I think ex is using court to harass me.
Long story about neglect and emotional abuse. Social services were involved. I paused contact.
Started contact during the day as per courts request, and he was emotionally abusing the kids again, so they stopped wanting to go.
Ex has then told the court I'm going to move away and I ended up getting a writ issued to me by sheriffs officers. I wasn't. Said a whole bunch of untrue things about me to court, including that he's terrified of me. Uses this 'fear' he has to ask the court for really disruptive and inconvenient things, and often get issued them. Said things about my past that are just blatant lies, some of it is stuff he's done and he's saying it's me that did it.
Then when contact was due to go ahead he just didn't show up.
What can I do about this, we are back again next month and it's just exhausting honestly. I'm expected to be perfect and facilitate everything, and he just doesn't bother his arse. I have to disrupt these poor kids, one is disabled as well, for him to just decide not to show, after I've spent ages mentally preparing them for a visit they don't even want.
I have massive responsibilities outside of all of this that are hard to keep juggling around him missing contact or insisting on a 2 hour window for calls, to call 1 minute before the deadline etc.
At what point will the court say enough is enough (oh you'll all be happy to know that he gets legal aid for all of this dicking about as well which is why hes doing it, its free and he gets to upset me and the kids)