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Am I the Winner or can you do better than this?

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HeadDeskHeadDesk · 13/03/2026 12:55

I have 8016 emails in my inbox. They go back years and years.

Probably around 7500 of them are unread, unsolicited spammy crap. Why it is that you buy a skirt or a bouquet of flowers or a door knob once from one company and they think you want to hear from them twice a fucking week for the rest of all time I DO NOT KNOW. I'm constantly clicking unsubscribe but it seems to make no difference. It's like Whack-a-Mole or zombie slaying. You can't kill them off, ever.

And of the rest that were not spam, probably only 400 were ever actually important and truly necessary. They should be sorted out, deleted or moved to a file I suppose, but I've long since lost track of it all and don't know where to start, so I just continue to ignore them all. I'm tempted to just delete the entire lot but there is that fear that there is bound to be something I'll need to refer to later, and I'll have stupidly deleted it.

I loathe my email inbox. Absolutely loathe it. It overwhelms me. Clutters up my life and my brain and my devices for no good reason. I avoid looking at it, so when something actually important arrives I often don't spot it for days or weeks.

I really wish it was just illegal to send people junk mail through their inbox. It could send a person mad. No wonder everyone is burnt out, can't concentrate and convinced they've got ADHD or autism. The onslaught of communication and people fighting for our attention is relentless.

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Walker1178 · 13/03/2026 15:10

This is an absolute bugbear of mine, I’d absolutely hate it. I’ve told DP he’ll know if I ever go through his phone because I’d tidy up the thousands of notifications he has on practically every app. He doesn’t just hoard emails but messages on every platform. ARGGGHHHH

notnorman · 13/03/2026 15:12

Quite a few on my phone

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ElinoristhenewEnid · 13/03/2026 15:17

I have 7 emails in my inbox all read and there for a purpose - I became ruthless and is so much easier to

Devilsmommy · 13/03/2026 15:20

And this is why I delete emails every day because otherwise I dread to think of the amount of storage it would be taking up

FalseSpring · 13/03/2026 19:53

Not by a long shot! 214,750 and that is only one of 4 email addresses! I really need to spend some time purging it all but it just seems such a huge job.

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Waitingfordoggo · 13/03/2026 20:39

I don’t want to sound like I’m lecturing, but just want to mention that keeping large amounts of any kind of data (emails, photos…) takes up space in servers and therefore has an environmental impact (and when you think of that magnified by billions across the globe, it’s significant). It’s just one example of how changing our behaviour (if enough of us do it) can have an impact. AI also has a big environmental impact. I expect everyone already knows this but mentioning just in case.

PurpleFresias · 13/03/2026 21:37

@PretzelChoci did not know you could change the swipe action - thank you! my emails are actually the most organised part of my life by far, but this will make a big difference to mansion them

TofuTuesday · 13/03/2026 22:36

Waitingfordoggo · 13/03/2026 20:39

I don’t want to sound like I’m lecturing, but just want to mention that keeping large amounts of any kind of data (emails, photos…) takes up space in servers and therefore has an environmental impact (and when you think of that magnified by billions across the globe, it’s significant). It’s just one example of how changing our behaviour (if enough of us do it) can have an impact. AI also has a big environmental impact. I expect everyone already knows this but mentioning just in case.

We should lecture this stuff. It’s so simple and yet could have an impact of everyone did it.

LoveheartBear · 13/03/2026 22:45

I thought I was the winner with 205,849, but I see someone before me has a higher number ☺️.

Am I the Winner or can you do better than this?
in2mnds · 14/03/2026 00:20

11,326 UNREAD emails in my inbox. Need to clean, as I am using 15.9GB of storage just for emails, but can’t be arsed.

shuffleofftobuffalo · 14/03/2026 06:32

76650

Theraffarian · 14/03/2026 06:42

Have a few separate folders so important receipts, holiday info etc gets moved straight to them . Daily delete anything I don't need and unsubscribe as I go . Currently no unread emails, but now I'm thinking I'm the odd one !

DancingLions · 14/03/2026 10:35

I very regularly unsubscribe to everything. I buy a lot of stuff online and I don’t want to see all the sales and offers tempting me into spending more! Then at the start of each year I make a new folder for that year and anything important I need to keep (there’s not much) goes into that folder.

I’m disorganised in many areas of life but emails is one I always keep on top of. Likewise work emails, everything is dealt with/moved to folders so my inbox is always empty.

Labelledelune · 14/03/2026 12:43

HeadDeskHeadDesk · 13/03/2026 12:55

I have 8016 emails in my inbox. They go back years and years.

Probably around 7500 of them are unread, unsolicited spammy crap. Why it is that you buy a skirt or a bouquet of flowers or a door knob once from one company and they think you want to hear from them twice a fucking week for the rest of all time I DO NOT KNOW. I'm constantly clicking unsubscribe but it seems to make no difference. It's like Whack-a-Mole or zombie slaying. You can't kill them off, ever.

