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Has anyone tried genetic medication checks for antidepressants and anxiety?

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MazzaMaisie · 12/04/2026 18:12

Hi, my dd (21) is autistic and is waiting (a year now) for adhd assessment. GP advised against a private assessment as aftercare not so good as with NHS. She’s been on fluoxetine when she developed anorexia and had a breakdown at 14 and under CAMHS switched to sertraline. It helped with the anxiety and depression somewhat but since CAMHS dismissed her at 18 and she couldn’t cope with university stress she’s struggled past 3 years. She’s on 100mg of sertraline. Always had a raft of coping mechanisms (eats healthy, goes gym, walks every day..). She started open university and is trying to stay positive but her life isn’t what she hoped for - she wants to do lots of things (learn to drive, get a part time job) but anxiety rules her life and can’t move forward. She’s been telling me how even eating is hard work, can’t see things ever getting better, and is basically stuck. I got a golden retriever last year as company for her but she is so anxious now she won’t go out on walks by herself (even though she used to go alone when 14-15), I’ve rven had to start driving her to gym and pick her up as she’s too anxious to walk alone. Over the years I’ve done everything I can think of to support her (dance, gymnastics, piano), I work part time as much as I can afford to support her emotionally. I’m exhausted and not sure where to turn now and to see her regress after really flourishing during A levels is soul destroying. Now to my question - I’m thinking sertraline isn’t helping in the way it did and maybe she needs to try something else. Bupa’s advertise a medication check for £240 which analyses which meds (including antidepressants) work best with you ‘genetics’. I know finding right meds and dosage can be trial and thought this might narrow the field and help with out discussion with GP? I realise meds are not magic bullet but she’s so anxious every day and has really poor executive functioning. Anybody have any experience with this service? Thank you

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Stinkymalinkyfromdownthelane · 12/04/2026 18:42

I really feel for you and your daughter with this 💐 it can be soul destroying to see them regress. In my experience I can only say that after trying sertraline, paroxetine, amitriptyline and stuff I cant remember - Escitalopram has really worked for me and i wonder if it will for her as my daughter with (I assume) similar biology. My daughters' adhd assessment was done thru 'right to choose' and we used ADHD360 theyve been ok tho have a high staff turnover. It was so much quicker than CAMHS and the diagnosis has helped her. I think in the scheme of things £240 isn't a lot of money to pay (as long as you aren't really struggling) in comparison to the time scales and possible frustrations of trying different medications. I am going for it with her. It can't hurt. Sorry for rambling but wanted to give you background. Support to you xxx

Stinkymalinkyfromdownthelane · 12/04/2026 18:43

I really feel for you and your daughter with this 💐 it can be soul destroying to see them regress. In my experience I can only say that after trying sertraline, paroxetine, amitriptyline and stuff I cant remember - Escitalopram has really worked for me and i wonder if it will for her as my daughter with (I assume) similar biology. My daughters' adhd assessment was done thru 'right to choose' and we used ADHD360 theyve been ok tho have a high staff turnover. It was so much quicker than CAMHS and the diagnosis has helped her. I think in the scheme of things £240 isn't a lot of money to pay (as long as you aren't really struggling) in comparison to the time scales and possible frustrations of trying different medications. I am going for it with her. It can't hurt. Sorry for rambling but wanted to give you background. Support to you xxx

MazzaMaisie · 12/04/2026 20:51

Thanks for your response. She gets PIP so I can use that to help pay for the BUPA medication test. Hearing that around here she could be waiting another 2 years for adhd assessment I will be looking again at just going private for an assessment. We might be barking up the wrong tree but I’m desperate to help her so willing to explore every route. Once again thank you, it means a lot you took the time to respond.

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Greybeardy · 12/04/2026 21:09

if she's studying with the OU has she tried accessing their student support services? Have never used them myself, but they may have options for supporting her.

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