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Terrifying drive home

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Yve89 · 02/01/2026 00:36

Basically, on the drive back home from my mum’s house with my 8 yo DD, I was driving at the speed limit (30 mph) on a single-lane road. It’s one of the main roads in the city and usually really busy, as it leads onto the A1.
A driver behind me overtook me by driving into the oncoming traffic lane - he was flying! It really frightened me, so I flashed my headlights to make him aware that I was there. I was so scared, he'd crash and we'd end up crashing onto him.

Seconds later, he stopped in the middle of the road, put his hazard lights on, and started beeping at me. The road was very quiet as it was around 10pm. At first, I thought he had stopped because there was something in the road. But, then I realised something wasn’t right. I felt like I was being targeted and panicked. I tried to turn my car around to escape because I was petrified he might hurt us. As I tried to turn, he kept blocking my car with his and wouldn’t let me pass. He then drove off, and I thought that was the end of it, but it wasn’t.

When I reached the roundabout further down, he was waiting there for me. He stopped his car in the roundabout, to my right, and refused to move. When I tried to go, he moved his car towards mine, like he was trying to hit me. When I looked, there were two passengers in the car, and they were shouting and swearing at me.

They then tried to follow me onto the motorway, but other cars came up behind me and I eventually lost sight of them.
I’m really shaken by what happened. I don’t have a dashcam (I’m ordering one now), so I don’t have clear evidence. I did report it to 101, but I don’t have the number plate. I did tell them there may be CCTV footage from the petrol station opposite the roundabout. They gave me a telephone appointment but I'm unsure if I want to follow through with the report. I'm just glad we're home safe.

I feel so anxious about driving. DD is very scared, and so am I. I can't sleep and feel sick with anxiety at what could've happened.

OP posts:
StarsTwinklingPomanders · 02/01/2026 00:43

Hi op that sounds awful. Would your DD have been able to call the police maybe as it was happening ?

TheUsualChaos · 02/01/2026 00:45

That's so horrible, not surprised you're both very shaken. Keep reminding yourself that most importantly, you got you and your DD home and that you are safe now.

I bet they were drink or drug driving or both.

I think if you describe exactly what happened, the police will take this very seriously and try to find them. I very much doubt you were the first person they've done this to.

Yve89 · 02/01/2026 00:50

StarsTwinklingPomanders · 02/01/2026 00:43

Hi op that sounds awful. Would your DD have been able to call the police maybe as it was happening ?

My phone was in my right pocket and my hands were glued to the steering wheel. I was too scared to fumble for it. Eventually, I managed to get it out, but by then it was too late. I tried to call my mum on the car's speed dial, but she didn’t answer. Looking back, I could’ve used the car’s voice assistant to call the police, but too much was happening at the time. I didn't think of it.

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patooties · 02/01/2026 01:00

I had a pointless bloke do this to me - and chase me - it was horrible. His initial move was to come flying up the motorway - get in front of me and slam his brakes on to a dead stop. I slammed mine on. He then tried to reverse into me - the. Literally chased me up the motorway for a few junctions slamming his brakes on / cutting me up. Some men are just absolute cunts aren’t they?

Lunchcatastrophe · 02/01/2026 01:37

What a terrifying incident. It’s hardly surprising you’re both shaken up. It sounds like you handled a very dangerous and frightening situation really well and you got both of you home safely, which is what really matters. Hope you get some sleep.

paristotokyo · 02/01/2026 01:38

Maybe get a dash cam op?

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 02/01/2026 01:42

That must have been very frightening, OP, especially with your daughter in the car. I've had stuff like this happen to me. I suspect all women have. I would pursue it with the police, personally, if the police are interested. I hope you and your daughter feel safe now.

HelpMeGetThrough · 02/01/2026 01:46

paristotokyo · 02/01/2026 01:38

Maybe get a dash cam op?

Maybe read what the OP has written again, but with your glasses on?

BashfulClam · 02/01/2026 02:11

Yep your idea of a dashcam is spot on. As a pp said she had someone try reversing into her and they would then claim you rear ended them.

paristotokyo · 02/01/2026 02:19

@HelpMeGetThroughthat's a great idea. Thank you 😂

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