There's a difference between demonstrably nutty and just not believing the official story when there is often a lot to back up what the person believes.
It's when people can't differentiate between them that I have an issue with, I would not be compatible with someone like that.
To give an example, I didn't get the covid jab, why? The long term data wasn't out yet so instead I decided I'd rather take my chances with the virus. I wasn't watching videos or listening to people who believed this was a major conspiracy etc. So there was no conspiracy for me. I just didn't want the jab and that was that.
A friend of mine had a neighbour who was part of a small group, maybe 3 or 4 people who would meet up and discuss what was going on and she was trying to recruit my friend, I can't remember the story but it was something to do with how covid was engineered because it was something to do with pedophiles and these people who believed this were planning on moving to those foreign country to form a community in some cliffs or something like that...can't remember exactly but they were obviously extremist beliefs and I would be extremely concerned if this was a family member.
Yet some, will put everyone who didn't want the jabs in the same category, someone who just wasn't sure about a new vaccine is lumped in with someone who has extremely out there views.
Also important to note, I didn't get the swine flu jab either when I was pregnant for the exact same reason, and my doc at the time didn't want me to get it either.
Absolutely no one called me a conspiracy theorist for that one, people just respected my decision. My thought process and reasoning was the exact same for both, but for one I got labelled as a conspiracy theorist because the media and other people decided to spread that narrative, rather than just accepting, ok some people are concerned because the vaccine is new.
So I think jumping to making out people are nuts just because they don't believe or trust the official story is just as extreme as the people who think lizard people are implanting microchips. They believe that because they've bought into the very convenient narrative that if someone refuses to conform and buy into the official story it's because they're completely mental.