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Skin Picking Advice

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SkinPicking · 28/02/2026 13:52

My son is 3 and autistic and he will pick at his face until it bleeds. It started with a scab he got on his forehead after falling over and since then he just picks at his skin until it bleeds and keeps going. It’s to the point I can’t leave him for even 5 minutes without him doing this.

If I put a plaster on he does tend to leave that for a while but eventually will pull that off and pick. He doesn’t even stop when he notices blood on his hands, he keeps going.

the one on his forehead took months to heal and he had the tiniest scar there and he then went on to pick at that until it bled again!

im going to ring to make an appointment at the doctors on Monday to see if they can help but does anyone have any tips on dressings that might work? I seem to remember a liquid plaster, kind of like glue, when I was a kid but I can’t find it online other than one which gets very poor reviews. I’ve tried second skin, like you’d put over a tattoo, and he doesn’t mind that and it seems to work ok but it peels off quite easily. I was thinking maybe adhesive bandage tape but can you stick that straight over a cut? His face is covered in plasters at the minute. Literally has one on each cheek, his chin and his forehead. He has a wound under his nose which I can’t put any kind of plaster on which he keeps picking at.

I’ve cut his nails as short as possible but it doesn’t stop him and he definitely wouldn’t keep gloves on.

honestly close to putting a cat cone on him 😂

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24Dogcuddler · 28/02/2026 16:01

Tread carefully as some children with autism can end up wanting any “ imperfection” covered with a plaster including freckles etc. I speak from experience! Our daughter also used to claw at her cheeks and draw blood at times when young.
You can buy picking sensory toys that are meant to replicate the feeling but obviously won’t give him the same input.
The GP or a nurse will be able to advise about the wounds and healing. If he hasn’t had one he would benefit from seeing a specialist OT for a sensory assessment.
It can be a really difficult behaviour/ sensory stim to deal with. I’ve also taught skin pickers, one liked to watch the blood run down his leg and track it!
I know it must be distressing. Is there a character he is keen on like Spider-Man? Just wondered if he’d wear some Spidey gloves?

Balloonhearts · 28/02/2026 16:34

Try elastoplast wound healing ointment. Apply a thick layer and keep it freshly applied. I struggle with skin picking too and this is the only thing that works as it prevents it scabbing so there's nothing to pick at. You have to keep on it though so it doesn't dry out.

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