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Alex Honnold free climbing tower in Tapei

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lljkk · 25/01/2026 12:07

Admirable Skilled Guy or Lunatic encouraging others to do stupid stuff?

I'm normally quite Libertarian about risk-taking but this stunt is bothering me. Just imagine he had fallen to his death microseconds after the crowds were cheering him on. Sudden gruesome public death is going to happen to him or some other brave person doing such stunts, eventually. Is that ok?

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itsthetea · 26/01/2026 09:30

I don’t like the publicity around this stuff
the showing off

he will die doing it one day- they all do- and I don’t think he minds that idea

dairydebris · 26/01/2026 09:32

RueLepic · 26/01/2026 09:26

He's visibly not neurotypical with a single, overwhelming interest, quite apart from, as explored in Free Solo, the fact that he seems to have an amygdala that is unusually underpowered in terms of not responding usually to disturbing images.

Before anyone was sponsoring him, he lived in a van, and at one point, when his van broke down beyond repair, he lived in a tent and got around by bike. He's lost sponsors in the past because they didn't want their brands associated with practices they considered too risky.

He met his now wife after he was already well-known as a climber, and she's also a climber, she's always known he was risking his life on his climbs. I assume they had children in the full knowledge that she might be raising them alone.

I don't disagree with anything you say- and yes went in with eyes open.
To some extent I'd hope becoming a parent would change you a bit though? If not a husband.
Very interesting from a human psychology point of view. Wouldn't have had kids with him myself 😊.

Joystir59 · 26/01/2026 09:33

I had to fast forward through some of the worst bits, and had to tell myself he obviously survived because the programme wouldn't have been broadcast. Awful, just awful!

AllJoyAndNoFun · 26/01/2026 09:34

Joystir59 · 26/01/2026 09:33

I had to fast forward through some of the worst bits, and had to tell myself he obviously survived because the programme wouldn't have been broadcast. Awful, just awful!

Edited

I think they live broadcast it so.... but yeah., I watched it on catch up

RueLepic · 26/01/2026 09:38

AllJoyAndNoFun · 26/01/2026 09:34

I think they live broadcast it so.... but yeah., I watched it on catch up

No, it was streamed with a delay, so him falling to his death was never going to be live on Netflix.

NutButterOnToast · 26/01/2026 09:40

IkaBaar · 26/01/2026 09:30

In Free Solo he talks about how much he earns (as much as a moderately successful dentist) and how much his lifestyle costs (not much when he lived in a van). I think he has earned a lot more out of it, than people realise.

Im not sure how sorry I feel for Sanni after watching Free solo, she knew what she was letting herself in for. The kids are another matter.

The money that will sustain a single dirtbag climber's lifestyle doesn't compare to a family man with a house & bills to pay for

CelticSilver · 26/01/2026 09:41

ConfessionsOfAMumDramaQueen · 26/01/2026 08:44

I've seen a few of his documentaries on Disney plus. Free solo, arctic ascent, devil's climb. Most of the more recent stuff has ropes and he definitely seemed a lot more careful with his life in devil's climb post marriage and kids than free solo pre kids.

As free solo's go, the tower is man-made. He knows where the holds are, they're regular, they won't give way under his hands. Seems safer to me than a cliff face thats much more unpredictable. His wife was there and seemed on board.

Exactly

RueLepic · 26/01/2026 09:46

dairydebris · 26/01/2026 09:32

I don't disagree with anything you say- and yes went in with eyes open.
To some extent I'd hope becoming a parent would change you a bit though? If not a husband.
Very interesting from a human psychology point of view. Wouldn't have had kids with him myself 😊.

Well, no, neither would I, but in many ways, his wife sounds like an unusual character as well, from the occasional interview I've read with her, though in a different way to him. She certainly comes at life from a very different place to where I come at it from. But they were together for years before marrying, and had their first child a couple of years after that, so it wasn't a rushed decision, and she's talked about having come to terms with the possibility of his death, particularly when Ueli Steck died on Everest.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/01/2026 09:46

As someone who cannot climb a loft ladder without feeling jelly legged, watching this man on the news last night almost made me want to vomit with second hand fear.

But whilst I would never call what he did admirable, its his choice and his risks to take. So I guess I'll live and let live.

