I don’t have a particularly high monthly income, around £1600k made up of two work pensions and my state pension. This just about covers my day to day expenses ( I live alone so need to cover my household bills from just my income) and some annual costs but not home improvements, cars, holidays etc.
My retirement plan was to drawdown from some savings accounts I built up when working to boost my monthly income, ISAs and an untouched pension scheme made up of additional years I bought in my teachers pension and a divorce settlement - to get a clean break my ex gave me £20% of his pension at time of divorce.
I have an annual meeting with a financial advisor to discuss my plans for the year ahead and he advises me which fund to access, usually the one earning the least interest at the time. So last year I had a new drive and in 2026 I need to replace my bathroom which was a very cheap installation 15 years ago and also to buy a free standing pergola type shelter for my patio.
I have an untouched pension which is affected by changes to the inheritance tax rules made at a recent budget so I need to consider carefully this year which fund to access.
I also inherited a decent amount when my mother died, I had not factored any inheritance into my future financial planning as I thought most of her money would be used for care home fees but sadly mum died not long after moving into a care home with dementia. I’m using this inheritance to gift my three adult children and grand child a substantial ( well substantial to me!) amount each birthday and Christmas under the inheritance rules for gifts from excess income.
I think I’m well provided for and it’s great that I can gift my children £20k per year between them without impacting on my lifestyle and not breaking any inheritance rules but it’s an unusual way of doing things. My children are well aware that if I need more money one year, they will not be gifted as much, I’ve warned then not to rely on my generosity.
My life style ( and spending) has been restricted in recent years due to arthritis in both knees but I’ve just had knee replacement surgery ( and will be having surgery on my second leg in May 2026) so I might start spending more on holidays!