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wtf just happened - TMI but help!

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Bathnotbarth · 29/03/2026 10:59

I know that this is TMI but I am genuinely slightly terrified.
I just masturbated, and immediately after I came I got the most blinding headache at the base of my head. Lasted about ten seconds and then disappeared.
This has never happened before. I am still lying here having not moved. I am by myself in my house.
I am in good health and feel OK now but that was scary. It really hurt! What the hell could it be and how do I make sure it never happens again?!

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Ilovelurchers · 29/03/2026 11:06

Right, I have zero medical training so this may be way off (and I suggest you consult a medical professional as soon as you can if you are concerned).

BUT

I experienced dramatic changes to orgasm when I was pregnant. Different to what you describe - I experienced strong contractions in my uterus. But it's was a sudden and very noticeable change, and passed off later in the pregnancy.

Is there any chance you could be pregnant, OP?

ginasevern · 29/03/2026 11:14

Is there any way that you sort of twisted or turned your body awkwardly and momentarily trapped a nerve?

shellyleppard · 29/03/2026 11:15

I used to get a headache post orgasm.....not very often but definitely noticeable

Sonolanona · 29/03/2026 12:43

It's a known thing... panic not. Apparently caused by sudden blood pressure rise (orgasm causes that) which dilates blood vessels in the head quickly.

Toddlerteaplease · 29/03/2026 12:49

Yes it’s a known thing.

EmeraldDreams73 · 29/03/2026 13:06

I've had this loads of times! It comes and goes (sorry 🤣) and can be many years between episodes. I've noticed it's more likely with a new partner or when dehydrated personally. I believe it's blood pressure related but it's horrible!

Satarn · 29/03/2026 13:36

I get ice pick headachs a few seconds of sharp sharp pain like zaps then its gone.
Mine can hit at anytime.

Bathnotbarth · 29/03/2026 15:23

Thank you all. I have since Googled it and apparently, like you say, it is a known thing. Who knew (you, obviously!)?

It was scary though! I lay there for a while not moving, hoping that my head wouldn't explode, then gingerly got up and had a shower etc and everything has been normal since. But how very strange and not nice! Need to make sure it doesn't happen again. I wonder if it was dehydration. I had a couple of glasses of wine last night and hadn't drunk anything else.

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Bathnotbarth · 07/04/2026 08:46

God it happened again this morning. And this time I wasn't dehydrated. I think I may have to have the world's most embarrassing doctors appointment.

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Riapia · 07/04/2026 10:14

Shouldn’t think it’s serious, but what a way to go!
Sorry. 🌺🌺.

Bathnotbarth · 07/04/2026 10:48

Riapia · 07/04/2026 10:14

Shouldn’t think it’s serious, but what a way to go!
Sorry. 🌺🌺.

Ha! I have thought that myself. Wouldn't mind going that way to be honest. But preferably not for about another 60 years!

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ShakyBake · 07/04/2026 20:49

This happened to a friend of mine who was using an Hitachi Magic Wand but it was not correctly power adjusted from USA to UK and was sending out a small electric shock. Are you using a Hitachi with attachment?

Bathnotbarth · 08/04/2026 11:31

ShakyBake · 07/04/2026 20:49

This happened to a friend of mine who was using an Hitachi Magic Wand but it was not correctly power adjusted from USA to UK and was sending out a small electric shock. Are you using a Hitachi with attachment?

I am not. Don't think it's an electric supply issue sadly!

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