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What has been the longest you have waited in A&E?

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Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 00:41

I have been with my elderly mum in A&E since 1pm this afternoon.

We have been left in a corridor and little progress appears to have been made, it's very frustrating.

Mum had been running a temperature since Thursday, I called the GP surgery yesterday and because mum is in advanced Alzheimer's and housebound they decided to assess her over the phone and diagnosed a UTI, prescribed antibiotics and that was that.

She still had a high temperature this morning and was quite lethargic so I called 111 for advice, they said mum needed an ambulance. Paramedics came and thought mum's knee looked swollen and suspected a blood clot.

Blood clot dismissed at a&e assessment and they said they suspected arthritic sepsis. Mum had an x-ray hours ago and then an aspiration of the fluid in her knee. Orthopaedics then transferred her back to medical assessment and since 7pm we've been waiting and waiting. I've asked the only nurse who seems to be on this corridor and he appears to know very little and there seems to be no one else to ask, I've not seen a doctor in this corridor for hours, I've walked into the main area and no one seems to be able to help.

Mum's been in a&e a few times but this has definitely been the longest wait so far, coming up for 12 hours. Mum's slept the whole time but it's going to be a long night for my dad and I.

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PortSalutPlease · 01/02/2026 09:26

Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 00:41

I have been with my elderly mum in A&E since 1pm this afternoon.

We have been left in a corridor and little progress appears to have been made, it's very frustrating.

Mum had been running a temperature since Thursday, I called the GP surgery yesterday and because mum is in advanced Alzheimer's and housebound they decided to assess her over the phone and diagnosed a UTI, prescribed antibiotics and that was that.

She still had a high temperature this morning and was quite lethargic so I called 111 for advice, they said mum needed an ambulance. Paramedics came and thought mum's knee looked swollen and suspected a blood clot.

Blood clot dismissed at a&e assessment and they said they suspected arthritic sepsis. Mum had an x-ray hours ago and then an aspiration of the fluid in her knee. Orthopaedics then transferred her back to medical assessment and since 7pm we've been waiting and waiting. I've asked the only nurse who seems to be on this corridor and he appears to know very little and there seems to be no one else to ask, I've not seen a doctor in this corridor for hours, I've walked into the main area and no one seems to be able to help.

Mum's been in a&e a few times but this has definitely been the longest wait so far, coming up for 12 hours. Mum's slept the whole time but it's going to be a long night for my dad and I.

Sorry but it’s extremely disingenuous to say you’ve been waiting 12 hours. She’s been triaged, had tests, been diagnosed and had treatment in that time.

PortSalutPlease · 01/02/2026 09:27

Worriedmummya · 01/02/2026 01:26

who would take an 80-year-old’s seat??

They didn’t take an 80 year old’s seat, they took an empty seat.

EvangelineTheNightStar · 01/02/2026 09:28

PortSalutPlease · 01/02/2026 09:26

Sorry but it’s extremely disingenuous to say you’ve been waiting 12 hours. She’s been triaged, had tests, been diagnosed and had treatment in that time.

Ah quite right, so the issue is waiting for a bed?

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PortSalutPlease · 01/02/2026 09:31

EvangelineTheNightStar · 01/02/2026 09:28

Ah quite right, so the issue is waiting for a bed?

Seems so. Same story for quite a few of the posts on this thread. If you’ve been triaged, tested, diagnosed and treated and are DTA pending a bed, that’s not the same thing at all as waiting in A&E.

EvangelineTheNightStar · 01/02/2026 09:32

PortSalutPlease · 01/02/2026 09:27

They didn’t take an 80 year old’s seat, they took an empty seat.

And agree too, if you’ve left the waiting area, I can’t imagine other people who will also be under high stress would think, I best remain standing in case they come back and want a seat. Would other people have even noticed who’d left the seat?

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 01/02/2026 09:32

My Mum was 4 days waiting for bed in a corridor. She couldn’t walk, was put in a pad and told to go in the pad, they didn’t change the pad unless I asked. Very little food/fluid. Things need to change.

Stumbleine · 01/02/2026 09:32

It was recently with DS. He had a collapsed lung.

11 hours to see a doctor. He was in A and E for a further 15 hours before being transferred to another hospital for surgery. Not in the UK though.

Doesn't feel so bad after reading some of those horrendous stories.

Ds maintains the worst part of the whole ordeal by far was the waiting room plastic chair purgatory!

Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 09:33

Butterbean21 · 01/02/2026 01:37

Has she been given antibiotics when the first clinician seen her with ?septic arthritis? Is she in a trolley in the corridor? If yes to both of these things I would be tempted to let the staff know, make sure your number is up to date and get your dad home for some sleep. She has seen at least 2 clinicians, im assuming had some bloods done and if shes had antibiotics during the day very little will happen overnight apart from observations and hopefully a move to a ward. There should be a nurse assigned to her care and if you aren't getting the answers you need you can ask to speak to the nurse in charge. You could ask them if she if potentially for discharge or if its worth heading off? She sounds pretty sleepy and if she has been spiking temperatures I'd be surprised if they sent her home rn.

Its really awful having people in corridors and A&E being so rammed. Its not what anyone would want and its certainly not how staff would choose to care for their patients.

That's exactly what happened.

They gave mum iv antibiotics and the nurse was coming over to monitor her every now and then. We waited until 2.30am but we're both so exhausted we had no choice but to leave. I felt terrible leaving mum as she is so vulnerable with the advanced dementia but we had been there for over 13 hours by then.

They told me mum would be put on a ward. I have just rung to discover she's still in the corridor in a&e ffs!

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Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 09:35

BassinBas · 01/02/2026 01:39

23 hours with my 84 yo mother on a trolley two weeks ago. She also has dementia although she had a UTI at point of admission and developed delirium while on the trolley, unsurprisingly. It was the devil's own job getting them to admit her at all. Then the next day they discharged her to a care home, which she is paying for of course. Fuckers. The NHS is shit.

That is so awful, your poor mum.

The corridor was packed full of elderly people, many on their own and most were so confused I imagine many had dementia.

So depressing.

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Willowskyblue · 01/02/2026 09:35

10 hours in a chair in the waiting room with a heart attack, and I’d been brought in by ambulance. There was a drunk/drugged person in the main area causing mayhem combined with my first set of blood tests being lost.
I was in again on Friday with heart symptoms. The wait time on screen was 2.5 hours. I was seen first within 35 minutes but didn’t leave until 9 hours later. This time the A&E blood testing facility had an issue so bloods were being sent to another part of the hospital, which caused delays. The Dr was lovely but looked so stressed.
i was gobsmacked both at some of the reasons people were coming in for and also the number of people coming in with patients. At one point they went round and kicked everyone without a wristband out so patients could sit down.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 01/02/2026 09:35

PortSalutPlease · 01/02/2026 09:26

Sorry but it’s extremely disingenuous to say you’ve been waiting 12 hours. She’s been triaged, had tests, been diagnosed and had treatment in that time.

Bright Lights, noise, a chair instead of a bed, a bed in a doorway instead of a ward. People vomiting and dying through lack of basic care.

Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 09:36

Meteorite87 · 01/02/2026 02:12

That seems like poor practice on the part of the care home?
In a busy A&E those patients who cannot communicate might be overlooked.

I'm sorry it's such a long and uncomfortable wait for you and your Mum x

I can't stop thinking about that poor lady.

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Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 09:38

lampplease · 01/02/2026 02:21

Can you go back to triage or sign in desk and ask for a status update?

I'll be heading up there in an hour or so. Called a&e and spoke to a nurse but all he could tell be was that mum was still in the same place in the corridor 😕

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Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 09:39

MarinadeRoulade · 01/02/2026 07:48

16 hours with DS(4) who had a bad infection and needed emergency surgery. We were in surgery within 2 hours of getting to a ward but FFS. We live in a “developing” country now with better healthcare than we ever got from the nhs!

It's simply dreadful isn't it?

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EvangelineTheNightStar · 01/02/2026 09:40

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 01/02/2026 09:35

Bright Lights, noise, a chair instead of a bed, a bed in a doorway instead of a ward. People vomiting and dying through lack of basic care.

@Dreamingofnarrowboatlife where is your mum now? Is she in a cubicle in a&e or in the waiting room on a chair?

wossupthen · 01/02/2026 09:41

10 hours three weeks ago. My face had swollen up and I began to struggle breathing so I panicked and got dh to call an ambulance. Incredibly they turned up within half an hour and although my breathing was OK, insisted on taking me for the swelling.
It turned up my infection markers were 16 points below full blown sepsis and I was finally, after another day on a chair in a horrible ward, strapped to an antibiotic drip, which later gave me the worst upset stomach I've ever had, admitted to a ward and then a room of my own for 9 days
It was terrifying looking back - luckily I was in some sort of hallucinating fever dream for the first day or two.
Still not out of the woods but at least I'm home

Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 09:43

nottinight · 01/02/2026 08:13

I empathise OP - I’ve recently spent a lot of time in A&E with my elderly dad and the time waiting depends on what he needs. He had a fall a few months ago and needed his head stitched. He went in at 11pm and we were free to go at 5am once his head was stitched up. On another occasion he needed IV antibiotics and spent 18 hours in a corridor.
More recently he had a life and death emergency and was taken straight into Resus by ambulance. Thankfully he’s now ok.

