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Breaking Up

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Randomuser2026 · 27/01/2026 17:09

We’ve been together 2 years. My first relationship after a long abusive marriage.

He had been separated for longer and his divorce is very slowly going through the courts.

It has been the perfect relationship for me to get back in the saddle after my marriage. Respectful, kind, warmth, affection. All good.
Nonetheless I have come to realize that although he likes me well enough, he doesn’t actually love me. The last few times we met we have talked a lot about it, including at lunch today. I know myself that I am done.

on the inside I feel a mixture of sadness, anger and bit of heartache.
But I now have to end it. I could go tonight to his house to collect (something important) and do it then. He is traveling to his home country on Fri and will be away for a week. I think I want to do it before then.
I sort of know what I want to say, but also want a handhold. Tell me some great break up stories.

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