RueLepic · 26/01/2026 09:51

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/01/2026 09:46

As someone who cannot climb a loft ladder without feeling jelly legged, watching this man on the news last night almost made me want to vomit with second hand fear.

But whilst I would never call what he did admirable, its his choice and his risks to take. So I guess I'll live and let live.

Then never watch Free Solo! It happened to be on TV while I was walking through the room, about to go to bed, and while I was picking up the remote to switch off the TV I just glanced at the screen. About half an hour later, I was still standing there with the remote in my hand, glazed with fear and suspense. DS also came into the room, and the two of us ended up giving in, sitting down and watching the rest of it.

mrstrickland · 26/01/2026 09:54

Alex is someone who obviously takes incredibly high risks by climbing without ropes, however he doesn't leave anything to chance. Anyone who watched Free Solo will know everything is meticulously planned (routes/hand/foots holds etc are all planned in advance). He doesn't do what he does for attention, he doesn't know how to be any different as this is how he has always been (according to his Mum). He has such a strong belief in his abilities so failure isn't an option.

He is autistic and his amygdala doesn't work like a 'normal' person, so he has an incredibly high tolerance for things we would be terrified of. His wife met him when he was doing Free Solo, so this isn't new to her.

Oh and for those calling him an arsehole, look at the Alex Honnold foundation.

golemmings · 26/01/2026 09:59

I don't have an issue. The climbing wasn't technically difficult but the exposure and risk is huge.

He did say that Netflix was a means to getting consent to climb it.

I liked him better from Taipei 101 than from reading his book.

Lovemycat2023 · 26/01/2026 10:04

From the interviews he did it wasn’t clear if he knew how much he was getting paid to do it! That seems very naive if so - his family should get the benefit of having to go through it all.

MerryGuide · 26/01/2026 10:04

I watched Devils climb last week and he seemed a lot more mature than Free Solo. Didn't know he was doing this sort of thing, it must require a totally different focus in a huge city.
You cant stop this sort of person, its wired into him.

RedToothBrush · 26/01/2026 10:16

The number of high profile climbers who die young is really scary.

Andy Kirkpatrick (another climber) has commented more than once about how many of his friends are now dead. He also talks about how climbing is an addiction and how he struggled to be more sensible due to family. He freely admitted just how selfish the sport is at that level and how difficult it is to give up. To an extent he felt that his other half had known that when they got together and that was him but it was different with his kids. He's done hard core climbing trips with his daughter but not the level of shit he was doing when he was at his worst. He describes a cycle of massive lows and highs from climbing and the rush he got from it. Whilst climbing the rest of the world don't matter and that is the point. He's an interesting bloke and his books on the subject are worth reading.

It's really not like Cirque du Soleil, movie stunts or
F1 racing. The death rate is much higher amongst this certain group of climbers.

I remember talking about one such climber with DH a few years back about his latest stunt. I forget which. The conversation went that he was pushing his luck by breaking all the known rules on safety because he'd almost got a superhero complex where he thought he was too good to make those mistakes. We thought it was only a matter of time because the mentality is always to go one step harder on every success. Sure enough the next thing we saw hed been killed in an incident.

Honnold is following this pattern. It doesn't help that he's been paid to do this one - it glamourises idiocy. I know professional outdoor instructors who get so pissed off by advertisers, brands, social media and TV who are completely irresponsible in showing these type of sports without the safety gear. It just leads to deaths - not necessarily the person in question on that occasion - but it creates a culture of complacency and bad attitudes to safety protocols that they then have to confront and challenge. And it puts people like them at risk because they inevitably end up being the ones who have to rescue idiots.

Expeditions and stunts which are dangerous and exciting but emphasise this aspect of the sport I'm fine with. When It starts to get to this stage it's deeply problematic.

NutButterOnToast · 26/01/2026 11:04

Love Andy Kirkpatrick. His books are brilliant.

Putneydad7 · 27/01/2026 18:22

I pestered my wife for ages to let me go heli-skiing. When she finally relented her parting words to me were "Come back healthy or come back dead, don't come back as a paraplegic, if you do you're going in a home, I'm not looking after you".

Namechangetoday43 · 27/01/2026 18:29

ThreeSixtyTwo · 25/01/2026 12:34

How do you feel about Cirque du Soleil?

How do you feel about movie stunts?

