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Times you have whistle blown with no regrets?

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Sprinklesandsprinkles · 22/01/2026 19:39

Inspired by a couple of safeguarding threads that I've just seen this evening!

I've reported what I see as serious situations twice and absolutely feel that I've don't the right thing! Although nobody knows that it was me and I would never tell.

The first was when I was part of a fairly young group/team and a section of them had a big party. The next morning a good few of them drove in still drunk. They made no attempts to hide the fact.
They have this party every year and it's windy national speed roads that they had driven on. I could just see this leading to disaster one year so I told the boss. He didn't ask for names and I didn't give them, but I overheard the drivers being very annoyed saying there was a snitch in the group after he pulled up the whole group about the risks they had taken.

Second is I worked in care and the manager got some of the staff to make up lots of paperwork that had been missed/just not done. Somebody was coming in to check on the individual that day and he he found out he went into a frenzy trying to cover up the tracks of what had been missed. I called the area manager and he was never seen in work again (area manager spoke to the paperwork staff and they backed up what I'd told them).

I honestly don't have any regrets, there could have been serious harm done in both of these situations. I didn't take pleasure in them though I just think they had to be done!

What have been your whistleblowing moments and were they followed through on?

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Daisypod · 22/01/2026 20:57

We had a boss at work who would regularly get drunk on a Friday lunch time and then drive home on the motorway. It was mentioned to him that he shouldn’t drive but he would brush it off. Our team all decided to report to the police, he was caught on the motorway, very over the limit, lost his licence and could no longer work in current job as had no transport. Absolutely no regrets

Sprinklesandsprinkles · 22/01/2026 21:08

Daisypod · 22/01/2026 20:57

We had a boss at work who would regularly get drunk on a Friday lunch time and then drive home on the motorway. It was mentioned to him that he shouldn’t drive but he would brush it off. Our team all decided to report to the police, he was caught on the motorway, very over the limit, lost his licence and could no longer work in current job as had no transport. Absolutely no regrets

I'm glad to hear this, what an idiot!! It's a relief to hear people like this stopped before they kill somebody

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GarlicSound · 22/01/2026 21:15

I've done it maybe a dozen times, often with no consequence as far as I know.

Working behind a bar, I told on a colleague who was stealing way more than what might've been considered normal (I know, I know!) Management sent the manager of another branch in as a customer, he corroborated, she was fired.

Also my insane bully of a boss at a big company. He wasn't really fired, though, he was given early retirement with severance and his share holdings. Didn't deserve the kid gloves at all.

I've tried - twice - to warn friends that someone they were about to hire was a lying, thieving bullshitter (I didn't put it quite like that). They ignored me and were robbed.

I totally would call the cops if someone got in their car drunk or stoned. We do have a degree of social responsibility.

PinkDreamer · 22/01/2026 21:18

I’ve never regretted whistle blowing and never will. I’ve whistle blown when I’ve seen a child being dragged across the room in a nursery. Also whistle blown on more than one occasion because nursery staff have left children unsupervised

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