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What am idiot I've been - lesson learnt to never use open hospital WiFi again.

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Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 10:30

The last couple of weeks have been a bit of a shit show.

I help care for my elderly mum who is suffering from advanced Alzheimer's. She appeared unwell on 31st January and ended up in A&E. Twenty six hours spent in a corridor saw her eventually admitted on a ward, on the Sunday night. That night my dad came down with D&V which we thought may have been stress/food poisoning. Obviously he kept away from the hospital. Sister came home from a weekend away and visited him only for her to come down with it 24 hours later. It must have been something like norovirus as they were both quite poorly with it. So visiting and advocating for mum was left to me and it turned out to be a rotten 10 days as poor mum who is non verbal and struggles to feed herself at times ended up on a drip due to dehydration which was due to the fact no one was helping her to drink whilst I was not there so I had to be there as much as possible.

It was never established quite what was wrong with mum (infection of unknown origin) so I pushed to get her discharge asap and thankfully got her home middled of last week.

Thought that was that until Barclays have contacted me today. Seems some fucker has been trying to purchase endless Just Eat orders from my account totalling £500+ and I've just noticed a £50 Just Eat voucher has been attempted to have been purchased from my JD Williams account FFS!

Barclays believes it's because I'd used the hospitals open wi-fi. What an idiot I've been. I thought I'd use it to save on my data whilst I was wiling away the hours on the ward whilst mum sleep.

I'm now spending time going through all my online accounts and changing password etc. FML.

OP posts:
Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 13:26

Giraffemug30 · 17/02/2026 12:56

A lot of the time you do acrually need WiFi to call /message people in hospitals, many hospitals have shite signal
Tbh I would be dubious this has anything to do with the WiFi in the hospital

I hope it wasn't as I'm put off trying again. Hopefully it was one of those things.

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Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 13:28

ThisMustBeMyDream · 17/02/2026 13:16

Oh OP, the same thing happened to me in October. Sat in a&e with my husband for 32 hours on a chair. Some absolute cunt managed to steal £159 of money from my via tik tok coins on Google play. This was then taken via my phone bill. I dont even have tik tok! I fought my phone provider and Google play and got nowhere.
An expensive lesson. I won't use public wifi anymore.

It really does put you off, doesn't it. There was I thinking it would save my precious data. That must have been so annoying for you. What a horrible world we live in sometimes.

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Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 13:30

SurreySenMum26 · 17/02/2026 13:18

Scrolling on your phone in the hospital is pretty standard, I'd think? Different if you're with a sick child you're actively caring for.

I chrocheted in hospital when I was admitted. Now that felt out of the norm as the Dr and nurses were very interested. Scrolling is mindless, easy to pick up, and put down when you're with someone who is ill. Reading, etc, requires your brain to be on and engaged, which is harder during times of stress. I could chrochet as I wasn't stressed. I was bored. It's a bit different to being productive under stress.

That's exactly why I was on the internet, I was so stressed and needed to converse with dementia carers on the FB groups I am on and just some every day scrolling.

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Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 13:31

Feelthebreezeofthehebrides · 17/02/2026 13:25

Did you look at your bank account while on the hospital wi fi ?

Not that I recall.

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ForRosePoster · 17/02/2026 13:33

Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 13:24

Maybe when one of your loved ones is laying in hospital with advanced dementia unable to articulated what is wrong with them and you are sitting on a ward that is so understaffed you don't see a nurse from hour to hour and many of the elderly patients around you are also suffering and crying out you may want to go online to messaging and talk to people on your dementia support groups because they are the only ones truly understanding your struggles. Maybe then, you would understand why I was using the internet.

I had books and magazines, as you will see from my OP. Maybe due to my stress and anxiety of having to deal with this particular issue alone (again see op for the reason why that was) I wanted to do something a little less taxing and yes, sometimes mindless scrolling hits that spot. It's irrelevant that I had decades of no internet access in my younger years. I have adhd and hospital anxiety and I did not have the mental capacity at that time to occupy myself with any thing else at that time.

Just think is all I'm saying.

I did it in a care home for weeks.

Everyone's got a story. Everyone's been through stuff.

There is overwhelming evidence that reliance on being online is harmful.

If you don't think so, crack on.

If you have a negative consequence because of something that you didn't have to do It's not bad to point out out you didn't have to do it.

That's all my point was.

We should all be thinking about it so we have an alternative when it isn't available or proactively get one.

This is important stuff.

EffectivelyDaydreaming · 17/02/2026 13:33

ForRosePoster · 17/02/2026 12:50

As has already been said ..OP is talking about 10 days. It wasn't an overnight situation where she was frantically Googling for advice. She said it was an alternative to magazines or staring into space.

And like already said, you don't need WiFi to text or call family members.

The poor comprehension of many posters on this thread who haven't been able to extract the information they need from a short OP or another couple of posts is a likely result of constant online/SM use which proves my point of how being constantly online is effecting us all terribly.

