I remember one day when ds must have been perhaps 2. I picked him up from the childminder at 1230, took him home for lunch which was only round the corner. We ate and at some point he decided that it would be best to rest his eyelids while eating. Then he ate very slowly for a few mouthfuls with his eyes closed. Then he found that his plate was quite a comfortable place to rest his head. Then I picked him out of his high chair, he was a big heavy weight, and carried him up to his cot fast asleep. I can still remember holding the weight of him curved into my body, and it may be the last memory on my deathbed.