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Have you ever Escaped to the Country?

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merryandbrightdelight · 22/03/2026 12:57

Not exactly AIBU but let’s leave it here.

Watching Escape to the Country and I’ll admit it’s my total guilty pleasure, especially when the couple have a budget of £650k but can ‘stretch to £900k for the right property’.

So my question is, have you or anyone you know ever escaped to the country? Or what would it look like to you?

I’m in the North East, and to me it’s Devon, the Cotswolds or Chipping Norton area. Streams, a village pub, wooden beams in chocolate box cottages, birds singing, hanging baskets, dog walks etc. Pretty much nothing like where I live now 😂

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Allisgoodtoday · 23/03/2026 08:43

Yes, I escaped, I absolutely love it. I've always been a country girl but after my divorce many years ago I initially commuted to London to work and then moved to the South East for a different job. It was noisy, crowded, utterly dreadful, too many people!

Many years later I'm in an idyllic rural area. I live somewhere where the lanes are so tiny it's passing places only, where the only sound is bird song and the sheep....or the howling winds in winter. We have snow pretty well every winter, usually several times.

No-where is crowded, the main roads are often empty, it's bliss. And yes, I'm retired. The constant "but wait until you're retired and can't get anywhere" is rubbish. I'm living my retirement dream.

There are few people so healthcare doesn't have such long lists as we had down south years ago. Doctor's surgeries have outposts in villages so that any prescription or extra drugs are delivered to the surgery, you don't need to take a prescription to the chemist in town, it's dispensed at the surgery. Or even delivered to your door if you sign up to a special service.
Any medical questions are done via the GP online, hospital transport will take you to the large cities (most are 50 miles away) - operations we get a choice of which hospital we want. Never had that down south.

There are neighbours so it's possible to make friends, local villages have church groups, the village hall puts on all sorts of groups, fayres, keep fit etc. (not that I bother going but it's there). Currently I still have a car but I'm already looking to the time when I won't be driving. Shopping can be ordered online and delivered. Very rural areas have a network of services which visit, such as the travelling library (twice a month) and even the chip shop van which sells pizzas, fish and chips etc. (again not my thing but it's there for those who do).

Most of all I love living close to nature, the silence, the lack of "town stress" and people, the gentleness of it all and the freedom of the countryside. Just love it!

Cherrysoup · 23/03/2026 17:20

merryandbrightdelight · 22/03/2026 21:25

This is very true - I’m 45 minutes from Whitley Bay (going there for lunch on Saturday actually to meet up with some friends I used to work with). There are some lovely hidden gems around here

I’m from Newcastle and my family is determined we should move up there. It’s definitely better value than the area we’re planning on moving to in a few months, but we both love where we’re going and have spent years researching.

NinjaGin · 24/03/2026 18:35

Gettingbysomehow · 22/03/2026 15:02

Yup, firstly on the south downs national park and recently Somerset but I did it on a much smaller budget. I was dragged up in London and hated it so I escaped to the country at my earliest opportunity.
I am now surrounded by countryside and woodland on all sides and half an hour from the Jurassic coast in Devon.

Interesting how people have different experiences - I’m literally the opposite of you. Grew up in Wiltshire, private school in Bath…so far sounds idyllic? It was claustrophobic and judgemental as fuck. I couldn’t wait to leave to a city (v small fry but Plymouth was a good interlude). Then London from age 22…still here near 25 years later. It’s a total basket case (live in the borough of Croydon, which is not the same as the town itself) but I love it. Love visiting the countryside but the issues (primarily views..) make it very unpleasant and have me running back on more than one occasion to crappy old Croydon.

ThisTicklishFatball · 25/03/2026 13:56

I’m from a small village, and interestingly, I grew up on a large farm, which made my experience quite unique. It wasn’t far from a quaint yet well-developed market town with a bustling train station.

Because of work commitments for both me and my DH, we live in a large city and don’t have plans to move to the countryside anytime soon, but we make trips there whenever we can.

I don’t have anything in common with all the negativity here.

Life in rural areas has greatly improved with reliable internet access and decent speeds. It’s like having the whole world and endless online opportunities right at our fingertips. Still, some people here behave as if the internet is nonexistent in rural communities.

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