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What do you think of those with PhD?

247 replies

whyyyyyisitmonddayy · 04/03/2026 20:04

Particularly those in non-stem fields. Just curious!

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Calliopespa · 04/03/2026 22:09

Depends on the university to some degree BUT broadly speaking they require dedication and intelligence that is applicable beyond just the narrow subject area, so on the whole I think kudos to them.

Phiyto9812 · 04/03/2026 22:12

I am impressed that they could be bothered as I am far too lazy. Otherwise I don't care.

PheasantandAstronomers · 04/03/2026 22:14

babyproblems · 04/03/2026 21:57

@titchy I agree that education for everybody is hugely valuable. You’d be mad to not agree with that. I’m not sure that has much to do with PHDs. I think many PHDs are vanity projects. I’d go as far as saying maybe most. I find many shared personality traits across the people I know who have PHD’s!

And yet anyone who has ever studied at any university has done so in order to be taught by people with PhDs, precisely because they’re leaders in advanced research in that subject.

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onelumporthree · 04/03/2026 22:14

Q - How do you know when someone has a PhD?

A - They'll tell you.

😎

Wasitabadger · 04/03/2026 22:15

pimplebum · 04/03/2026 20:19

Not something I give much thought to , they must have lots of you parental / partner support to not earn while doing it

i work with two live with one , bright bit no brighter than most of us at uni

I actually am working full time and while working towards my Professional Doctorate (another name for a PhD). I do have the emotional support though from my husband.

titchy · 04/03/2026 22:16

babyproblems · 04/03/2026 21:57

@titchy I agree that education for everybody is hugely valuable. You’d be mad to not agree with that. I’m not sure that has much to do with PHDs. I think many PHDs are vanity projects. I’d go as far as saying maybe most. I find many shared personality traits across the people I know who have PHD’s!

And what qualifications do you think people need in order to be able to educate, or educate the educators?

I think the vast majority start them with the aim of using them for further research or teaching. Unfortunately the opportunities beyond the PhD are limited and precarious. The life of an early career academic is not an easy one, and many PhDs will end up in roles where they’re not needed. That doesn’t make them vanity projects though.

PheasantandAstronomers · 04/03/2026 22:17

onelumporthree · 04/03/2026 22:14

Q - How do you know when someone has a PhD?

A - They'll tell you.

😎

God, these threads really bring out the people who are threatened by postgraduate degrees.

Galleris · 04/03/2026 22:17

Ponderingwindow · 04/03/2026 21:30

I work in quasi-academia. I can’t turn around without talking to a PhD. I don’t really think about it very much. It’s the norm in my world.

@Ponderingwindow just curious, what is quasi-academia?

BrassOlive · 04/03/2026 22:17

MrsClattenburg · 04/03/2026 20:15

Absolutely nothing, sorry!

I have people working in my team wirh 1st class Degrees and a Masters and they're starting on £25k 🫤

What does that have to do with PhDs?

SylvanMoon · 04/03/2026 22:18

I completed a PhD while working full time and caring for my MIL. I self-funded and did it part-time and was nearing retirement when I began it, so did it for myself rather than for promotion reasons. I wanted the structure, support and discipline to interrogate something that was important to me personally. I'm glad I did it. Unfortunately I couldn't attend the graduation ceremony because my mother was dying at the time.

Wasitabadger · 04/03/2026 22:19

parkezvous · 04/03/2026 20:22

depends if they use the title Dr for day to day life! I don’t know why but I find it a bit odd. I think it’s a huge commitment and a lot of work and those that have them should be proud but there is just something about using Dr if you’re non medical that makes me cringe a bit.

It is actually PhDs who are the orginal title of Dr and maintain the title in retirement. Medical Dr is an honorary title only. If you are not practicing medicine or retire you can no longer use the title. Although some medical doctors do gain PhDs in thier chosen area of research.

TheMorgenmuffel · 04/03/2026 22:20

Nothing.

I mean, I absorb the fact they have a PhD but beyond that I have no thoughts about them at all.

Vetoncall · 04/03/2026 22:23

DH has a STEM PhD, he did it in his 20s and was paid to do it. He's very clever, very scientifically minded, and he has a well paid job directly linked to his field of research that he absolutely loves. He never mentions the PhD out of context though, it's not like he goes around telling people about it or demanding to be called Dr Surname, he's a normal, down to earth person, if asked he says it just means he knows a lot about a very specific subject. He uses the Dr title professionally and on official paperwork and stuff but not in everyday life. I don't have a PhD but as a qualified vet I can also use the Dr title - I also do professionally but not in everyday life.

