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What do you think of those with PhD?

247 replies

whyyyyyisitmonddayy · 04/03/2026 20:04

Particularly those in non-stem fields. Just curious!

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HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 05/03/2026 07:03

Ladamesansmerci · 04/03/2026 23:41

Well, I would usually presume you have come from a fairly privileged background to be able to finance that much education.

Beyond that, I'm just impressed. I have ADHD and could never commit to 1 topic for multiple years 😂 Academically I know I would be capable of completing a PhD, but I absolutely do not possess the motivation and dedication for it.

My partner did one and it looked like a fucking slog imo.

Edited

I have a PhD and I’m most definitely not from a privileged background. I grew up in one of the most deprived areas in the country and was the first (still only) person in my family to go to university.

Most PhD’s are funded in some way and lots of us worked while studying.

PheasantandAstronomers · 05/03/2026 07:03

Ironmanssparesuit · 05/03/2026 07:02

I would think they are very clever, and quite single minded.
I'd also think they were probably male, or didn't have children when they were doing it!

What an odd assumption!

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 05/03/2026 07:07

TheFilliesWillRiseAgain · 05/03/2026 06:59

It just means nothing now.

It was something impressive up until about 2015

What?

Only 1% of the population have a PhD.

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Calliopespa · 05/03/2026 07:08

Ironmanssparesuit · 05/03/2026 07:03

What on earth happened in 2015?

@TheFilliesWillRiseAgain 's SIL got a doctorate?

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 05/03/2026 07:08

Ironmanssparesuit · 05/03/2026 07:02

I would think they are very clever, and quite single minded.
I'd also think they were probably male, or didn't have children when they were doing it!

You need to check your unconscious bias! I’m female and my DS was 2 when I started my PhD!

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 05/03/2026 07:09

Calliopespa · 05/03/2026 07:08

@TheFilliesWillRiseAgain 's SIL got a doctorate?

😂

Ironmanssparesuit · 05/03/2026 07:12

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 05/03/2026 07:08

You need to check your unconscious bias! I’m female and my DS was 2 when I started my PhD!

That's not unconscious bias at all, it's an understanding of the extra load most mothers face in a sexist society - I'm not saying it's right.

HopeYouMarryRich · 05/03/2026 07:13

2 of my friends have a PhD, one in a STEM subject, one in a non STEM subject. I know how hard they worked to complete them alongside having children and working so I admire them. They’re my friends though so obviously I know them well. I don’t really think anything specific about anyone else who has a PhD, but I presume they worked incredibly hard to complete it. It’s an achievement, one I wouldn’t have had the discipline for!

Ironmanssparesuit · 05/03/2026 07:14

Ah I suppose I'm thinking of people doing their phd while also working - the ones I've known have been teachers doing it part time alongside work.

SouthernNights59 · 05/03/2026 07:22

I don't think about them at all, they are just people, like the rest of us. It takes a lot to impress me. 😃

The one person I do actually know who has a PhD is an absolute dick (and not particularly bright about some matters)!

MiddleAgedDread · 05/03/2026 07:23

Avoiding getting a proper job ;)

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 05/03/2026 07:25

Ironmanssparesuit · 05/03/2026 07:14

Ah I suppose I'm thinking of people doing their phd while also working - the ones I've known have been teachers doing it part time alongside work.

I did mine while working full time.
If you automatically think male or childless woman when you see PhD then that is absolutely your unconscious biases being articulated.
Those biases are, of course, influenced by society/culture/experiences but they are still biases!

NameChangeSOS · 05/03/2026 07:29

Haven't RTWT but have read the first two pages or so.

I have a non STEM PhD, completed part time, paid for it myself, did it alongside work as a single parent. It was an absolute slog at times.

Dr. - definitely. I am considered an expert in my field on a national level, I worked for it and I use it.

I couldn't imagine explaining why I wouldn't use my hard earned title to my kids tbh.

TheFilliesWillRiseAgain · 05/03/2026 07:36

From about 2015 universities became so obsessed with identity politics that it impacted funding for research projects on a scale that we hadn't seen before.

