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Part 2. Our blanket making for lovely waffle heads into its final stages.

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KnottyAndPistey · 11/04/2026 17:42

Welcome everyone, this is our second thread as we craft a blanket for lovely wafflenose. We are heading into the final stages as last posting is MONDAY 13th APRIL. Just looking at the squares already received, we know our blanket is going to be beautiful inside and out. Crafters and donors have been astonishingly generous in both funds and time,. We are so grateful, thank you everyone.

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Our previous thread is here...

Have repeated all the original crafting info as it is always useful to have it all in one place for reference.

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.
So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.
Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K
She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.
She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.
She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.
She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume
Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).
English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.
She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.
Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.
She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.
She liked Fleetwood Mac.
She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.
She also liked art and photography.
She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired
Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.
Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!
If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.
Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L

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PrizedPickledPopcorn · 21/05/2026 08:44

Boiledbeetle · 20/05/2026 14:24

Better than a Mumsnet scarf any day.

But with the exceptional talent on this thread, we could have matching Fawley and Maud scarves!
I’ve got a zebra scarf- striped length with a head and hooves on one end and a tail and hooves on the other.
We could have Maud at one end and Fawley at the other! As we can’t all have Maud and Fawley.

Yiayoula · 21/05/2026 12:23

Beautiful, meaningful blanket - so much detail and full of cherished memories. I’m grateful to have played a very tiny part in its creation, and hope it brings comfort to Lauren’s family and friends xx

Boiledbeetle · 22/05/2026 19:47

Maud has sent me her Maud-o-graphs with Lauren's blanket.

Part 2. Our blanket making for lovely waffle heads into its final stages.
Part 2. Our blanket making for lovely waffle heads into its final stages.
Part 2. Our blanket making for lovely waffle heads into its final stages.
Boiledbeetle · 22/05/2026 19:49

And some more

Part 2. Our blanket making for lovely waffle heads into its final stages.
Part 2. Our blanket making for lovely waffle heads into its final stages.
Part 2. Our blanket making for lovely waffle heads into its final stages.
Part 2. Our blanket making for lovely waffle heads into its final stages.
PrizedPickledPopcorn · 22/05/2026 20:05

Boiledbeetle · 22/05/2026 19:49

And some more

Love these!

Boiledbeetle · 22/05/2026 20:39

Some photos in dinosaur costumes with the deer.

Part 2. Our blanket making for lovely waffle heads into its final stages.
Part 2. Our blanket making for lovely waffle heads into its final stages.
AlexandraLeaving · 22/05/2026 21:16

Those are so wonderful. X

ChristmasStars · 22/05/2026 22:16

Aw I think I may have something in my eye.

ScruffMuffin · 24/05/2026 08:50

We love it so much. I was feeling sad the other day, so Goo went and fetched the blanket, and Lauren's bunny, Flopsy. Twice this past week, Goo has taken the blanket up to bed to sleep with. It's currently on Lauren's bed, and I spent some time lying under it yesterday because I'm ill. I showed it to my support worker, and we had fun admiring all the different squares. My mum has been inspired to make things for Woolly Hugs and 2wish. Xxx

ChristmasStars · 24/05/2026 08:59

ScruffMuffin · 24/05/2026 08:50

We love it so much. I was feeling sad the other day, so Goo went and fetched the blanket, and Lauren's bunny, Flopsy. Twice this past week, Goo has taken the blanket up to bed to sleep with. It's currently on Lauren's bed, and I spent some time lying under it yesterday because I'm ill. I showed it to my support worker, and we had fun admiring all the different squares. My mum has been inspired to make things for Woolly Hugs and 2wish. Xxx

This is so lovely.

AlexandraLeaving · 24/05/2026 11:58

ScruffMuffin · 24/05/2026 08:50

We love it so much. I was feeling sad the other day, so Goo went and fetched the blanket, and Lauren's bunny, Flopsy. Twice this past week, Goo has taken the blanket up to bed to sleep with. It's currently on Lauren's bed, and I spent some time lying under it yesterday because I'm ill. I showed it to my support worker, and we had fun admiring all the different squares. My mum has been inspired to make things for Woolly Hugs and 2wish. Xxx

That is so lovely to read. I am glad it is providing some comfort to you, and to Goo. It is so hard losing a sibling too. X

ifIwerenotanandroid · 24/05/2026 13:29

Sending love to Scruffmuffin & family. So glad the blankie is doing what it was made for.

KnottyAndPistey · 26/05/2026 10:53

So glad to hear our blanket is giving comfort waffle, and your lovely mum has already been in touch, so kind. Just adding our photos again for anyone who may have missed it, I'm going to go through the threads and tag helpers

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KnottyAndPistey · 26/05/2026 10:54

And our framed square...

