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Gift for boss?

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Minorie · 20/01/2026 21:26

I've worked for my boss for 4 years now but they are in a different country so ive only met them in person 3 times but they are coming again and i feel to get them a small present. Ive seen others getting their bosses drinks but they are in the same country. Is it strange to get something? We get on really well!

OP posts:
somanychristmaslights · 20/01/2026 22:08

It’s weird to get your boss a present. Unless it’s a culture that it’s normal??

Minorie · 21/01/2026 02:14

That's what im wondering, is it weird

OP posts:
DearestItIsSnowing · 21/01/2026 02:24

A perspective from another country: If you read Ask A Manager (US based, plenty of replies from elsewhere) she always says that gifts should flow down and not up. So, a boss can give the people she manages presents but they shouldn’t feel they have to give her anything.

Ask a Manager

showyourquality · 21/01/2026 02:31

I think a token gift based on your country might be nice, tea bags and a packet of British biscuits for example.
I have given and received gifts both as a boss and to my boss but I would keep them small and socially neutral.

showyourquality · 21/01/2026 02:31

But don’t feel you have to, you don’t.

DearestItIsSnowing · 21/01/2026 02:55

showyourquality · 21/01/2026 02:31

I think a token gift based on your country might be nice, tea bags and a packet of British biscuits for example.
I have given and received gifts both as a boss and to my boss but I would keep them small and socially neutral.

I agree. Small token gifts are something else, and can be appropriate, if you want to. Like buying the boss a drink, as in the OP’s example.

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