I know I sound paranoid but I have severe emetophobia, suffer from daily nausea and my decades long daily IBS issues means if I catch a stomach bug I can feel off for weeks afterwards so avoid it like the plaque and despise winter time as a result.
So, my parents are elderly, mum has advanced dementia and I go to see and check on them around 5 days a week.
The last weekend of January ( so 12 days ago) mum became unwell and dad and I sat for 26 hours in A&E with her. I wore a mask the whole time, dad didn't. In the early hours of Monday morning he came down with what I can only image was Norovirus. We initially thought it was food poisoning so on the Tuesday my sister visited him (mum has been in hospital all week and not at home, thankfully) and by Thursday she also came down with whatever this was and so did her partner so whatever it is was very contagious.
I have stayed away from both my dad and sister and have been the only one able to be with my mum in hospital all week. Dad was able to visit mum from last Friday and mum was discharged and back home on Monday evening just gone.
I have given it a few days break as the constant hospital visits took it out of me but my dad wants me to sit with mum as he has some appointments today. Normally this would not bother me at all as I do a lot for them but I am so on edge worrying I will come down with something from their house. I know I can wear a mask but I think this may unsettle mum in her own home.
Dad was last vomiting/diarrhoea early hours of Monday 2nd Feb and had another diarrhoea episode on Tuesday 3rd and says he has been ok since although a bit off for a few days after that. I bought him a bleach spray at the weekend and told him to blast all surfaces for when the carers returned this Tuesday. He isn't the most fastidious when it comes to cleaning so I hope he has done a good job.
I know I am paranoid but I have read of people coming down with it 2 weeks after staying in a house which had had the virus. What are the chances of catching something like Norovirus from a house over a week after someone has been unwell there?