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Just got scammed out of almost 1k

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BonneMamanAbricot · 31/01/2026 23:41

Please be so careful of phone calls from your bank. Always call them back, as caller ID can be faked. My actual bank said they had never seen this scam. They duplicated everything, all the spiels, the robot connecting voice, the hold music.

Second month of being paid after 5 months of no income. Back to nothing again. FFS.

OP posts:
HopeWithNotes · 01/02/2026 09:50

GabriellaK · 01/02/2026 08:19

They pretend they are your bank and can even use a bank number so it looks as if it is your bank when they ask you to call to check.
Have you not heard of this?
Never call them back!

But, if you end the call and ring the bank back using the official number on your card/online banking you will get through to your ACTUAL bank. The scammer’s not infiltrated Natwest as some kind of undercover fraudster. Just don’t ever call them back directly using the number they called you on. End the call and redial the official number. That’s what I’ve done to protect myself. However, some posters are now implying that if you hang up and call the bank’s official number the scammer can somehow redirect the call back to them. I really need to know if this is an actual thing or just scaremongering. I’m going to check with an official source obviously, but I don’t think spreading misinformation as facts (which gently, you and some other posters have done here)is helping people understand and protect themselves against fraud.

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:52

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 09:48

I called the 24h line at night, once I had come home and actually had time to think and thought oh shit, none of this makes sense. (That day I had to take my DCs to clubs, a playdate, and then a birthday party, so was very busy and stressed. I was with friends and family and they all said it sounded like I had had a lucky escape - no one questioned it.)

First I re-downloaded my mobile banking app and found the logon details had changed so I had lost access. Then the 24h banking phone line rejected everything the scammer said, said the card was still active, and transferred me to fraud. It then took around 3 hours for them to get the story and report the fraudulent transactions. Obviously my card was cancelled but I don't know if it will be enough as it seems that the scammer had a lot of access to my information. I will have to go into the bank asap because I don't know if they will try to continue to use my personal information.

The extra info about the online banking details being changed is key imo, that's what you want to concentrate on and find out what the controls are around that. How were they able to change those?

I still can't work out why you needed to input that code somewhere rather than the scammers

Mackerelfillets · 01/02/2026 09:54

BonneMamanAbricot · 31/01/2026 23:49

Probably not as scammers usually move money out of their accounts into others after withdrawing. Banks can only get the payment back if it remains in the original account that they transferred it into

Do contact the bank though. You may get compensated

Interested in this thread?

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busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:54

HopeWithNotes · 01/02/2026 09:50

But, if you end the call and ring the bank back using the official number on your card/online banking you will get through to your ACTUAL bank. The scammer’s not infiltrated Natwest as some kind of undercover fraudster. Just don’t ever call them back directly using the number they called you on. End the call and redial the official number. That’s what I’ve done to protect myself. However, some posters are now implying that if you hang up and call the bank’s official number the scammer can somehow redirect the call back to them. I really need to know if this is an actual thing or just scaremongering. I’m going to check with an official source obviously, but I don’t think spreading misinformation as facts (which gently, you and some other posters have done here)is helping people understand and protect themselves against fraud.

It's not a thing, some posters are misunderstanding others and some are spreading misinformation e g banks don't call customers.

pinkswirl · 01/02/2026 09:56

HopeWithNotes · 01/02/2026 09:50

But, if you end the call and ring the bank back using the official number on your card/online banking you will get through to your ACTUAL bank. The scammer’s not infiltrated Natwest as some kind of undercover fraudster. Just don’t ever call them back directly using the number they called you on. End the call and redial the official number. That’s what I’ve done to protect myself. However, some posters are now implying that if you hang up and call the bank’s official number the scammer can somehow redirect the call back to them. I really need to know if this is an actual thing or just scaremongering. I’m going to check with an official source obviously, but I don’t think spreading misinformation as facts (which gently, you and some other posters have done here)is helping people understand and protect themselves against fraud.

I think it’s because there have been cases in the past where the scammers have pretended to hang up, so when the victim calls the proper bank number they think they’re calling their bank but they’re really still on the line to the scammer. I doubt that still works with modern phones/ mobile phones though.

Hallywally · 01/02/2026 09:58

Come on, we shouldn’t victim blame. If we start victim blaming for one type of crime, where would it end? Women walking alone at night? Getting drunk? Wearing a mini skirt? You get my gist. The perpetrators are ALWAYS the ones to blame.

rockingroller · 01/02/2026 10:00

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 00:17

They asked me for my acct number and sort code to 'verify' my account. This is where I felt the doubt but didn't want to hang up and delay 'securing' my account. Also part of me probably felt that I didn't want to be rude or difficult, which is wrong but ingrained.

I am really sorry you were conned. They rely on the victim getting flustered.

HopeWithNotes · 01/02/2026 10:00

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:52

The extra info about the online banking details being changed is key imo, that's what you want to concentrate on and find out what the controls are around that. How were they able to change those?

