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Bullying via Vinted

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Weareoutofwine · 16/01/2026 22:24

I've just seen quite a sad listing pop up on my Vinted feed. A photo of a school girl, blurry looking distressed in her school uniform. Clearly taken without permission. It has been listed as an item for sale - with what is likely her first name on it.

The 'seller' is based in a UK town and follows other sellers in said town. The sellers other items for sale suggest a teenage girl. I've reported it to Vinted - though there wasnt really a clear category that the report could fall into.

It makes me so so frustrated and sad that if a tool can be used for bullying
it is.

48 people have 'liked' the post in the space of it being up (v short time). Really despicable behaviour and suggests a targeted approach against the young girl. I don't really know why I'm posting this - just that I feel so upset for the girl, and so powerless. Bullying is rife and tech just seems so easy to use to inflict further visible humiliation and pain.

OP posts:
AnSolas · 18/01/2026 10:05

ThatWasMyLastFatFreeFrush · 18/01/2026 09:45

I saw a couple of these last night and reported them - got a reply this morning from Vinted saying they couldn't take action against the poster because it needs a further review.

Muppets think having a child (human) for sale on their website needs further review🙄

Dear user
If you use this site to place an ad offering humans for sale. You, your ad and all personal data will be reported to the police for investigation of criminal activity under human trafficing legislation.

Data protection breaches may also get a quicker reply and force Vinted to update their systems

Commissioner's Office (ICO), use [email protected] for general complaints and casework or [email protected]

Before you continue to Google Search

https://www.google.com/search?q=casework%40ico.org.uk&client=ms-android-samsung-rvo1&hs=8HWU&sca_esv=a64ff662bc0fc51f&source=android-browser&ei=Rq5sacCOE4i2hbIP-YfcwAc&oq=uk+data+protection+commissioner+email&gs_lp=EhNtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1zZXJwIiV1ayBkYXRhIHByb3RlY3Rpb24gY29tbWlzc2lvbmVyIGVtYWlsMgYQABgWGB4yCxAAGIAEGIYDGIoFMgsQABiABBiGAxiKBTILEAAYgAQYhgMYigUyBRAhGKABMgUQIRifBTIFECEYnwUyBRAhGJ8FSMdQUJcPWKMycAF4AZABAJgBS6ABjQOqAQE2uAEDyAEA-AEBmAIHoALUBMICChAAGLADGNYEGEfCAhcQLhiwAxi4BhjYAhjIAxjaBhjcBtgBAcICCBAAGIAEGKIEwgIFEAAY7wXCAgcQIRigARgKmAMAiAYBkAYLugYECAEYGZIHAzUuMqAHsSmyBwM0LjK4B7YEwgcDNC03yAfCAYAIAA&sclient=mobile-gws-wiz-serp&mstk=AUtExfDVfJB4si4FMF7hIfMKFEqcc0UIHKAxhLQDzEL-nNNyIcG-5x9CRxy5Mz6lUM5HPI1bGgJT82ZsxbDVXD3zRtEnoL7_j1dHEHEy4ZuaBehYby1c-p83YX1uAcfZzqLUL7Y&csui=3&ved=2ahUKEwi69OHO6ZSSAxVTV0EAHc61MvgQgK4QegQIARAD

Weareoutofwine · 18/01/2026 10:36

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Weareoutofwine · 18/01/2026 10:36

AnSolas · 18/01/2026 10:05

Muppets think having a child (human) for sale on their website needs further review🙄

Dear user
If you use this site to place an ad offering humans for sale. You, your ad and all personal data will be reported to the police for investigation of criminal activity under human trafficing legislation.

Data protection breaches may also get a quicker reply and force Vinted to update their systems

Commissioner's Office (ICO), use [email protected] for general complaints and casework or [email protected]

Excellent idea - re holding data and data requirements.

OP posts:
AnSolas · 18/01/2026 10:39

Weareoutofwine · 18/01/2026 10:36

Excellent idea - re holding data and data requirements.

A % of turnover fine can be a great reason to review "things which put my bonus at risk"

ByWarmShark · 18/01/2026 10:41

Thank you so much for reporting. Lots of people talk, few take action.

Allisnotlost1 · 18/01/2026 10:49

Weareoutofwine · 18/01/2026 08:27

To answer a few questions... as I have interacted with one item - now endless ones are appearing in my feed. I have reported each one to Vinted. Some reports are acted upon and the photos are the child removed. Others apparently don't break Vinted rules. What a joke!

I am fairly convinced these are bullying posts. The photos are all of children in school uniforms from numerous schools/areas in the UK. They are photos taken I would say without permission... so in the canteen, doing mean things like putting things in the children's school hoods - or up close and uncomfortable.

There could be a darker intent as some have suggested - but the things some of the accounts are selling look childish - like the current on trend teen make up or cheap teen clothes. Or nothing at all.

The item description is usually bullying in nature - ie calling them fat, stupid, ugly, lazy etc.

If a tool can be used for I'll intent hey it will it seems.

So today I am writing to my MP (he is hot on this type of thing), I have sent an email to the one identifiable school. All others are so generic in uniform and unfortunately I don't have time to investigate each one. I will also send an email to a journalist I know through work connections who has covered similar issues.

Kids are as ever one step ahead. We (collective adult population, tech and govts) need to get ahead on where all this is constantly heading.

Edited

Well done for being proactive on this. I think NSPCC do a lot on cyber bullying etc so may be worth cc’ing them when you contact your MP. Agree that any tool can be exploited for ill intent but it’s infuriating when platforms are so lax. They’re certainly quick to take down images that might infringe copyright, because they are afraid of consequences. Should be the same on allowing their platform to be used for bullying.