How do you feel about Eastbourne air show? F1 racing?

What's the difference?


I don't like when the live risk is being sold as part of the experience.

I somehow accept professionalism allowing to do things others can't, seriously assessing, mitigating and accepting the risks.

It's weird, but the Cirque in Canada is treated as employer and assessed for health & safety...

In this case, I don't like the live streaming aspect, but I consider him able to assess and understand the risks.

I pretty much think it's up to him (though I'm not sure I would feel the same way if I was the mother of his children!).

However, I don't agree that he's able to understand and assess the risks like a 'normal' person. Fear plays a big part in our assessment of risk and an MRI of his brain showed very little (if any) activation in his amygdala - the bit of the brain that assesses threats - even when being shown disturbing images.

Donotgogentle · 27/01/2026 18:47

As an athlete he’s absolutely amazing. It’s the doing it without a rope that bothers me, adding wholly unnecessary risk for the sake of the thrills and presumably views.

His body, his choice etc etc. But I feel a bit uncomfortable watching it. He seems like a decent guy to me.

EmeraldRoulette · 27/01/2026 18:53

I was wondering, what happens with the authorities in this situation

Do they just decide that the publicity and the money is worth the risk offset?

editing to add - I didn't know it was happening till after it happened and I didn't know about his previous climb. I wouldn't have watched it anyway. Just curious about how they manage all the PR.

Donotgogentle · 27/01/2026 18:53

lljkk · 26/01/2026 08:19

How do you feel about Cirque du Soleil?
How do you feel about movie stunts?
How do you feel about Eastbourne air show?
F1 racing?
(I'll add some)
Ski jumping
BMX racing or downhill MTB racing

What is the difference?
People doing the above professionally usually (?always) have lots of safety equipment. "No safety equipment" is not an achievement. I think that's what's niggling me. If he wants to take big risks, I'm mostly ok with that. But trumpeting the fact "no safety equipment" : feels like the aspect that's being celebrated. Did he achieve something that is helpful to other humans? I'm not sure. Is he encouraging less able/lucky people to copy him? Is that ok?

Taking risks is an awesome thing humans do. We have achieved so much because of risk-taking. Safety equipment is often annoying, gets in the way, uncomfortable or downright pointless. Profiting out of "no safety equipment" in a very high risk situation, and spectating when failure (bad luck) would be so horrific to witness, mmmm.... not finding that comfortable.

I agree, we’re partly watching it because there’s no safety equipment?

EasternStandard · 27/01/2026 19:11

RueLepic · 26/01/2026 09:38

No, it was streamed with a delay, so him falling to his death was never going to be live on Netflix.

I wondered how they streamed it

Tollington · 27/01/2026 19:13

I recently watched The Alpinist. It’s about a 23 year old Canadian lad who at one point climbs a mountain covered in snow and ice which is three times the size of El Cap which Alex Honnold climbed. He also does it on his own, without a rope

Very uncomfortable to watch but absolutely fascinating at the same time. Alex does feature in it too. I highly recommend watching it

RueLepic · 27/01/2026 19:26

Donotgogentle · 27/01/2026 18:53

I agree, we’re partly watching it because there’s no safety equipment?

But he’s been doing this for years. It’s not new. His thing is climbing with no ropes. That’s what he’s famous for. He’s a free soloist, a style of rock climbing that doesn’t use any equipment but chalk and climbing shoes.

If he’d fallen doing El Capitan, it wouldn’t have been live-streamed, no, because people outside the climbing community didn’t know, but it wouldn’t have involved falling to his death inches from a film crew who’d been shadowing him for months and knew him well.

ThreeSixtyTwo · 28/01/2026 00:24

titchy · 25/01/2026 12:42

The difference is that those things are very risky, but safety precautions are taken. He decides not to use them. His climbs would be no less spectacular if he wore a harness.

I don't see that big difference. I suppose there are thousands of climbers in the world who could do it with safety equipment.
We don't know what precautions they took here I'd expect that if he felt it wasn't going right, there were several spots where he could rest safely or even get to the building. Of course it wouldn't solve accidental slip, but having several exit points would help with some of the risks.

The other extreme stunts, when done on the top level, are often performed with limited safety equipment as well - motorcycle stunts without helmet, flying circus artists without harnesses

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