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Do you indicate if there's nobody else around?

136 replies

Cryingatthegym · 07/03/2026 13:36

Hard hitting question of the day...

Was thinking about this yesterday as I drove to my gym which is along a quiet country lane - no other cars around at all but I still indicated as I turned in.

Got me wondering if I'm normal or not? Do you still indicate even if there's nobody else around to see it?

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Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 07/03/2026 15:38

mugglewump · 07/03/2026 15:34

I sometimes even indicate when the road bends. There is no downside to being generous with your indicating providing you follow through with the manoevre

Are you joking?

singthing · 07/03/2026 16:02

I always do partly out of habit and partly because I don't believe I am a superhuman 100% perfect driver who never makes a mistake (like failing to spot another road user who may be not easily seen/just arriving into my vision etc).

FlowerFairyDaisy · 07/03/2026 16:08

Yes. My dad taught me to.

It’s not about informing other people but about having standards and doing the right thing even when no-one’s around to see it. And it should apply to other areas of life for everyone.

Cryingatthegym · 07/03/2026 16:43

Ooh I hadn't realised this would be quite such a divisive topic! For clarity, I was including cyclists and pedestrians in my 'nobody around'.

I can see both sides of this - really interesting to hear what PPs said about advanced driving and not automatically indicating meaning you're more aware of your manoeuvre, but I also understand those who'd rather be safe than sorry in case there's someone around they hadn't noticed.

I'd like to think I fall into the latter category and not in the 'driving on autopilot' camp Grin

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DrLevy · 07/03/2026 17:29

I don’t. And honestly the posters saying ‘it’s automatic’ are just indicating (pun intended) that they are not reading the road. I don’t automatically do anything when driving. I read the road, I see everything, consider the conditions and adapt my driving continuously during my drive. That’s defensive driving.

DrLevy · 07/03/2026 17:30

FlowerFairyDaisy · 07/03/2026 16:08

Yes. My dad taught me to.

It’s not about informing other people but about having standards and doing the right thing even when no-one’s around to see it. And it should apply to other areas of life for everyone.

Hahaha standards; what the hell?

onelumporthree · 07/03/2026 17:33

Mirror, signal, manoeuvre.

It's not hard. Just do it. Do it every time.

FlowerFairyDaisy · 07/03/2026 17:36

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No you should explain what the mystery standards are. Accusing me of not being very bright yet driving to some weird and unnecessary ’standard’ and ‘doing the right thing’ when actually, indicating to nobody isn’t ’the right thing’ it’s the exact opposite.

busyd4y · 07/03/2026 17:40

FlowerFairyDaisy · 07/03/2026 16:08

Yes. My dad taught me to.

It’s not about informing other people but about having standards and doing the right thing even when no-one’s around to see it. And it should apply to other areas of life for everyone.

I'm guessing your Dad learned to drive decades ago, the advanced driver training is clear that you dont need to indicate if there's no one to see you

It's nothing to do with standards, no ones watching from the sky and giving you marks 😁

I do agree about standards in general but its bonkers to extend that to indicating

Pollypaper · 07/03/2026 17:45

The one time I nearly didn't check my blindspot when I was doing a uturn in a deserted shop car park at 7am in the morning, a motorcyclist appeared from nowhere with him and his partner behind him. I've never not checked my blindspot or indicated since. You just never know when someone may appear.

UniquePinkSwan · 07/03/2026 17:46

No. Why would you need to?

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MrsTerryPratchett · 07/03/2026 18:02

Badbadbunny · 07/03/2026 14:06

The opposite actually, you really DO want to be thinking through every decision - mistakes happen if you don't!

I disagree. We have two thinking systems, 1 and 2. 1 is quick, automatic, efficient and used for habitual behaviour. 2 is slow, thoughtful, conscious and deliberate. Driving is often using system 1 because we’re often using system 2 for navigation to unusual places, processing out of the normal information like weather anomalies or a weird thing coming towards us.

Your advanced driving class wasn’t run by a behavioural psychologist.

System 1 is so quick that it’s much more useful in an emergency as long as you’ve trained muscle memory for things like not braking in a skid.

