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Anyone else genuinely preferred today to yesterday

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AliasGrape · 26/12/2025 17:15

I normally feel a bit sad and flat by Boxing Day. As much as I tell myself it’s 12 days of Christmas etc, and we very much keep the decorations up and still have some lovely plans to look forward to, my heart isn’t quite in it usually.

Our Christmas Day was perfectly lovely, everyone on good form, appreciative of my efforts as the cook and did their bit, presents well received and it was definitely magical for DD which of course was special
to see. But I felt shattered (DD up from 5.20) and a bit wrung out after a really busy few weeks. I couldn’t get into the magic/ festive feeling somehow despite it being objectively a great day.

Today by comparison has been just lovely. Just one guest still here, then DH, DD and I. I usually make plans, see other family or try to force myself to find it still exciting and festive, but we had nothing at all on today and I’m definitely converted to keeping it this way in future. DD up at her usual 6.30 but DH took the hit and I had a lie in. Then just playing with her new toys and board games, watching a film together, a walk/ trip to the park, home for a late lunch which was essentially another Christmas dinner with the leftovers and I enjoyed it so much more this time I wasn’t tired, overheated and a bit tense like yesterday. More games, just stuck another film on and there’s a cheeseboard for later if we get hungry again.

Hosting again tomorrow and as much as I want to see everyone im somewhat dreading it!

Anyone else having a better day today?

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RescueMeFromThisSilliness · 26/12/2025 17:19

Different, but just as nice. I've spent a whole lot less time in the kitchen for one thing, although that is about to end as we are expecting family round any minute for dinner. We're having baked gammon and that is sitting on the side ready to go in the oven, and I am shortly going to inform DH that he is on spud bashing duty.

Meanwhile, I'm watching Harrison Ford Indiana Jones and drinking tea.

edwinbear · 26/12/2025 17:26

I love Boxing Day, so much less pressure for everything to be perfect and less rushing. Everyone got up when they felt like it, 8am for me with a coffee with leftover brandy cream in it. Had a lovely shower using some fab things I was given yesterday, full body scrub, new Rituals ‘Scalp Scrub’ and new hair oil. I had a fantastic sandwich with tiger bread, turkey, stuffing & pigs for lunch. DC got up about 11am and sorted their own food out. We’ve sat about eating leftovers, watching films and generally being lazy (DS did go out for a 10k run) I put a wash on. Relaxed buffet for dinner with smoked salmon, cheese, pork pie & jackets. Maybe a glass of wine. Even DCat has been far more chilled today - she was a bit of a grump yesterday with all the chaos.

skybluestars · 26/12/2025 17:37

Bloody love Boxing Day. Lie in. Beachy walk. Fiddling with new things that didn’t get much time yesterday. Leftovers. Tv. Chocolates.
I love Christmas Day. But Boxing Day is also very special after the madness.

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Norugratsatall · 26/12/2025 17:37

Oh my god yes I’ve always preferred Boxing Day! Pressure is off, there’s loads of food still in the fridge. Everyone just chills out, watches films, plays games, does puzzles, goes for a walk, and it all seems much less contrived in the sense that you feel you SHOULD have a good time.

I love the 4/5 days between Xmas and new year for similar reasons. Just enjoy each other’s company and decompress after the long hectic build up to Xmas.

Ribenaberry12 · 26/12/2025 17:39

I always feel very reflective on Boxing Day. Agreed, I like it better.

HarrietSchulenberg · 26/12/2025 17:40

Much as I love Christmas Day (and I really, really do), Christmas Day evening and Boxing Day are my favourite times. No pressure, everything's done and dusted, there's enough food for everyone to help themselves, and I can just not doing nothing. Bliss.

MeAndMyGhost · 26/12/2025 19:31

Boxing Day is the best BH day of the year imo for all of the reasons given above.

No pressure, pure relaxation and allll the leftovers/cheese.

blackheartsgirl · 26/12/2025 19:40

MeAndMyGhost · 26/12/2025 19:31

Boxing Day is the best BH day of the year imo for all of the reasons given above.

No pressure, pure relaxation and allll the leftovers/cheese.

Exactly this!

truly the best day of the year for me.
there’s no pressure, I don’t have to be anywhere. We’re existing on left overs and I’ve had a nap. Bliss.

Hallpast · 26/12/2025 19:52

It’s been a lovely day. Christmas was wonderful and everyone enjoyed it and I’ve had the day to myself today to wander round and watch rubbish on tv. Perfect

SliceofTosst · 26/12/2025 21:46

Love Christmss Day but on Boxing Day feels like I can finally exhale and relax. And rather than one main meal you can just pick at cold meats, cheese and chocolates all day.

Sandrine1982 · 26/12/2025 21:51

Totally gorgeous day today! I'm european so I had to cook on the 24th (stressful). Husband british so had to cook on the 25th (stressful). Today, DD had a playdate at a different house (peace!!) and we just watched Titanic, with a glass of wine, it was BLISS XX

NessShaness · 26/12/2025 21:58

I much prefer Boxing Day!

It’s so much more relaxed and I get to eat leftovers in my pyjamas. Brilliant.

CrushingOnRubies · 26/12/2025 22:50

Me too! I always find Christmas Day so chaotic so busy so full of expectations. And Boxing Day is the opposite just chill, relax and do want you want to do

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