I still can't work out why you needed to input that code somewhere rather than the scammers

I think the scammers needed to use the OTP code on a verified device. They’ve tricked her into authorising the code they received.

LakieLady · 01/02/2026 10:02

nomas · 01/02/2026 06:27

Banks do call you, I got a call from NatWest after making a large transaction abroad.

The important thing is to remember they won’t ask you for passwords or things like One-Time Passcode (OTP).

I had a similar call after buying a car.

Before discussing the account, they asked me to name a couple of the organisations that I have a monthly direct debit for to verify that it was actually me they were speaking to.

I was quite impressed, tbh.

MargaretThursday · 01/02/2026 10:02

pinkswirl · 01/02/2026 09:56

I think it’s because there have been cases in the past where the scammers have pretended to hang up, so when the victim calls the proper bank number they think they’re calling their bank but they’re really still on the line to the scammer. I doubt that still works with modern phones/ mobile phones though.

Edited

I was advised to call back on a different phone to avoid this happening.

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 10:04

HopeWithNotes · 01/02/2026 10:00

I think the scammers needed to use the OTP code on a verified device. They’ve tricked her into authorising the code they received.

Yes, possibly but what's worrying is how they got the OTP to an unverified number in the first place. That's what the bank needs to explain imo

MrsJeanLuc · 01/02/2026 10:08

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:52

The extra info about the online banking details being changed is key imo, that's what you want to concentrate on and find out what the controls are around that. How were they able to change those?

I still can't work out why you needed to input that code somewhere rather than the scammers

Yes, this is bugging me too.

I wonder if, somehow, they managed to get hold of her Bank card. Either through cloning? Or through some sort of postal scam where they apply for a second card and then intercept it in the post?

Then they use that in one of those card reader devices that gives you a code to input via your phone???

All speculation of course.

EasternStandard · 01/02/2026 10:09

JennyWren5 · 01/02/2026 00:27

The most important thing to remember is your bank will never, ever call you. Ever.

If someone calls you and says they’re from your bank, please tell them you are busy and will call them back. And then ring your bank on their official number - which will be on the back of your bank card or on your banking app screen.

Please remember this and tell this to everyone you know.

There are loads of other scams, of course, but this is still important to remember as it’s unfortunately still quite a popular and effective scam.

Yep good to reiterate this.

That sounds horrible op

WelcometomyUnderworld · 01/02/2026 10:12

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 09:39

No it's fine, I want to help anyone I can.

Yes I believe that's what happened. He had my name, address and basic personal information. He then, after a long preamble making me concerned and eager to secure my account, asked me for my sort code and acct number for 'verification' and then gave me a code (ostensibly to secure my account). This was the OTP but it was sent to him, NOT to me - I had no notification. (This was part of what made me believe it - he didn't ask me for a code, he GAVE me a code.) And he must already have had my 3-digit security code, expiry etc because he didn't ask for that.

I feel like they must have hacked into my personal information somehow and then I gave them the final authorisation that they needed. It's scary to me too, because I don't know what or how much personal information they have.

They haven’t compromised your code, they’ve comprised your online banking. With Lloyds group, for example, when you log into your online banking when a new device they ring you and ask you to input the code on your device. This is likely what they’ve done, and then they can log into your online banking, change your number and make payments.

So it’s probably your email address that’s been compromised at some point. Change your email address password and your online banking password - and if anyone ever rings you for anything at all like that, hang up and call them back on a number you know to be right (if they’ve rang your landline, ring back from another telephone).

PP’s have said your bank will never ring, that’s not true - both Chase and TSB have legitimately rang me before (once to alert me of fraud, once to check a large payment I’ve made was actually me) - but in both scenarios they were understanding of me not giving information or taking action and ringing them back instead.

Also, this is a very common scam so I’m alarmed the bank have said they’ve never heard of it before. I‘m not a scammer but if I was going to try and hack someone’s bank account this is exactly how I’d do it.

MrsJeanLuc · 01/02/2026 10:12

EasternStandard · 01/02/2026 10:09

Yep good to reiterate this.

That sounds horrible op

No it is NOT good to keep reiterating this. Because it's WRONG.

As quite a few people have pointed out!

If you want to say something useful reiterate the comment about hanging up and dialling 159 which gets you to a cross bank fraud line.

lemonraspberry · 01/02/2026 10:13

They asked me for my acct number and sort code to 'verify' my account.

Banks will never ask for this information - they have made it very clear this is the case. This is essentially your password to your accounts.

What I have noticed is that these scams usually kick off when a retailer has been hacked, some information like name and address/phone number has been sold online and they need the other half of the information, like bank details, which have been encrypted (by law).

EasternStandard · 01/02/2026 10:13

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 09:39

No it's fine, I want to help anyone I can.

