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Career kickstart mid forties

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Moneynoob · 24/01/2026 07:26

Have ruminated and slept badly all night. Would be great to get some real life advice as my close friend chat gpt has not really been that helpful!

am 45. I have taken side ways and possibly recent a downwards steps due to to absolutely toxic workplaces / horrible bosses (left two organisations to protect mental health.

I now earn what I did almost 10 year ago and have lost my senior edge in terms of external networking.

recently I’ve seen past peers (on LinkedIn) get some huge promotions. I feel jealous and also hard on myself for making bad decisions.

can anyone give any advice please? I work in finance so very conscious of my age being a factor externally , current org nice enough but very land grabby and hard to carve out opportunities to succeed above current role.

thanks all

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Moneynoob · 24/01/2026 10:42

Lonely bump?

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cosimnotwhereitsat · 24/01/2026 10:45

I feel your pain. I am in a similar position in terms of being stuck but have no job atm and have no answers for you. But perhaps you can give a clearer idea of skill set?

Boxingshibes · 24/01/2026 10:46

Do you like finance? Are there any sideways roles that look appealing? Are there any professional exams you could do?( ideally paid for by your employer)
Or do you want a complete switch?
Think about what's important to you. Money, wfh, work/life balance.
Could you be fulfilled outside work through hobbies or volunteering?

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Moneynoob · 24/01/2026 11:29

thank you. Looking at thread is more from career changers which I don’t think is what I want. I guess is tips on how to level up at a later age in life?

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Moneynoob · 24/01/2026 11:30

Re skill set. From previous, strategy planning which I loved, much more technical/ hand on these days. Seem limited opportunities for even sideways here

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