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thetallfairy · 07/03/2026 19:04

so the dream has been to buy a place in Paris and hopefully spend a lot of time there when I retire

I have seen a lovely studio
255 000 euro

it would be 1100 euro a month for the mortgage over 20 years

I dont know if it would be easy to air b and b it for 90 days a year and if so could end up covering a lot of the rent

this is a dream

but am I being crazy to go ahead

fees are obv 10k on top of that

air b n b may need the whole building approval?

I have lots of relative who would want to use it too

a cousin who would like it for a month per year at least

it is in a good central location
metro 15 min walk
nice area

but the hesitation is thinking about the what ifs....

what if there are bad neighbours
what if some months I cant cover my payments etc
what If the insurance is so high
or the place is freezing cold each winter??

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Huckleberries · 07/03/2026 23:28

There is a lot to look at

We once looked at buying a house abroad, actually also in France but the countryside

Is too much of a hassle though it was a lovely dream

also, can you get a 20 year mortgage at this point?

LucyLoo1972 · 07/03/2026 23:34

what is making you want to do this OP?

im not judging - just wondering

my mum bought a place in Tuscany near Siena not speaking any Italian and not even having use of the internet!!!! so it can be done.

I did a lot of the sorting out for her though nad dealign with things

Redheadedstepchild · 07/03/2026 23:38

@youalright Exactly. I emigrated by accident 26 years ago and have always worked in tourism, catering, hospitality, transport, you name it but by far, the worst gigs were dealing with holiday letting property.

In any capacity. Big villas, small studios, anything in between.

Redheadedstepchild · 07/03/2026 23:53

Redheadedstepchild · 07/03/2026 23:38

@youalright Exactly. I emigrated by accident 26 years ago and have always worked in tourism, catering, hospitality, transport, you name it but by far, the worst gigs were dealing with holiday letting property.

In any capacity. Big villas, small studios, anything in between.

Sometimes it wasn't the guests' fault at all. Misleading descriptions of the accommodation, weird photos.

A door handle that has to be done, "Like this."
A toilet flush that had to be handled, "Not too brusque."

Don't involve yourself in it all OP.

And that, is my honest opinion.

GrandmasCat · 08/03/2026 06:05

Did you say you need to get approval from the neighbours in the building to use it as a holiday let? If so.., that’s the reason is reasonably priced, you will never do. It is a nuisance they don’t want to bring to their door.

PensionMention · 08/03/2026 06:37

Is the cousin going to pay you to rent it out and the other relatives. Would this be enough to assist without risking letting it out.mA friend let out her holiday home and it was so much hassle she just stopped doing it,within the UK.

EmpressaurusKitty · 08/03/2026 06:40

Did you say you need to get approval from the neighbours in the building to use it as a holiday let? If so.., that’s the reason is reasonably priced, you will never do. It is a nuisance they don’t want to bring to their door.

Exactly.

Nobody wants an Air B&B flat in their block.

CoCoJones26 · 08/03/2026 06:41

Sounds like a lovely dream, but totally impractical for you!

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 08/03/2026 08:22

If you've got the money to buy then you've got the money to take holidays there for years to come, without the stress and worry (and expense) of owning property. With "remote" property, whether it's empty or let there's always worry that it will be damaged, broken into, or needing repairs while you're away. When you come to sell, will you be able to sell at a profit? Will you be able to sell at all? Will it become a millstone around your neck?

Only you can assess what, on balance, is the best way forward.

thetallfairy · 08/03/2026 09:23

Redheadedstepchild · 07/03/2026 23:05

I've just looked up AirB&B and you can sign up to a, "Co-host" programme. A local person who will manage the flat for you. For a fee.

Sounds absolutely lovely! Trustworthy. No pitfalls at all. No scope to fleece anybody!

I mean, it does work, in some way, or else AirB&B would have folded by now but I don't know if I would want to involve myself.

well that is so helpful

thank you !!!!!

good to know that

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thetallfairy · 08/03/2026 09:24

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 08/03/2026 08:22

If you've got the money to buy then you've got the money to take holidays there for years to come, without the stress and worry (and expense) of owning property. With "remote" property, whether it's empty or let there's always worry that it will be damaged, broken into, or needing repairs while you're away. When you come to sell, will you be able to sell at a profit? Will you be able to sell at all? Will it become a millstone around your neck?

Only you can assess what, on balance, is the best way forward.

Edited

very good point there

thank you !!!

that's the worry

first world problem

grew up with nothing so always the fear that I will lose a lot of it

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thetallfairy · 08/03/2026 09:25

EmpressaurusKitty · 08/03/2026 06:40

Did you say you need to get approval from the neighbours in the building to use it as a holiday let? If so.., that’s the reason is reasonably priced, you will never do. It is a nuisance they don’t want to bring to their door.

Exactly.

Nobody wants an Air B&B flat in their block.

Edited

and can you blame them
why should they!!!!

so it would then be for my family friends and a relative who would stay one month per year but I cant see him paying much to use it

so falls on me for insurance, mortgage, repair, fees, the list grows

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thetallfairy · 08/03/2026 09:29

PensionMention · 08/03/2026 06:37

Is the cousin going to pay you to rent it out and the other relatives. Would this be enough to assist without risking letting it out.mA friend let out her holiday home and it was so much hassle she just stopped doing it,within the UK.

I cant see him paying anything really

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thetallfairy · 08/03/2026 09:30

CoCoJones26 · 08/03/2026 06:41

Sounds like a lovely dream, but totally impractical for you!

my fear exactly

I think air b n b for a few weeks throughout the year is prob best

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thetallfairy · 08/03/2026 09:35

LucyLoo1972 · 07/03/2026 23:34

what is making you want to do this OP?

im not judging - just wondering

my mum bought a place in Tuscany near Siena not speaking any Italian and not even having use of the internet!!!! so it can be done.

I did a lot of the sorting out for her though nad dealign with things

been a dream for I would say 20 years
but I am also a bit unaware of the putfalls

so prob a crazy dream

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thetallfairy · 08/03/2026 09:36

Huckleberries · 07/03/2026 23:28

There is a lot to look at

We once looked at buying a house abroad, actually also in France but the countryside

Is too much of a hassle though it was a lovely dream

also, can you get a 20 year mortgage at this point?

yes they said I can

aiming to retire early

I have pets so how would I ever get them over to me
hmmmm

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thetallfairy · 08/03/2026 09:37

ForAmusedHazelQuoter · 07/03/2026 21:57

Wouldn’t it be more sensible to rent somewhere in France for Easter and Christmas?
I think it’s the relying on rental income that would put me off plus it would be so nice not to have to do this and treat it 100% as a second home.

yes that is what I am thinking now

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thetallfairy · 08/03/2026 09:38

youalright · 07/03/2026 23:26

I had a relative who bought an apartment in spain and the amount of hassle with guests damaging property, cleaners not doing what they are supposed to etc its hard when you are not there to oversee things. Everytime they went to enjoy it themselves they spent the whole time having to fix things and sort issues. They ended up selling it and just using the money to enjoy actual holidays it also meant they could travel more rather then repeatedly having to return to the same place

sad to hear that

can you imagine all the hassle of this

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thetallfairy · 11/03/2026 20:01

so helpful

I think a few weeks in an. air b n b per year is possibly the best way forward

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thetallfairy · 12/03/2026 21:46

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