I think the NHS is generally brilliant at critical care/emergencies but it’s the day to day stuff that is grindingly slow. Having spent the last 5 years overseeing the care for my dad, I’ve realised that so many of his needs could be met by community nurses. Stitches to heads, IV antibiotics etc are all things that could be done in the community which could save a lot of time and beds at hospitals. The whole system needs massive reform, I think.

On a practical note, I’m always really polite and chatty with the staff who look after my dad. I thank them for what they do (something a lot of people forget to do) but I often find the nurses or HCAs are much more willing to go and find updates or get help if they feel appreciated (which they are!) Also, I now have a backpack in my boot which has all our essentials for a long A&E stay - phone charger, bottle of water, a small pot of his essential meds, some protein bars/snacks etc. If you think visits might be more frequent (with advanced dementia that could be the case), it’s worth considering.

Hope you’re free soon!

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I feel for you. It's not an easy life with an elderly and unwell parent is it? I've been caring for mum for about 6 years now too and we've had several trips to a&e, she fell and fractured her neck last year but this has been the longest wait so far.

The care in the community definitely needs a shake up. I called her GP surgery on Friday and they diagnosed her with a UTI over the phone. Had someone been able to come and visit her at home she may not have ended up in a&e?

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Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 09:44

EverytimeItry · 01/02/2026 08:18

Been about 6 times in the last 20 years longest wait time 20 mins.

Wow, where in the country are you?

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Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 09:46

Freysimo · 01/02/2026 08:23

Reforming the NHS should have been a priority for this government but I've come to the conclusion that it's such a sacred cow NO government will have the guts. It's a complete mess and I dread having to use it, especially A&E.

I hope you're all home now, OP.

I agree, I worked for the NHS for 15 years and it was a complete state then, that was 20 years ago.Nothing has changed and it never will.

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WhatIsTheCharge · 01/02/2026 09:52

I’ve only ever been to A&E for myself as an adult twice - once I was heavily pregnant, suffering horrendously with hyperemesis and I was seen, admitted and put on IV anti-emetics within about an hour of arriving.
Second time I had a dislocated knee, and that was around a 2 hour wait to get it popped back in.

Overthebow · 01/02/2026 09:59

Longest time in adult A&E was 3 hours, longest time in children’s was 1 hour. We’ve been a few times over the last couple of years, a couple with hospital admission after A&E. Maybe our A&E is less busy or we’ve gone at quiet times.

Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 09:59

PortSalutPlease · 01/02/2026 09:26

Sorry but it’s extremely disingenuous to say you’ve been waiting 12 hours. She’s been triaged, had tests, been diagnosed and had treatment in that time.

How is my op being disingenuous?

I asked how long people have spent in a&e? I have never stated that mum has not been looked at. I have explained that my very vulnerable elderly mum with advanced dementia had been looked at initially then left in a corridor with many other elderly unwell patients. I have asked for updates but we have not been given any. From 7pm until we left at 2.30pm we were given no updates at all despite asking.

Maybe try being awake for almost 20 hours with your two elderly and confused parents in a blindingly bright, noisy and unfamiliar environment, in a corridor with dozens and dozens of people and walking past every few minutes and every doctor ignoring you and trying not feeling a little frustrated.

FFS, disingenuous, my arse I was!

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aodirjjd · 01/02/2026 10:00

You haven’t waited 12 hours you’ve been seen and treated and waiting discharge/ward admission.

i waited 13 hours (overnight) as a cancer patient with severe pain. I was triaged in that time but no doctor. It was absolutely awful. I got moved to a ward about 20 hours after I entered and then got the test diagnosis I needed after 3 days in total. It should have been a test done in 24 hours.

HelloPossible · 01/02/2026 10:01

About 12 hours overnight, I was waiting with my mum, I honestly think they had forgotten about us and by the early hours there was hardly anyone there but we were still waiting hours. Finally left at about 5 am.

Dreamingofnarrowboatlife · 01/02/2026 10:01

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