ExOptimist · 04/03/2026 22:23

I wonder how many of the people on here sneering about how doing a PhD is a vanity project, how it's not that hard and how it doesn't mean you're any cleverer than anyone else, how people with them often have peculiar personality traits etc, have actually got a PhD themselves? I'd take a guess at zero.
If it's that easy and anyone can do one it's strange how, at the 9 graduation ceremonies I've attended, there are reams of BAs and BScs, some Masters and just a handful of PHDs.

Cornishclio · 04/03/2026 22:25

My daughter has one and it took years of dedication to get it.

Calliopespa · 04/03/2026 22:25

ExOptimist · 04/03/2026 22:23

I wonder how many of the people on here sneering about how doing a PhD is a vanity project, how it's not that hard and how it doesn't mean you're any cleverer than anyone else, how people with them often have peculiar personality traits etc, have actually got a PhD themselves? I'd take a guess at zero.
If it's that easy and anyone can do one it's strange how, at the 9 graduation ceremonies I've attended, there are reams of BAs and BScs, some Masters and just a handful of PHDs.

My guess is also zero.

Calliopespa · 04/03/2026 22:31

parkezvous · 04/03/2026 20:22

depends if they use the title Dr for day to day life! I don’t know why but I find it a bit odd. I think it’s a huge commitment and a lot of work and those that have them should be proud but there is just something about using Dr if you’re non medical that makes me cringe a bit.

And yet, ironically, the medical "Dr" is a lower qualification so if there is any cringe factor, (and I'm not saying there should be), it is the use of it by a medical doctor that might be said to provoke it.

FWIW, medical specialists tend to discard it to show they have done more than the basic medical degree that takes it, so in a medical context it is a "lower rung" title. (Again, I'm not dissing medical doctors, just contextualising @parkezvous ' comment: any academic achievement is something to be proud of.)

Barnsleybonuz · 04/03/2026 22:56

I probably wouldn’t even know. I haven’t a clue if my friends have one, there are some I don’t even know if they went to uni. I’ve never asked colleagues and nobody ever discusses anything about their education. It’s only on here people bang on about degrees. Surely once you’re past your first job they’re pretty irrelevant

NerrSnerr · 04/03/2026 23:15

parkezvous · 04/03/2026 20:22

depends if they use the title Dr for day to day life! I don’t know why but I find it a bit odd. I think it’s a huge commitment and a lot of work and those that have them should be proud but there is just something about using Dr if you’re non medical that makes me cringe a bit.

Do you cringe if a medic uses the term doctor?

Frannieisnthappy · 04/03/2026 23:15

I'm in awe of how hard they worked academically.

I work hard and am fairly intelligent but am much more practical than academic.

GentleSheep · 04/03/2026 23:21

I think they're hard-working and determined, you need to be. I dropped out of a PhD as it was just too intense and I didn't get on with my supervisor.

StormyLandCloud · 04/03/2026 23:24

HushTheNoise · 04/03/2026 20:15

Some are a bit self indulgent and don't really add to the sum of human knowledge but I guess it's nice to be able to study just for the love. I don't think they are more intelligent, just organised and disciplined. I think some people should be able to look at more abstract things but I'm not lucky enough to be able to afford that luxury.

This is quite a good example of how wrong people can be about PhDs- it’s kind of an apprenticeship in research, so still very junior in research field, really need to get up the research ladder … it isn’t case of getting it and testing on your laurels

ChoosingMyOwnRandomUsername · 04/03/2026 23:28

NerrSnerr · 04/03/2026 23:15

Do you cringe if a medic uses the term doctor?

The poster literally said 'if you’re non medical'.

I agree. For me, Dr is...well, a Doctor. Someone medical. Hearing someone 'just' academic use it (or insist on it) instantly slides them in my mind into someone who's just a bit...well, cringe.

It's like that bit in friends when Ross introduces himself as Dr Geller and Rachel says 'Ross please, this is a hospital, that word actually means something here!' 😂

PheasantandAstronomers · 04/03/2026 23:30

Barnsleybonuz · 04/03/2026 22:56

I probably wouldn’t even know. I haven’t a clue if my friends have one, there are some I don’t even know if they went to uni. I’ve never asked colleagues and nobody ever discusses anything about their education. It’s only on here people bang on about degrees. Surely once you’re past your first job they’re pretty irrelevant

Well, no, not if you need multiple postgraduate degrees for that first job. I mean, everyone in your field will have a doctorate, and while it’s not that you sit around discussing them , you’d probably be aware of what institution they did theirs at, as you might well know their supervisor/research team etc.

EssexCat · 04/03/2026 23:31

That I’m jealous they had something they were that passionate about and a sense of purpose.

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