Weareoutofwine · 18/01/2026 10:51

Allisnotlost1 · 18/01/2026 10:49

Well done for being proactive on this. I think NSPCC do a lot on cyber bullying etc so may be worth cc’ing them when you contact your MP. Agree that any tool can be exploited for ill intent but it’s infuriating when platforms are so lax. They’re certainly quick to take down images that might infringe copyright, because they are afraid of consequences. Should be the same on allowing their platform to be used for bullying.

Excellent idea - will forward email to NSPCC.

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Allisnotlost1 · 18/01/2026 10:55

JustMyView13 · 18/01/2026 10:02

The MP’s first question will be whether you’ve reported it and if you do, you’ll have a reference number which you can share with them, and express your concerns about whether it’s had appropriate follow up (given the past experience you mention). It is so important that we don’t self police what is reported to the police, as it always impedes their ability to act.

It’s not about not engaging, it’s about engaging efficiently.

I’m genuinely curious why you have such faith in the police?

People self police what’s reported to the police all the time, precisely because the police self police what they investigate. If the OP’s MP is engaged on cyber crime they will understand how impossible it can be to get police interested (and what limited powers they have in any case).

i’d have thought government noise and negative media is more likely to get Vinted interested than a police enquiry that they can ignore because they’re based outside the UK. And that’s even assuming the police take any notice - far from guaranteed.

Allisnotlost1 · 18/01/2026 11:01

There’s also reports of this and other misuse of Vinted on Reddit https://www.reddit.com/r/vinted/comments/1g3empg/inappropriate_pictures_on_a_12yos_vinted_profile/

At the least, Vinted are not enforcing their own Ts and Cs and therefore are risking their reputation.

Weareoutofwine · 18/01/2026 11:18

Allisnotlost1 · 18/01/2026 10:55

I’m genuinely curious why you have such faith in the police?

People self police what’s reported to the police all the time, precisely because the police self police what they investigate. If the OP’s MP is engaged on cyber crime they will understand how impossible it can be to get police interested (and what limited powers they have in any case).

i’d have thought government noise and negative media is more likely to get Vinted interested than a police enquiry that they can ignore because they’re based outside the UK. And that’s even assuming the police take any notice - far from guaranteed.

Completely agree with your post.

OP posts:
Doone22 · 18/01/2026 11:48

Also try your local MP. These platforms need to be more proactive in removing this content.

TheDandyLion · 18/01/2026 13:17

I got a response back from vinted about the one I reported.

We’ve received your report but couldn’t take action to discipline the account because it needs a further review. Thank you for reporting this - you’re helping make Vinted a community where everyone can feel safe. Although we haven’t taken action against this member, you can block them so they’re no longer part of your Vinted experience.

latetothefisting · 18/01/2026 14:21

pinkypoo8 · 17/01/2026 21:29

Vinted customer "support" is an absolute joke cut and paste responses you can never speak to an individual I don't know where you'll get to with this as it sounds serious

agree with vinted being useless.

It would be pretty easy for them to go hard on this - block the seller's profile and send them a message saying their details (which if they've ever bought anything will include their full name and address) have been referred to the police in relation to a potential crime (quoting specific Acts).

If they are kids doing it to bully others that might scare them off even if the police don't actually take any action.

JustMyView13 · 18/01/2026 14:27

Allisnotlost1 · 18/01/2026 10:55

I’m genuinely curious why you have such faith in the police?

People self police what’s reported to the police all the time, precisely because the police self police what they investigate. If the OP’s MP is engaged on cyber crime they will understand how impossible it can be to get police interested (and what limited powers they have in any case).

i’d have thought government noise and negative media is more likely to get Vinted interested than a police enquiry that they can ignore because they’re based outside the UK. And that’s even assuming the police take any notice - far from guaranteed.

I don’t. As someone who’s reported a crime caught on CCTV, knew and disclosed who committed said crime, and had the police response be simply - they said it wasn’t them, they seem like a nice person. I know first hand they don’t. But I still passionately believe we should all continue to report crimes regardless of whether the police solve them. And I believe this because I’m sick of hearing that ‘x crime has been reduced’ when the reality doesn’t match that. It’s almost a rebellion. But also, I do believe that something involving children at risk (whether it’s bullying or not) we all have a responsibility to ensure the police are notified. And I also support following up with the MP, sharing the crime number to ensure it’s not just another statistic. Otherwise the police tell the MP’s they’re doing a smashing job.

Casperroonie · 18/01/2026 17:04

Weareoutofwine · 16/01/2026 22:35

Or might I make it worse for the girl. My instinct is email the school.

Well done OP, please do email the school. It must have been very hard to see that image, poor girl 😥

Casperroonie · 18/01/2026 17:07

Weareoutofwine · 18/01/2026 09:48

I've raised with a journalist I know, emailed my MP (who is hot on this stuff and actively engaged), emailed one school from a post that was highly identifiable and emailed my children's school. I have emailed vinted - but I doubt they will even read it. I've reported and will continue to report any posts that pop up on my Vinted feed. I've told my friends about it.

I think that is all I can do now - hopefully this all helps raise awareness. If everyone takes a little responsibility and applies pressure where they are able it will hopefully affect change. I'm hoping this post raises awareness with parents too.

I'm not on any other social media - so can't raise there.

You're amazing!!!!! Thank you.

ThatWasMyLastFatFreeFrush · 19/01/2026 22:47

Just had another message from Vinted to say they've taken actions to discipline the poster I reported, for violating community standards.

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