She has at times been a good friend to me; but is prone to a sulk, often becuase of some perceived slight while she had a lot going on elsewhere in her life. E.g her father's ill so she's not coping so well with the rest of life.
Last time it lasted three weeks and was to the extent that although she and her DH came on a trip we'd planned, they booked an alternative hotel rather than share the apartment we'd booked. I.e they paid for two lots of accomodation. The holiday was Ok if a bit strained then, all of a sudden a week later it was as if nothing ever happened and eere all supposed to behave as if nothing ever happened.
This time DH made a joke in the group chat which she's taken exception to. It wasn't particularly funny but it wasn't that bad and it wasn't me!
Since then she hasnt been ro any of our regular meet ups and when ive suggested coffee 121 me and her she hasn't had time, twice, despite me basically giving her a whole week to chose from.
She removed herself from the group we use to arrange social things - which includes 5 other people. Her DH is still in it but hasn't commented on anything since, but then he never did, they're one of those couples where the DW is in charge of the social diary.
DH is admin on the group (ie he set it up) so he got a notification. The others probably don't realise she's not there.
It's all starting to wear a bit thin tbh, do we just carry on and assume her DH is telling her what's going on there, and they don't want to come?