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Rant ex slagging of my kids

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Justhush · 24/02/2026 11:01

Just a rant really. My 2 sons 9 and 10 go to see their dad every other weekend. Every time they go there he slags my other kids.

I have a son who's 19 ex has never liked him
So hes saus to the boys whats c done to his hair fucking prat. Then he did the same 2 weeks later only this time he pulled up a Facebook picture saying fucking blue look at the state of it fucking prick. Its feels even more odd that hes pulling picture fron ds face book.

He also told the boys don't you ever end up like L C and soon to be A upu make sure you get a proper job don't be like them. Baring in mind L is bringing up 2 children bith with autism. But the younger one is quiet severe. Also his own daughter is also bringing up children on benefits. C has mental health issues.. A is a child still in school.

He used to be nice to A . She used to go out for days with him and the boys. Stay with them roughly once a month. Then when she wanted contact with her bio father the boys father said he didn't want to see her again. And recently he asked the boys is A still seeing her father. They said yes. He then said he will dump her soon he won't want to know her.

He also told ds hes not autistic its a load of fucking shit.

Oh and he told the boys it was c fault that me and him broke up. Which is not true. Hes met someone else now. So I don't know why he feels the need to say thst crap if hes happy.

Sorry about the OTT swearing I just wanted to rant using the words he used.

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Brefugee · 24/02/2026 15:03

it was quite difficult to follow but you can only get pictures off fb if you are friends with a person, the profile is public or it has been a profile picture.

Get your son to sort that out.

And for everything else? you can't control what your ex says, you can just explain it to your shared DCs that it is not nice to talk about people like that, and pick them up on it if they start emulating him.

Justhush · 24/02/2026 15:53

Brefugee · 24/02/2026 15:03

it was quite difficult to follow but you can only get pictures off fb if you are friends with a person, the profile is public or it has been a profile picture.

Get your son to sort that out.

And for everything else? you can't control what your ex says, you can just explain it to your shared DCs that it is not nice to talk about people like that, and pick them up on it if they start emulating him.

Ah sorry I think its because my head feels full. Plus dyslexia plus my eyes are blury. So I probably didn't write it well.

Yeah logically I know i always say that to my kids. You can't control other people. And yeah I just say to them that's not kind he doesn't need to say them things.

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