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KnottyAndPistey · 26/05/2026 11:08

Just wanted to make sure you'd all seen delivery to lovely Waffle Has taken placement adding another photo....

@JaneExotic @trumpet @IndieRocknRoll @RubyJack @SpiralArchitect @Babsandherwabs @Fairyfellowsmasterstroke @Yiayoula @FluffandBuzz @Karistyleaftea @HoggyTruffle

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KnottyAndPistey · 26/05/2026 11:20

@Boiledbeetle Maud @PrizedPickledPopcorn @MyrtleLion @MadisonAvenue @IoWfairy @Zhx3 @bookbook @ChristmasStars @littledrummergirl @whatsthatbrightlight @Igneococcus @Iwantacampervan @EnchantedDaydream @Bearfrills @SwedishEdith @EdithStourton @lcakethereforeIam @AlexandraLeaving - you have friends who were on MN who kindly donated, pls could you make sure everyone has seen

@TheFairyCaravan @SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius @knittedsloth @ElizaBlack @ifIwerenotanandroid @purplefrog @theninjagooseishooking @caringcarer @WitchDancer

Lordy I hope I haven't missed anyone, I know some tagged have already seen

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KnottyAndPistey · 26/05/2026 11:21

ScruffMuffin · 19/05/2026 12:49

It's arrived!!!!

I enjoy writing and playing with words, but they are all so inadequate for expressing how beautiful, meaningful and perfect the blanket is. We're humbled and delighted that so many strangers would do this for us (and the lovely Alexandra, of course). We can't stop looking at it, and each time, there is something new to notice.

Our rooms are quite small, but I toom the best photo I could, short of taking the blanket outside. We also love the framed square and text for the wall. I'll also try to post a picture of the new tattoo I got this morning, of Lauren's ECG printout, and her name with a silly little wonky heart, the way she wrote it on every piece of looseleaf paper she ever used.

We are buying a pink bench for her sixth form college, and have bought a cup for her secondary school. Each year, as well as the usual progress and attainment awards, there will be a special Lauren J award for outstanding commitment to English. Lauren never won or was nominated for an award at secondary, which didn't surprise me. She was one of those quiet, invisible children who just got on with it... as well as racking up uniform detentions from time to time. She went on to achieve all grade 7-9 (A- A**), which didn't surprise me either. Her primary school is rearranging rooms, to create a permanent library, which is going to be called Lauren's Library. We will be buying some comfy furniture for it, and sending a framed photo of her when she attended the school.

Additionally, almost £9000 has been raised/ donated in her memory since she died - most for Mind in our county, and some for Cats Protection. Many more fundraising events are organised for later in the year.

We hope that four seriously-ill adults are now living their best lives, thanks to her generous gifts. Her life was beautiful, and her death is meaningful.

Yesterday, six of her closest friends came over for a catchup, cake and pink drinks. It was hard, but they found it positive and helpful.

Thanks again, all. Xxx

Just resharing lovely waffles messages too, thank you so much again everyone, wonderful team work 💙

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KnottyAndPistey · 26/05/2026 11:22

ScruffMuffin · 24/05/2026 08:50

We love it so much. I was feeling sad the other day, so Goo went and fetched the blanket, and Lauren's bunny, Flopsy. Twice this past week, Goo has taken the blanket up to bed to sleep with. It's currently on Lauren's bed, and I spent some time lying under it yesterday because I'm ill. I showed it to my support worker, and we had fun admiring all the different squares. My mum has been inspired to make things for Woolly Hugs and 2wish. Xxx

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KnottyAndPistey · 26/05/2026 11:25

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FluffandBuzz · 26/05/2026 11:29

Thank you so much for sharing and tagging, I'm glad it's bringing some comfort to waffle and family and I really appreciate hearing about the other beautiful ways Lauren is being remembered and celebrated

RubyJack · 26/05/2026 11:55

Looks amazing 👏

MyrtleLion · 26/05/2026 12:42

So proud to have playedapart in this. Much love to waffleand family ♥️

TheFairyCaravan · 26/05/2026 12:45

It’s beautiful.

I’m so pleased it’s bringing comfort. ❤️

caringcarer · 26/05/2026 13:36

What a beautiful blanket. I hope ScruffMuffin finds lots of comfort from it. I also loved hearing about the other wonderful tributes to Lauren.

Karistyleaftea · 26/05/2026 13:39

Beautiful words from Lauren's mum and thank you @KnottyAndPistey and everyone who was involved with the beautiful blanket.
I have made lots for charity before but being part of this has really touched my heart.
Much love to all.

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