Scenario:
Me, my former line manager (FML) and my new line manager (NML, I'm 9 months in new role with the two workstreams intertwined) meet to discuss workstream progression, third of a series of meetings. FML continued as previous meetings - talking over me and NML, shouting over us as we tried to continue to speak, clear allusions to holding the funds for my role (turns out he doesn't I learned today).
Context:
Following last such meetings NML wanted to report FML's attitude, tone and manner towards me - bullying, belittling and dismissive. I didn't want any trouble in a new role, despite this being from NML clearly on my side so said no.
What followed
NML went to the boss of both her and him, and spoke to FML on peer level to call him out. Ultimate Boss spoke to me, called FML who immediately said he had something to tell her and owned it all.
But!
In between he sent a sorry-not-sorry email to me that actually contained the words 'I'm sorry I made you feel that way'.
So
I don't want to be seen as a troublemaker, but I'm buggered if I'll acquiesce; your suggestions please strong hive mind -
1.ignore
2.thank you for your email, the contents have been noted
3.Thanks X, let's move on