We have seperated a few months ago.
Issues were, I guess differences in expectations in the end of the day? Im not traditional at all. I thought he wasnt either. And when we seperated it came to a point where it was easier to raise our child, work fulltime and do the rest. It is easier or at least more peaceful, than it used to be. Working and paying was enough to him.
We are coparents. But with added distance his lack of effort hasnt got better not at all. It wasnt a wake up call. It wasnt a potential new way, with a partner that suits him more it would be better. No. Nothing.
What could move him to be better? Can i do something?
Should i just write him off. He'll come around as an actual dad when he feels like it?
Im not worried about having our child on my own and raising her. But for her sake. I thought there be some effort. I just want some input and ill appreciate it.
(Side note: as of now, i work from home. So thats no issue. I am pretty much around her 24/7. I am not in finacial trouble. I can make it work with out him)