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Rescued Today By a Man. Feeling very grateful

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NeverGoingToBeThinAgain · 12/02/2026 17:36

I have a reliable little car (had for 7 years old) and it has never given me any trouble. A few weeks ago I thought it was taking longer to start than usual and thought I better take it into kwik fit to get checked but then it seemed to be starting fine again and I have to admit it slipped down my priority list.

Today the battery died on me while I was out with the dog and had a full shop in the boot (with frozen stuff). In the interest of cutting costs/saving money I cancelled my green flag membership a few years ago. Mainly because I only drive about in our local town and hardly ever do long journeys now and also because up to now I've never had a days bother with my car.

Obviously I was regretting that today. I was sitting in my car helplessly trying to start it for 5 mins and coming to the conclusion I was probably going to have to phone up the AA and get charged a huge fee to join and get jump started.

I then realised the man at the next car along was talking to the shop worker and asking if he had jump leads to try and help me. I was so touched to realise this complete stranger was taking it upon himself to help me when I hadn't even asked.

Anyway shop worker said they weren't allowed to give us jump leads due to insurance but they sold them in shop. Shit - I had no money with me as I had just popped down to collect shopping (done online all paid for). Stranger Man was on phone to his mum asking how much jump leads were in Tesco and they were £15. He then went into shop and bought jump leads and insisted I take them home with me. That was after he used them to start my car. He had already diagnosed the problem while we were waiting.

I came home and cried because I couldn't believe how kind this man had been (I'm in my fifties and overweight, so not some hot young thing).

So if you are married to a train driver from Fife who shops at Tesco (his wife was a train driver too he said) your husband was my hero today. I'm back home now and of course will be taking out an AA membership before driving anywhere and also going to kwik fit to get the battery changed asap.

The man was also with his two young children and so it was not convenient for him to help me as he had to look after them and he had just collected his own shop too.

We read on here bad things about people all the time and I have to say I never expect kindness from strangers. So for all those that have lost faith in men (or people) this is my story for you.

Meanwhile I pledge to play it forward and help out someone just for the sake of it.

So Mr Train Driver from Fife. At Tesco's today at 4pm - thank you very much.

Anyone else like to share a nice story about help from a stranger

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ElizabethsTailor · 12/02/2026 17:38

That’s lovely ❤

Thank you for sharing. I hope this gets back to him somehow.

FadedRed · 12/02/2026 17:42

What a star!

shellyleppard · 12/02/2026 17:44

There is still kindness in the world 🌎 ❤️

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NeverGoingToBeThinAgain · 12/02/2026 17:46

ElizabethsTailor · 12/02/2026 17:38

That’s lovely ❤

Thank you for sharing. I hope this gets back to him somehow.

Yes. I mean I thanked him about ten times (even offered him maltesers from my shop which he refused) but you are right. It should be shared.
And of course there is a chance that his train driver wife reads mumsnet

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CeeceeBloomingdale · 12/02/2026 17:47

It's good to be reminded that people are generally very nice and helpful, we see so much negative stuff it's easy to forget. What a star he was!

raspberets · 12/02/2026 17:49

So heartwarming. ❤️❤️

NeverGoingToBeThinAgain · 12/02/2026 17:49

FadedRed · 12/02/2026 17:42

What a star!

He really was. To put himself out without being asked, while he had his small children with him and then to pay for the jump leads and insist I keep them.

Really impressed that there are still men out there who come to the rescue of others. His wife should be very proud of him if she is on here.

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Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 12/02/2026 17:50

That’s so nice! Once someone bought me a coffee and cake when out as they could see I was upset.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 12/02/2026 17:51

NeverGoingToBeThinAgain · 12/02/2026 17:49

He really was. To put himself out without being asked, while he had his small children with him and then to pay for the jump leads and insist I keep them.

Really impressed that there are still men out there who come to the rescue of others. His wife should be very proud of him if she is on here.

Gives me hope in human nature!

CourageCalls2Courage · 12/02/2026 17:51

How wonderful
what a lovely story
it’s nice to hear some good in the world

CoastlineAtlantic · 12/02/2026 17:51

Thank you for the smile your post gave me @NeverGoingToBeThinAgain , thank you for a 'good news' story, it brightened my day as I'm sure it did yours! I hope the train driver from Fife, and his wife, somehow get wind of your public thank you! Paying his kindness forward is the best way to say 'thank you', as I'm very sure you did thank him at the time!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 12/02/2026 17:51

OP you could pay it forward. What the man has done.