Do you mean affecting? What an insensitive and offensive set of posts. There are many reasons someone visiting a relative in hospital for many hours might be using their phone and wifi is often needed as you can be deep inside a building with poor phone/data signal. Keeping relatives updated, keeping up with emails, googling treatments, looking at traffic info for the journey home, just doing a bit of life admin, reading the news. The OP is entitled to do any of these or just scroll on tiktok if that's what's needed in a worrying time.

Sorry this has happened to you @Littlebluebunny and thank you for posting, I am spending a lot of time visiting a relative in hospital too lately and it can be hard. I have recently installed a VPN on my phone for this reason.

BlackThumb · 17/02/2026 13:33

This sounds dubious to me. Unless you logged into your bank account or bought something online while on the WiFi, there isn’t really a way to get past your banks security measures just by being on the same network. If there are I’d say that’s a problem with the bank’s security measures… of course they’ll always put it back on you if they can.

Much more likely that your account details were pawned from some other online payment.

Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 13:35

ForRosePoster · 17/02/2026 13:25

I didn't say she was pissing her life away.

I said it was perhaps a lesson in thinking about how reliant/addicted we are on being online.

There's a difference between someone choosing to spend time online in their free time and someone who doesn't know what to do other than read magazines or stare into space

Jeez, you really are the epitome of the word obtuse aren't you?

Are you actually reading and taking in any of my responses as to why I was online at the time?

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Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 13:36

BlackThumb · 17/02/2026 13:33

This sounds dubious to me. Unless you logged into your bank account or bought something online while on the WiFi, there isn’t really a way to get past your banks security measures just by being on the same network. If there are I’d say that’s a problem with the bank’s security measures… of course they’ll always put it back on you if they can.

Much more likely that your account details were pawned from some other online payment.

I really don't recall logging into my bank account, I do hope it wasn't the hospital's public wifi.

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Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 13:38

EffectivelyDaydreaming · 17/02/2026 13:33

Do you mean affecting? What an insensitive and offensive set of posts. There are many reasons someone visiting a relative in hospital for many hours might be using their phone and wifi is often needed as you can be deep inside a building with poor phone/data signal. Keeping relatives updated, keeping up with emails, googling treatments, looking at traffic info for the journey home, just doing a bit of life admin, reading the news. The OP is entitled to do any of these or just scroll on tiktok if that's what's needed in a worrying time.

Sorry this has happened to you @Littlebluebunny and thank you for posting, I am spending a lot of time visiting a relative in hospital too lately and it can be hard. I have recently installed a VPN on my phone for this reason.

Thank you. I think I may need to do the same, mum has been admitted to hospital several times during the last year so we are probably looking at frequent visits or stays from now on.

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Cosmosgrowinmygarden · 17/02/2026 13:41

What an unpleasant and unkind person ForRosePoster must be!

Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 13:42

ForRosePoster · 17/02/2026 13:33

I did it in a care home for weeks.

Everyone's got a story. Everyone's been through stuff.

There is overwhelming evidence that reliance on being online is harmful.

If you don't think so, crack on.

If you have a negative consequence because of something that you didn't have to do It's not bad to point out out you didn't have to do it.

That's all my point was.

We should all be thinking about it so we have an alternative when it isn't available or proactively get one.

This is important stuff.

Yep, totally ignorant to everything I have been saying. You crack on love, carry on posting crap and ignoring me but this will be my last reply to you.

I'm off to care for my mum for the afternoon.

Enjoy your afternoon of endless mumsnetting knitting, crocheting, reading and everything else other than using the internet as I know you are so against it.

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CakeMindsThinkAlike · 17/02/2026 13:45

MN victim blaming at its finest: "my phone was hacked while using NHS open wifi"
response: "Serves you right for being online. That will teach you to read a book instead". (Said repeatedly by someone using the internet).
This place sometimes; honestly.

MyBestThing · 17/02/2026 13:48

BlackThumb · 17/02/2026 13:33

This sounds dubious to me. Unless you logged into your bank account or bought something online while on the WiFi, there isn’t really a way to get past your banks security measures just by being on the same network. If there are I’d say that’s a problem with the bank’s security measures… of course they’ll always put it back on you if they can.

Much more likely that your account details were pawned from some other online payment.

I'm very sorry the OP has had such a tough time and lost money but I'm really dubious about the idea that just by logging onto WiFi someone can somehow slip into your bank if you haven't logged onto it?
Is there a proper techy MN person who could explain?

SettingSunStillness · 17/02/2026 13:49

ForRosePoster · 17/02/2026 13:33

I did it in a care home for weeks.

Everyone's got a story. Everyone's been through stuff.

There is overwhelming evidence that reliance on being online is harmful.

If you don't think so, crack on.

If you have a negative consequence because of something that you didn't have to do It's not bad to point out out you didn't have to do it.

That's all my point was.

We should all be thinking about it so we have an alternative when it isn't available or proactively get one.

This is important stuff.

Then start your own thread. This is not the place to bang this drum.

im sorry OP. Sounds scary.

Pearlstillsinging · 17/02/2026 13:49

Littlebluebunny · 17/02/2026 13:16

I wish I knew more about these things, the lady at Barclays told me they get a lot of hackings via public open wifi's, especially hospital settings.

I have never had an issue before either but I don't want to take the risk and try again tbh.