And of the rest that were not spam, probably only 400 were ever actually important and truly necessary. They should be sorted out, deleted or moved to a file I suppose, but I've long since lost track of it all and don't know where to start, so I just continue to ignore them all. I'm tempted to just delete the entire lot but there is that fear that there is bound to be something I'll need to refer to later, and I'll have stupidly deleted it.

I loathe my email inbox. Absolutely loathe it. It overwhelms me. Clutters up my life and my brain and my devices for no good reason. I avoid looking at it, so when something actually important arrives I often don't spot it for days or weeks.

I really wish it was just illegal to send people junk mail through their inbox. It could send a person mad. No wonder everyone is burnt out, can't concentrate and convinced they've got ADHD or autism. The onslaught of communication and people fighting for our attention is relentless.

I use Hotmail for buying things and get all the rubbish on there. Anything important like insurances etc I use Proton mail, I’ve never had one spam email or add come through it’s brilliant.

pottylolly · 14/03/2026 16:45

100k unread but I think it’s more - the count reset a little while ago

iliketobereasonable · 14/03/2026 19:44

22317 however I mistakenly hit the ‘mark all as read’ button the other year when I had >50k unread. It’s a Hotmail account that I use to sign up to anything online which may send me junk mail.

ImogenBrocklehurst · 15/03/2026 10:23

HeadDeskHeadDesk · 13/03/2026 12:55

I have 8016 emails in my inbox. They go back years and years.

Probably around 7500 of them are unread, unsolicited spammy crap. Why it is that you buy a skirt or a bouquet of flowers or a door knob once from one company and they think you want to hear from them twice a fucking week for the rest of all time I DO NOT KNOW. I'm constantly clicking unsubscribe but it seems to make no difference. It's like Whack-a-Mole or zombie slaying. You can't kill them off, ever.

And of the rest that were not spam, probably only 400 were ever actually important and truly necessary. They should be sorted out, deleted or moved to a file I suppose, but I've long since lost track of it all and don't know where to start, so I just continue to ignore them all. I'm tempted to just delete the entire lot but there is that fear that there is bound to be something I'll need to refer to later, and I'll have stupidly deleted it.

I loathe my email inbox. Absolutely loathe it. It overwhelms me. Clutters up my life and my brain and my devices for no good reason. I avoid looking at it, so when something actually important arrives I often don't spot it for days or weeks.

I really wish it was just illegal to send people junk mail through their inbox. It could send a person mad. No wonder everyone is burnt out, can't concentrate and convinced they've got ADHD or autism. The onslaught of communication and people fighting for our attention is relentless.

I see your 8016 and raise you:

Am I the Winner or can you do better than this?
EvieBB · 15/03/2026 22:51

GoldilocksIsALittleSod · 13/03/2026 13:01

Wholeheartedly agree OP. Why do companies assume that once you have bought whatever item it is, you will need another a week later? I bought a sodding fish tank a month ago and I keep getting emails about fish tanks.....what kind of set up do they think I have? I've got a few goldfish not the chuffing Sea Life Centre!!!
I wish they were banned from sending marketing emails, it should be an opt in situation, not opt out.

😂

skiqueen20 · 15/03/2026 22:54

over the past few weeks I’ve just deleted 14.5k unread emails. It feels great now they have gone.

dizzydizzydizzy · 15/03/2026 22:57

374,000 and that is just my inbox. I set up the
email address in 1996.

HangingOver · 15/03/2026 22:58

4903, positively angelic 😁

ParmaVioletTea · 15/03/2026 23:09

I just clear out all the marketing emails each morning. I have several email addresses and use them for different things.

Womaninhouse17 · 17/03/2026 01:19

My email automatically gets sorted into the Inbox or Junk. Every day or two, I scan down the Junk ones and empty the folder. I get about 20 to 30 junk ones a day - the same old ones, year in, year out - and nothing I'm remotely interested in. I tried unsubscribing and reporting phishing but it seemed to make matters so I don't bother now. But why do they do it? It's like continually posting a load of rubbish through your letterbox and it gives me an unnecessary chore. Really annoying.

Womaninhouse17 · 17/03/2026 01:21

Screamingabdabz · 13/03/2026 13:09

I don’t see what’s so difficult about keeping on top of it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Group them by sender and bulk delete the junk ones. Deal with any crucial ones and start afresh. Log in every day and use a junk filter/unsubscribe. It’s really not hard. You can also use AI software that does it for you.

It's not difficult but it's a tedious chore I haven't asked for and it seems so pointless.

SerenitySeeker4 · 17/03/2026 01:30

I totally agree with you OP. I also have so many unread emails and those promotion ones just annoy me so much. I just try to unsubscribe to any promotional email I get.

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