NeverGoingToBeThinAgain · 12/02/2026 17:52

shellyleppard · 12/02/2026 17:44

There is still kindness in the world 🌎 ❤️

I know. And you know what I was quite shocked that a stranger was prepared to help. How sad that we have so little faith in humans with all the bad stuff we read constantly in the press and on here.

Good Men are still out there.

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FlowerFairyDaisy · 12/02/2026 17:52

Wonderful!

Funnily enough, I was also helped by a lovely man this morning after being knocked to the ground by an impatient woman driving dangerously.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 12/02/2026 17:53

I was rescued last year by a Woman!

She fixed my central heating control. Fucking lifesaver in March!

(out of the goodness of her heart, friend of a friend)

NeverGoingToBeThinAgain · 12/02/2026 17:58

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 12/02/2026 17:51

OP you could pay it forward. What the man has done.

Absolutely - I have promised myself I will do a good turn for a stranger this year.

I think we are all guilty of looking the other way in our busy, stressful lives.

I was so glad to get safety back home and the stupid car will be staying on the drive till I've taken out an AA membership and booked it in to kwik fit for a new battery.

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NeverGoingToBeThinAgain · 12/02/2026 18:00

FlowerFairyDaisy · 12/02/2026 17:52

Wonderful!

Funnily enough, I was also helped by a lovely man this morning after being knocked to the ground by an impatient woman driving dangerously.

A woman knocked you down with her car? Jeez that is terrible. Are you okay.

So another kind man out in the world today helping others.

Thank you to these men. We grumble and complain but we do appreciate you.

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NeverGoingToBeThinAgain · 12/02/2026 18:01

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 12/02/2026 17:53

I was rescued last year by a Woman!

She fixed my central heating control. Fucking lifesaver in March!

(out of the goodness of her heart, friend of a friend)

Wow - a woman who can fix central heating. How kind and amazing at the same time. Being without heating in winter is no joke.

How nice to hear these stories about humans helping each other. I truly thought these types of things didn't happen anymore.

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Hatty65 · 12/02/2026 18:02

Fifers are awesome. My DH (from Fife) once stopped in his work van for an elderly couple who had broken down on the hard shoulder of the A1. They wouldn't open the doors because they were terrified of the strange Scottish crew who had stopped, but they had a flat tire so he got them to pop the boot and he and his lads jacked up the car, got the spare out and changed the wheel for them.

They cracked open the window an inch to whisper 'Thanks' out of it! 😁

BootleggedMaterial · 12/02/2026 18:03

Ah that's good! Don't go out without your wallet or some way of paying though... you never know when you might need it!

My story is when I was in early pregnancy I felt very very sick on a long packed train journey (cancellations had buggered up seat reservations) and a man gave me his seat, no questions. Was really appreciated!

NeverGoingToBeThinAgain · 12/02/2026 18:04

Hatty65 · 12/02/2026 18:02

Fifers are awesome. My DH (from Fife) once stopped in his work van for an elderly couple who had broken down on the hard shoulder of the A1. They wouldn't open the doors because they were terrified of the strange Scottish crew who had stopped, but they had a flat tire so he got them to pop the boot and he and his lads jacked up the car, got the spare out and changed the wheel for them.

They cracked open the window an inch to whisper 'Thanks' out of it! 😁

That's another lovely story. Goodness my faith in men (and people) is being restored today.

So you are married to a hero as well then!

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Pepperedpickles · 12/02/2026 18:05

That is lovely. My Mum had a similar experience when I was little - her car broke down at the petrol station and some random man jump started it and even charged the tyre as that had gone down too! There are some good ones out there.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 12/02/2026 18:05

NeverGoingToBeThinAgain · 12/02/2026 18:01

Wow - a woman who can fix central heating. How kind and amazing at the same time. Being without heating in winter is no joke.

How nice to hear these stories about humans helping each other. I truly thought these types of things didn't happen anymore.

Oh they do. It’s the weird random situations you remember though isn’t it?

Here4thechocs · 12/02/2026 18:06

Awww thank you , stranger. And as for you, OP, your gratitude shows the sort of person you are, really. Well done.

LongHospitalStay · 12/02/2026 18:06

It might be worth posting on the FifeToday Facebook page, or Fife Jammer.