As an example - Sally Hines is one of the UK's most funded academics. And she's a total men can get pregnant crank

MushMonster · 05/03/2026 07:37

I do have a PhD, in Science.
At first glance it is unlikely you spot a difference between a PhD and a graduate.
But I do know how much work and dedication it takes, how you need to cope with pressures and failures and challenges and work dynamics on the daily. It is a long term goal, which outcome only depends on how hard to persue it. I do think of other PhDs that I can rely on their discipline and hard work, bar a few exceptions here and there.

Strawberrryfields · 05/03/2026 07:38

Don’t really think much about it just good for them. It’s not something I’m interested in myself but I can appreciate it’s a lot of work even in an area you’ve chosen/ enjoy. STEM or no STEM doesn’t change how I think about it.

Why do you ask?

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 05/03/2026 07:41

TheFilliesWillRiseAgain · 05/03/2026 07:36

From about 2015 universities became so obsessed with identity politics that it impacted funding for research projects on a scale that we hadn't seen before.

As an example - Sally Hines is one of the UK's most funded academics. And she's a total men can get pregnant crank

That doesn’t devalue PhDs though.

My PhD is in education. The work that has followed my PhD has helped and supported thousands of young people from disadvantaged backgrounds.
Like almost all of my colleagues my doctorate was funded by my university directly and was not paid for by research grants or external funding.

IDasIX · 05/03/2026 07:42

Calliopespa · 04/03/2026 22:09

Depends on the university to some degree BUT broadly speaking they require dedication and intelligence that is applicable beyond just the narrow subject area, so on the whole I think kudos to them.

Why does it depend on the university?

I know some people think post-92 universities hand out undergraduate degrees to anyone that wanders past, but it’s not true and it’s certainly not any ‘easier’ to get a PhD from York St John’s than it is from University of York.

DeanElderberry · 05/03/2026 07:43

They are intelligent and capable of focussed hard work over a long period of time. Usually able to work and think independently (supervision standards vary a lot).

Importantly these days, they should understand how knowledge building works, how opinions can be influenced by single-issue thinkers driven by their obsessions, that ideas change over time but basic measurable facts don't, that sizes of data sets are relevant. To be very wary of research funded by big businesses with things to sell. To be wary of either over-simplified OR over-complicated writing. A PhD should be a bullshit detector.

Increasingly, I think history is the most important subject, though my PhD (earned way back in the 20th C) was in a slightly more scientific discipline.

I don't usually use any title - I'm Mary Murphy not Ms Murphy - but having the option of being Dr M Murphy is handy when dealing with a misogynist world.

Name changed to protect anonymity.

Womaninhouse17 · 05/03/2026 07:44

I think they've worked hard and must have been dedicated and disciplined. I wish I could have done the same.

IDasIX · 05/03/2026 07:44

Duvetdayneeded · 04/03/2026 23:36

Depends on the subject. A PhD in media is vastly different to a PhD which is looking to cure cancer…..

In what way do you consider it vastly different?

As far as I know, no PhD has yet cured cancer, during or since their PhD. You could find may ‘media’ PhDs who have contributed greatly to the creative industries, benefitting a key sector of our economy and bringing people a lot of pleasure.

DeanElderberry · 05/03/2026 07:48

IDasIX · 05/03/2026 07:42

Why does it depend on the university?

I know some people think post-92 universities hand out undergraduate degrees to anyone that wanders past, but it’s not true and it’s certainly not any ‘easier’ to get a PhD from York St John’s than it is from University of York.

For me, the most horrific example of a 'bad' PhD award was Naomi Wolfe's, from Oxford. Being an establishment insider at a university that has been around for a long time should not exempt people from normal academic standards.

Marwoodsbigbreak · 05/03/2026 07:51

Nothing. What a bizarre question!

mjf981 · 05/03/2026 07:54

I think it's noble and great we can expand human knowledge off the back of their research. However in today's world, I often think....why? To dedicate many years for something that doesn't pay off financially (in most cases) would be a tough pill to swallow for me.

Note that I wouldn't feel this way if the COL wasn't through the roof and it wasn't such a dog eat dog world. Sigh.

HostaCentral · 05/03/2026 08:08

DD wants to pursue a PhD. She is passionate about an incredibly niche and totally pointless historical religious subject matter.

Thing is.... Even jn an "non-useful" area like history, it seems all the better jobs in history and culture need PhD's. You only have to look at all the current crop of media presenters and authors on history related subjects, all are PhD's.

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