@PillowRice yeah this is ridiculous
My mum had exactly the same problem. She can't really go out without me, but we have learned that I have to take her to the bank and then stand aside because otherwise they will simply say to her "can't your daughter do it online?" Which is completely ridiculous for many many reasons.
Last time she tried to transfer money in the bank, she was told all kinds of rubbish by the teller, including that she needed paperwork proof from the person she was trying to pay. She came outside and told me what happened. I went back in with her and the teller confirmed this
So we rang the helpline for the bank - a number I think she was given because she is elderly - and they were very clear that the bank should do it for her. I genuinely think the staff are actually told to encourage people to go away.
So we went back in next day, the same person was on duty, and it took her about an hour to do the simple job that mum wanted her to do. I wonder if the whole thing happened because the bank staff aren't trained to do anything. Part of the hour was taken up because the printer wasn't working, so it wasn't all to do with the teller, not knowing what to do. And of course we didn't need paper proof from the person mum was paying!
Luckily, this time they took us into a room to sit down because mum cannot stand for very long.
Posters who think an elderly person who has had a couple of strokes can do online banking reliably - you really need to think again. Managing numbers on the screen is not going to be so easy after that kind of health problem.
There are many many people who need a human being in a bank to do the job of actually banking. That's not such an unreasonable thing to ask for.
It should come under some kind of disability discrimination, the way that people are being treated.
about the bouncer - they will have needed to ask the question about how much, because it will connect to the person you ultimately get directed to. I think different people will have different levels of authority about what they can do.