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If you said that you were “happy to spring for a takeaway”..

323 replies

CurlewKate · 05/04/2026 09:46

..would your friendship circle knew what you meant?

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InOverMyHead84 · 05/04/2026 15:12

Never heard of that one before.

Ludinous · 05/04/2026 15:28

Yeah, that you're paying for whoever is involved.
I'm surprised people haven't heard the expression before! It's fairly common, as far as I know. You definitely hear it on the TV. Although me and my wife often have discussions about things like this. I'm convinced that some people hear or read something they don't know the meaning of and their brain just doesn't register it or save it and they don't bother to look it up.

Bristolandlazy · 05/04/2026 15:44

No clue what you're talking about

Htcunya · 05/04/2026 15:46

If I read something I don't understand I usually look it up, but don't necessarily bother if it's clear in context.
On TV I might not notice anyway as it would be past in a second.

IsItOverYetPlease · 05/04/2026 15:49

Id have thought that was 'im up for paying for my part of a takeaway' but clearly I'm wrong!

ilovepixie · 05/04/2026 16:02

CurlewKate · 05/04/2026 11:44

Amazed to have started such a debate! For me it means-and has meant all my life-that I will pay for everyone. It was a term my father used, and he was Australian (that chimed with another couple of posters) BUT he was born a very long time ago, so it’s been around a while.

I remember first hearing the expression in one of the Aussie soaps, so likely comes from Australia

ILoveDaffodills · 05/04/2026 16:08

I'm surprised so many people are saying they haven't heard it!

it's not a phrase I use, (I'd say 'my shout' if I was going to say anything other than 'I'll pay')

but I did live in NZ for many years. My circle in England, I don't know, most would guess I think, but I'd generally make it more obvious I was happy to pay.

Zov · 05/04/2026 16:17

Brewtiful · 05/04/2026 13:03

But lots of posters in the UK have heard of it and for many it's commonly used in conversation so therefore for many it absolutely is a common phrase?

Yeah, not really. Common where you come from, but not common, no.

Zov · 05/04/2026 16:19

gostickyourheadinapig · 05/04/2026 13:07

If you spring for something, it means you pay for it. It is a phrase in common usage and is not safe to use if you don't want to pay for someone else's dinner/holiday/whatever.

It's not in common useage. Not all over the UK. I have literally never heard anyone say this. Ever. In nearly 60 years. And I have lived in several different parts of the UK. (South, North, and Midlands.)

Why do people assume that just because THEY say a certain thing that it is 'commonly used?' Weird!

Zov · 05/04/2026 16:20

ILoveDaffodills · 05/04/2026 16:08

I'm surprised so many people are saying they haven't heard it!

it's not a phrase I use, (I'd say 'my shout' if I was going to say anything other than 'I'll pay')

but I did live in NZ for many years. My circle in England, I don't know, most would guess I think, but I'd generally make it more obvious I was happy to pay.

I'm surprised some people are saying they HAVE heard it.

So there ya go.

Zov · 05/04/2026 16:21

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 05/04/2026 14:04

Never heard of it and I'd think anyone saying was a bit of a wally.

It sounds daft doesn't it? 'I will spring a takeaway!' WTAF? 😂

Whinge · 05/04/2026 16:23

Zov · 05/04/2026 16:21

It sounds daft doesn't it? 'I will spring a takeaway!' WTAF? 😂

You think spring for a takeaway sounds daft, but the same could be said about someone who writes WTAF. 🤷‍♀️

SwedishEdith · 05/04/2026 16:23

Ludinous · 05/04/2026 15:28

Yeah, that you're paying for whoever is involved.
I'm surprised people haven't heard the expression before! It's fairly common, as far as I know. You definitely hear it on the TV. Although me and my wife often have discussions about things like this. I'm convinced that some people hear or read something they don't know the meaning of and their brain just doesn't register it or save it and they don't bother to look it up.

I generally do notice new or unusual phrases - say them out loud in the character's voice afterwards. But this one has completely passed me by. I can "hear" it said by an Aussie though. Or even a F Scott Fitzgerald or Evelyn Waugh type character (not about a takeaway though 😄).

Trusttheawesome · 05/04/2026 16:31

Zov · 05/04/2026 16:21

It sounds daft doesn't it? 'I will spring a takeaway!' WTAF? 😂

It’s normally used about things which are a bit more extravagant. Like, “I’ll spring for first class.”
It’s about something that’s a bit of a “jump.”

Getting tickets for the rugby, and saying “Let’s spring for hospitality.” Something like that.

But can be a tongue in cheek way of saying you’ll treat for something more mundane, like springing for the coffees.

Paveparadiseputupaparkinglot · 05/04/2026 16:34

South East England and never heard of it

WildLeader · 05/04/2026 16:54

TwistedWonder · 05/04/2026 10:52

Yep. Im London /SE and it’s definitely not a commonly used expression here so I presume it’s regional

I’m SE Uk, spent 15 years in London, some other years living anbroad too and it’s definitely a phrase I know. And have used.

maybe it’s an age thing? A travelled thing? I don’t think being “well read” means you’ll have heard of it, it’s a wide experience of life/cultures that’s more likely to mean you’ve come across it.

Contrarymary30 · 05/04/2026 16:54

Arlingtonchase · 05/04/2026 09:49

Never heard of it.

Neither have I

WildLeader · 05/04/2026 16:56

My beloved OH is well travelled, well educated and grew up in London but he’s never heard of it.

he’s posher than I am, he reckons it’s a down market thing 😂😂 - he’s probably right.

WildLeader · 05/04/2026 17:00

Ludinous · 05/04/2026 15:28

Yeah, that you're paying for whoever is involved.
I'm surprised people haven't heard the expression before! It's fairly common, as far as I know. You definitely hear it on the TV. Although me and my wife often have discussions about things like this. I'm convinced that some people hear or read something they don't know the meaning of and their brain just doesn't register it or save it and they don't bother to look it up.

I reckon you’re right. So many people aren’t that interested in language and don’t pay attention to new expressions

olympicsrock · 05/04/2026 17:03

Never heard it. In my 40s have moved around and well educated / well read.

MovedlikeHarlowinMonteCarlo · 05/04/2026 17:03

WildLeader · 05/04/2026 16:56

My beloved OH is well travelled, well educated and grew up in London but he’s never heard of it.

he’s posher than I am, he reckons it’s a down market thing 😂😂 - he’s probably right.

He said "down market"?

He sounds delightful.

Arlingtonchase · 05/04/2026 17:05

WildLeader · 05/04/2026 17:00

I reckon you’re right. So many people aren’t that interested in language and don’t pay attention to new expressions

Perhaps it depends on what you watch or read? I am very interested in language, always look up anything I don’t understand and have never come across that expression before.

wherearethesnacks · 05/04/2026 17:06

It's often used in Ireland.

Mosaic123 · 05/04/2026 17:07

I'm sure I've read it in American novels and heard it said in American films.

I think it's quite an old fashioned expression? 1950s/2960s films?

Comefromaway · 05/04/2026 17:08

I’d have no idea what you meant.