Thank goodness Barclays was on the ball. I think I was lucky when I spent 2 weeks in hospital on bed rest, without visitors all, I could do was spend time online/on my Kindle but no-one tried to hack my account.

BlackThumb · 17/02/2026 13:49

MyBestThing · 17/02/2026 13:48

I'm very sorry the OP has had such a tough time and lost money but I'm really dubious about the idea that just by logging onto WiFi someone can somehow slip into your bank if you haven't logged onto it?
Is there a proper techy MN person who could explain?

I am a techy person, and yes this is unlikely.

Uako · 17/02/2026 13:52

One of the biggest risks with free wifi is how to guarantee you are on the free Starbucks/hospital/whatever wifi and not a man in a van who has spun up a hospital wifi 2 type thing.
Connected to actual official wifi is generally safe because they can see what websites your on, but not what youre doing etc.

twilightcafe · 17/02/2026 13:57

@ForRosePoster - You've made your point; time to put your spade down and stop digging!

EffectivelyDaydreaming · 17/02/2026 14:00

Uako · 17/02/2026 13:52

One of the biggest risks with free wifi is how to guarantee you are on the free Starbucks/hospital/whatever wifi and not a man in a van who has spun up a hospital wifi 2 type thing.
Connected to actual official wifi is generally safe because they can see what websites your on, but not what youre doing etc.

Yes and if you register for the fake wifi using the same password as you use for other sites or a 123 type.

My card got hacked recently, fortunately I had notifications switched on on my banking app and saw the first one flash up so I could freeze the card before any more happened (there were several more attempts over half an hour). I am telling everyone to make sure their banking app alerts are switched on now. I think mine was from use on a spoofed website, I had a transaction that didn't go through on a website I hadn't used before a few weeks earlier and assumed it was OK as nothing happened immediately.

roundaboutthehillsareshining · 17/02/2026 14:00

I think Barclays is telling you a story and deliberately making you believe it was your fault (rather than theirs). The open wifi (man in the middle) attack works because Hypertext Transfer Protocol (http) is insecure. It can be intercepted and the data packets stolen and decoded. But if you look at most modern websites, they use Secure Hypertext Transfer Protocol (https). You can see it if you look at the Mumsnet URL - it says HTTPS rather than HTTP. This encrypts the data passing between your device and the serving device, so it can't be read by third parties. Modern browsers actively warn the user that they are going to an unsecure website and it's such a faff to override the warning that I don't think it's likely that you, in a distracted and emotional state, would do so.

So I suspect you've been a victim of some other fraud, possibly a large scale data leak from a provider you have used a while ago, and Barclays are spinning you a bit of a yarn.

tl;dr - don't blame yourself, this almost certainly wasn't because of your use of wifi in hospital.

roundaboutthehillsareshining · 17/02/2026 14:01

By the way, if you're using https it doesn't matter if you've connected to a spurious wifi network. The attack would only work if you entered your payment details into a forged website spun up by an attacker. If you are worried, you may want to install a VPN service on your device now (Nord VPN for example) which will also encrypt your traffic regardless of your connection by routing it through a "tunnel" to the VPN provider's own, trusted servers..

Needmorelego · 17/02/2026 14:02

@ForRosePoster I am guessing you've never been at St George's in London where there's is pretty much zero phone and WiFi signal unless you use the hospital WiFi.
It's pretty much the first thing they tell you to do with your phone (how to log in to the WiFi) while also apologising for the signal being terrible.

Tonissister · 17/02/2026 14:03

ThisMustBeMyDream · 17/02/2026 13:16

Oh OP, the same thing happened to me in October. Sat in a&e with my husband for 32 hours on a chair. Some absolute cunt managed to steal £159 of money from my via tik tok coins on Google play. This was then taken via my phone bill. I dont even have tik tok! I fought my phone provider and Google play and got nowhere.
An expensive lesson. I won't use public wifi anymore.

Wow. That's shocking.

My bank won't let me access my account from open wifi, so I thought I was relatively safe. But this is an eye opener.

AutumnedCrow · 17/02/2026 14:04

roundaboutthehillsareshining · 17/02/2026 14:00

I think Barclays is telling you a story and deliberately making you believe it was your fault (rather than theirs). The open wifi (man in the middle) attack works because Hypertext Transfer Protocol (http) is insecure. It can be intercepted and the data packets stolen and decoded. But if you look at most modern websites, they use Secure Hypertext Transfer Protocol (https). You can see it if you look at the Mumsnet URL - it says HTTPS rather than HTTP. This encrypts the data passing between your device and the serving device, so it can't be read by third parties. Modern browsers actively warn the user that they are going to an unsecure website and it's such a faff to override the warning that I don't think it's likely that you, in a distracted and emotional state, would do so.

So I suspect you've been a victim of some other fraud, possibly a large scale data leak from a provider you have used a while ago, and Barclays are spinning you a bit of a yarn.

tl;dr - don't blame yourself, this almost certainly wasn't because of your use of wifi in hospital.

Thanks for this, @roundaboutthehillsareshining.

Sorry about the berk on your thread earlier, OP. Flowers

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