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Pet peeves that others may find odd.

165 replies

ThishittyLimeCat · 09/04/2026 11:40

I have so many that I think I should be on an island on my own.

  1. People on Tipping Point who don't say please.
  2. Describing someone eating as she polished off/ he demolished/devoured...
  3. Hun overload, you ok Hun, thanks Hun...
  4. Ordering food and drink. Can I get? Probably not from there 😫.
  5. People who have to compete with your illness. I had glandular fever I was so ill. Well I had glandular fever twice and I nearly died.
  6. Two words I want to kill people when I hear them, one starts with t and means dehydration. But they don't just say it once, they keep saying it without getting a drink.
The second means dinner but used by posh people and elderly, starts with a s.
OP posts:
ImFineItsAllFine · 15/04/2026 15:54

Peachee · 11/04/2026 08:33

When someone calls you ‘lovely’ as a noun and not an adjective.. for example.. ‘Thanks for that lovely.’ ‘Hey what you doing lovely?’ What are you doing for lunch lovely?’ - I really fucking hate it! Am I a hater? 😂

Ooh I think this might a regional thing, I'm in the South West and everybody says it pretty much all the time!

My pet peeve is people who use the word 'literally' when they don't mean 'literally' at all, they mean 'figuratively'

prampushingdownthehighst · 15/04/2026 16:33

I actually had a conversation where the insurance broker said
Could yourself check the email and send it to back to myself
I think he thought it sounded clever

JennyChawleigh · 15/04/2026 16:41

AuntieGrizelda · 10/04/2026 12:14

Grab. As in, I'll just grab a sandwich'

My DH also 'jumps' in the bath and shower on a regular basis.

Yes to "grab" - makes me think of "smash and grab robberies"

Mookie81 · 15/04/2026 17:05

Puffalicious · 14/04/2026 19:12

That was a really mean comment. Do you enjoy being mean? Try being a parent of a teen with significant ASN, and NO-ONE gets it unless they live it. Adults/ other teens smirking or sniggering when he behaves unusually (perhaps clapping) but looks perfectly NT, is a wound that gapes for both him & me.

I didn't say I'm offended, I'm saying there's often another reason why people can do irritating things.

If I was equally mean I'd say ODFOD, but I'm not, so I won't. I hope your day is more pleasant than your comment.

It wasn't mean; I haven't made any negative remarks about you or your child's disability. You replied to a poster about your own situation, when their comment clearly didn't include people with disabilities.
If you want to say ODFOD then go for it, you've said it anyway! HmmGrin

Arraminta · 15/04/2026 17:09

prampushingdownthehighst · 15/04/2026 16:33

I actually had a conversation where the insurance broker said
Could yourself check the email and send it to back to myself
I think he thought it sounded clever

Dear God! It's akin to nails on a blackboard!

Puffalicious · 15/04/2026 17:14

Mookie81 · 15/04/2026 17:05

It wasn't mean; I haven't made any negative remarks about you or your child's disability. You replied to a poster about your own situation, when their comment clearly didn't include people with disabilities.
If you want to say ODFOD then go for it, you've said it anyway! HmmGrin

I wouldn't lower myself.

The previous comment didn't make it clear at all that it didn't include people with disabilities, and my point was that there are other explanations for annoying behaviour, i.e. ASN that are not obvious; so to others my DS may just look like his behaviour is irritating as he appears like a neurotypical teen, but he's not.

Can we all just let people be? I hope your catty comments have made you feel superior.

IDrinkTeaAllTheTime · 15/04/2026 17:26

maimeo · 09/04/2026 12:32

Overuse of word “amazing”. Drives me insane.

I became quite guilty of this to the point that I actually started annoying myself and had to train myself out of it 😂.

OP, I agree with most of these - especially “can I get” and people just not saying please and thank you. Manners cost nothing and I feel like they’re truly dying out.

I do quite like the S word and find it quaint. I don’t ever use it, though.

RaraRachael · 15/04/2026 17:49

Since when did a waiting list and waiting staff become a wait list and wait staff?

I agree that people who use yourself and myself are doing it to sound intelligent but it has the opposite effect.

Silverbirchleaf · 15/04/2026 18:34

‘Mac and cheese’.

No, it’s ’macaroni cheese!’

’Mac and cheese’ could be pasta with cheese melted on it, in theory, instead of a nice creamy, cheesy sauce.

SydneyCarton · 16/04/2026 12:27

"Weight loss journey". It's a fucking diet, Barbara.

RaraRachael · 16/04/2026 12:57

SydneyCarton · 16/04/2026 12:27

"Weight loss journey". It's a fucking diet, Barbara.

Everything's a journey nowadays and everybody has to have a story.

How did I reach mg 60s successfully with neither? 🙄

Arraminta · 16/04/2026 13:05

RaraRachael · 16/04/2026 12:57

Everything's a journey nowadays and everybody has to have a story.

How did I reach mg 60s successfully with neither? 🙄

Yep. I couldn't give a tiny shit about your 'journey'. Or your 'truth'. Or your fucking 'lived experience.' Trust me, you're not nearly as interesting as you think.

JackieLeeOhmyDarlinNsoul · 16/04/2026 13:27

RaraRachael · 16/04/2026 12:57

Everything's a journey nowadays and everybody has to have a story.

How did I reach mg 60s successfully with neither? 🙄

Perhaps a meander through the decades rather than a journey.
TV talent shows ..it's my journey and doing it for my dead (insert relative)
No you're doing it for yourselves.

XMissPlacedX · 16/04/2026 21:16

I can’t stand the word ‘Pudding’, it makes me cringe! It started when I was little and would be invited to a friends house for dinner. The whole family were really overweight and after every evening meal the mum would appear with a huge homemade cake or dessert of some kind and say “time for pudding”. The whole family would make their “ooh” and “ahh” noises when really they should have all been in a diet. The father died of a heart attack as he was morbidity obese and at the funeral there were piles and piles of fatty ‘puddings’.

SydneyCarton · 17/04/2026 10:13

Vinted sellers who put "selling due to weight loss" 🙄I'm now too thin for these jeans (thanks to my weight loss journey 😉) but you're not!

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