CeffylCoch · 07/03/2026 18:21

No but maybe because I live rurally i’m used to it

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 07/03/2026 18:29

Yes. It's automatic and courteous.

Lest you become a BMW driver....

mondaytosunday · 07/03/2026 18:30

Yes as it’s habit.

HotChocCreamAndMarshmallows · 07/03/2026 18:44

Pricesandvices · 07/03/2026 13:47

No. Indicators are to tell other people what I am doing. Once I have checked and established there is no one else around then I don't need to indicate.

Advanced driving tells you off for indicating at no one as it shows you aren't paying attention. My teacher would ask me who I was indicating to when I started advanced driving and was on auto pilot.

Correct. Advanced driving teaches not to indicate if no-one around as otherwise it shows you’re not paying attention to your surroundings. In the same way you shouldn’t indicate in an e.g. left hand turn only filter lane.

For those saying yes because it’s a habit…this is EXACTLY what the advanced driver training is getting at…you shouldn’t be doing it out of habit, it should be part of a conscious maneuver and that involved a conscious assessment of whether another car (or pedestrian) needs to know what you’re doing.

Badbadbunny · 07/03/2026 18:46

Delphiniumandlupins · 07/03/2026 14:19

Those who don't indicate "if there's nobody around", do pedestrians count as someone? Genuine question as I don't drive and wonder often if these drivers are pillocks to other drivers or just me.

Yes, you indicate for all other "road users", not just cars, etc., so you should be thinking about cyclists, pedestrians, etc., when you consider whether there's a need to indicate or not.

HotChocCreamAndMarshmallows · 07/03/2026 18:47

Badbadbunny · 07/03/2026 18:46

Yes, you indicate for all other "road users", not just cars, etc., so you should be thinking about cyclists, pedestrians, etc., when you consider whether there's a need to indicate or not.

Yes. But if there are none of these around then correct driving is to not indicate.

GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 07/03/2026 18:51

i always indicate:

Ithink what someone comes out of a hidden drive or suddenly appears from nowhere driving at speed.

f1mercedesfan · 07/03/2026 18:59

On a clear road where its straight and you can see fairly far in the distance I would not indicate as its definitely clear, but turning in or out of a junction near a bend I would just in case someone comes around the bend while I am approaching the turn or turning

wordler · 07/03/2026 19:00

HotChocCreamAndMarshmallows · 07/03/2026 18:44

Correct. Advanced driving teaches not to indicate if no-one around as otherwise it shows you’re not paying attention to your surroundings. In the same way you shouldn’t indicate in an e.g. left hand turn only filter lane.

For those saying yes because it’s a habit…this is EXACTLY what the advanced driver training is getting at…you shouldn’t be doing it out of habit, it should be part of a conscious maneuver and that involved a conscious assessment of whether another car (or pedestrian) needs to know what you’re doing.

But it is part of a conscious maneuver if the reason you are doing it is because you never know on some roads and environments if there is a pedestrian you’ve missed or in a blind spot, or an unexpectedly fast moving vehicle comes up behind you or from the road you are turning into.

I mean yes, if you are on one of those big empty roads with no hedges, fences, buildings etc and you can see a long way in all directions that there are no vehicles, bikes or pedestrians around then you make a conscious decision to not indicate.

But in suburban areas, and even rural area where there are visual obstructions I would always err on the side of caution in case I’d missed something.

Sunshineclouds11 · 07/03/2026 19:05

I don't. What's the point if no one is around?

Cyclists and pedestrians included

Yennefer17 · 07/03/2026 19:21

Pricesandvices · 07/03/2026 13:47

No. Indicators are to tell other people what I am doing. Once I have checked and established there is no one else around then I don't need to indicate.

Advanced driving tells you off for indicating at no one as it shows you aren't paying attention. My teacher would ask me who I was indicating to when I started advanced driving and was on auto pilot.

I did advanced driving too and came here to same the same thing :)

Unfortunately with the new (rental) cars, I experienced that you must indicate otherwise Lane departure system takes over control.

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