Yes I believe that's what happened. He had my name, address and basic personal information. He then, after a long preamble making me concerned and eager to secure my account, asked me for my sort code and acct number for 'verification' and then gave me a code (ostensibly to secure my account). This was the OTP but it was sent to him, NOT to me - I had no notification. (This was part of what made me believe it - he didn't ask me for a code, he GAVE me a code.) And he must already have had my 3-digit security code, expiry etc because he didn't ask for that.

I feel like they must have hacked into my personal information somehow and then I gave them the final authorisation that they needed. It's scary to me too, because I don't know what or how much personal information they have.

Sounds really tricky. The giving you a code thing.

EasternStandard · 01/02/2026 10:14

MrsJeanLuc · 01/02/2026 10:12

No it is NOT good to keep reiterating this. Because it's WRONG.

As quite a few people have pointed out!

If you want to say something useful reiterate the comment about hanging up and dialling 159 which gets you to a cross bank fraud line.

Either way it’s good to hang up and call directly. If all someone remembers is to do that it’s better than remembering this take that sometimes they call.

NewYearSameYou · 01/02/2026 10:16

BonneMamanAbricot · 01/02/2026 00:23

Yes, when I asked what my chances were of recovering the money they said they couldn't say as this was a new scam. I don't know if they meant specific aspects were new, the degree of sophistication in imitating the bank communications, or what

I think they meant 'new to you' as in had just happened...

WelcometomyUnderworld · 01/02/2026 10:16

busyd4y · 01/02/2026 09:52

The extra info about the online banking details being changed is key imo, that's what you want to concentrate on and find out what the controls are around that. How were they able to change those?

I still can't work out why you needed to input that code somewhere rather than the scammers

See my last post. I got a new phone yesterday, to log into my Lloyds account the device showed me a number and rang the number from the registered account and I had to put the number from the device in. It was to prove that I had both the registered number and the new device that was logging in in front of me.

It’s also how all Halifax and Lloyds parent approvals work, they ring you and you input the code shown on your screen.

I think the scammers were getting approval for their device to log into OP’s internet banking where they then had unfettered access.

WelcometomyUnderworld · 01/02/2026 10:19

lemonraspberry · 01/02/2026 10:13

They asked me for my acct number and sort code to 'verify' my account.

Banks will never ask for this information - they have made it very clear this is the case. This is essentially your password to your accounts.

What I have noticed is that these scams usually kick off when a retailer has been hacked, some information like name and address/phone number has been sold online and they need the other half of the information, like bank details, which have been encrypted (by law).

They’re nothing like the passwords to your accounts. You’ve told them to every utility provider you’ve ever had, everyone who’s ever provided you with debt, shown them to everyone who has ever seen your debit card and they’re on every cheque you’ve ever sent.

Jeremy Clarkson sort of proved this with his experiment years ago. He printed his account number and sort code in the paper - all that happened was someone set up a charity direct debit in his name, that he could have had refunded but didn’t because it was charity.

HopeWithNotes · 01/02/2026 10:21

Hallywally · 01/02/2026 09:58

Come on, we shouldn’t victim blame. If we start victim blaming for one type of crime, where would it end? Women walking alone at night? Getting drunk? Wearing a mini skirt? You get my gist. The perpetrators are ALWAYS the ones to blame.

I agree victims should be treated kindly and not shamed. I don’t think people are victim shaming though. They’re looking at ways to protect themselves from low life criminals. I absolutely wouldn’t walk home alone at night and I wouldn’t encourage my daughter to. I get what you’re saying, but it’s also so important to be allowed to learn lessons without being labelled victim blamers. It just needs to be discussed respectfully. Your way of thinking can be quite dangerous in preventing open discussion about difficult topics where information can and should be used to reduce the likelihood of further crimes.

Andepeda · 01/02/2026 10:25

If you want to call your bank after a potential scam call, ring the speaking clock first.

That way you know the line is clear.

JesseMum · 01/02/2026 10:26

That's not true. I made a small purchase in Sardinia a few years ago and m bank texted me to ask if it was an authentic transaction. I replied yes, but they followed up with a phone call. I was suspicious but it was legitimate. I almost got caught by a similar scam to above, he asked me for my bank password citing fraudulent transactions on my account and saying they were opening up an investigation into it. l almost gave it to him but sensed a red flag and hung up. Rang the no.back from different phone later that day and he answered naming a different bank. ..

EasternStandard · 01/02/2026 10:26

WelcometomyUnderworld · 01/02/2026 10:19

They’re nothing like the passwords to your accounts. You’ve told them to every utility provider you’ve ever had, everyone who’s ever provided you with debt, shown them to everyone who has ever seen your debit card and they’re on every cheque you’ve ever sent.

Jeremy Clarkson sort of proved this with his experiment years ago. He printed his account number and sort code in the paper - all that happened was someone set up a charity direct debit in his name, that he could have had refunded but didn’t because it was charity.

Yes agree with you there. If someone wants to be paid for a service they give sort code and account number.

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