I have an online friend in Australia. I me her through a shared hobby, and we chat a lot and get on very well. I saw something connected to our hobby that I knew she would love and ordered it for her. It wasn’t expensive. I’ve just had a message to say it’s dispatched but needs to be signed for even though I specifically chose a delivery message that doesn’t require this. In Mumsnet terms, how bad is sending something unsolicited and unannounced that makes someone else answer their door bell? For context, she lives alone and has indoor cats and it’s currently 42 degrees and she is not in great physical health…..