to help.
I have a sense that there is a large silent majority that do recognise antisemitism and are against it but unfortunately, silence and inaction creates an environment when racists feel their thoughts are acceptable and that their aggressive words and actions are too.

So here are some concrete things you can actually do. None of them require much time or money...

Call it out. If you witness antisemitic comments – in person, on social media, in your workplace, at the school gate – say something. You don't need a perfect response. "I find that offensive" or "that's not okay" or "You're an antisemite" is enough. Silence is read as agreement.

Report it. In the UK you can report antisemitic hate crimes to the police (101 or online), and also directly to the Community Security Trust (CST) at report.cst.org.uk – they track incidents and use the data to push for action. You can report on behalf of someone else.

Correct the record online. When you see antisemitic conspiracy theories or tropes shared on social media – even by people you know – a calm, factual response matters. You don't have to get into an argument. Just don't scroll past.

Understand how language is being weaponised. The words "Zionist" and "genocide" are increasingly misused in ways that bleed into antisemitism. "Zionist" (which simply means someone who supports the existence of a Jewish state) is routinely used as a slur, as a way of expressing hatred of Jewish people while maintaining plausible deniability. Meanwhile, "genocide" is being applied to the conflict in Gaza in ways that most historians and legal scholars would not support, and the effect (intended or not) is to cast Jewish people and Israel in the most extreme possible moral terms. You don't have to have a view on the conflict to notice when language is being deployed to dehumanise rather than to inform.

Educate yourself a little. Many people struggle to recognise antisemitism because it often doesn't look like other racism – it frequently masquerades as political opinion or "just asking questions." The Holocaust Educational Trust and the CST both have accessible free resources. The IHRA definition of antisemitism is also worth reading.

Talk to your kids about it. Schools vary enormously in how well they handle this. If your children are old enough, raise it at home – what it is, why it's wrong, and what to do if they encounter it.

Use your vote and your voice. Write to your MP if antisemitism isn't being taken seriously locally or nationally. It takes ten minutes. They do pay attention to volume of correspondence. I've done this recently and received a response from my MP. She's raising my questions to the government. Goodness knows if anything will come of it but the more people doing similar, the better.

None of this is heroic. But the cumulative effect of a lot of ordinary people doing ordinary things is what actually shifts culture.

Thank you to anyone who is doing something concrete already and to those who are even a teeny bit inspired by my suggestions for action, rather than silence and acceptance.

Chocaholick · 19/04/2026 17:53

If you recognise and are against the horrible rise of antisemitism in the UK, have you done anything about it?

Yes, I have been very vocal about how Gaza has turned a lot of people into antisemitic lunatics and I will not be cowed by the aggression and blackmail of the Gaza lobby.

This has resulted in me losing friends and receiving a fair few facetious ‘u ok hun’ type messages, but I don’t care. It’s tricky at work because there are a small core of ‘woke’ useless idiots and I’m now sure they despise me but the feeling is mutual so who cares.

My kids’ school has done a fab job - a Jewish person visited recently to talk to them about Judaism, Jewish life, they all really enjoyed it (DD was excited she had given them ‘Jewish bread’!).

I live very rurally and have my finger on the local news pulse and if anything arises in my constituency which is suggestive of antisemitism, I will write to my MP. Thankfully nothing yet but we don’t have a large Jewish community at all.

I’m not Jewish but I have Jewish relatives.

BrinkWomanship · 19/04/2026 19:04

Love this @Chocaholick! Thank you.

SpringAndSunshineIsHere · 19/04/2026 21:44

Comedycook · 19/04/2026 13:19

You probably mean well op but Gaza has nothing to do with it and didn't need to be mentioned. As a pp said, it's unconscious bias.

Oh ffs stop jumping on the op who is trying to send a supportive message. It’s not as though the rest of the world doesn’t exist.

Supersimkin7 · 19/04/2026 21:53

Standing with Jews, always. To think a decade ago this sort of nasty lunacy would have been unthinkable is a disgrace to us all.

However, Jew haters never win.

Had a go at some useful idiots brandishing a questionable placard on the high street. They’d have known how hopeless and wicked their endeavours were had they benefited from 30 seconds’ recent history.

FunUser · 19/04/2026 21:54

I agree OP. I have been horrified for the Jewish people in this country and how trapped they must sometimes feel. Whenever I have feelings like this about something I've seen in the news that doesn't directly affect me, I make sure that I actually do something, instead of just feeling depressed and hopeless. In this case, I have donated to the CST and also challenged anti-semitism when I've seen it. I challenge people on 'Israelophobia' a lot because I think the virulent and obsessive anti-Israel sentiment you often see is a form of anti-semitism (mostly because of how intense and selective it is). But as many of the Jewish posters are saying, Israel is nothing to do with British Jews.

Supersimkin7 · 19/04/2026 22:00

Who in 🇬🇧 is attacking Muslims on the grounds their hard-right extremists secretly want Hamas in power?

Exactly. OP, you’re right about Gaza links in as an excuse for loons to have a go, but bear with it.

Most of us do link the war too in our brain cells at the moment too - we deplore the attacks regardless.

Myanna · 19/04/2026 22:08

Thanks for the supportive message OP.
I'm not offended by it!

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 19/04/2026 22:10

basic45704 · 19/04/2026 21:40

That’s why the Labour link to antisemitism popped into my head earlier. I was pondering how it unravelled so badly pre WW2 and it was because it was being driven by who was in power of the country. We must make sure we don’t allow anti-semites into governance.

RumNotRun · 19/04/2026 22:14

Thank you for the resources @BrinkWomanship- thankfully I haven't seen or heard any anti-Semitism in real life, however I have tried to reason with people online (and got banned from a cat group because of it!).

I first heard that anti-Semitism is rife when the stuff with Corbyn all came out. Some Jewish friends I know in a feminist group were telling me of their experiences. I had no idea and was, and still am, disgusted that this is all still happening. It's appalling.

BrinkWomanship · 19/04/2026 22:37

Thank you @RumNotRun. I see a lot of it on completely unrelated social media posts on instagram. The topic could be as innocuous as the world of business and suddenly there’s a slew of antisemitic posts in the comments. It’s disgusting. I do correct lies and flag people’s racism but it feels very ‘whack a mole’. 😔

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Ketzele · 20/04/2026 00:10

Thank you, OP.

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