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After a hard year, do I allow myself this?

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phoeb8 · 23/12/2025 18:48

I’m thinking about booking a trip for next summer (2026) to one of my dream destinations. If I book now, flights and accommodation for me and DD (it would also be for her birthday) are very reasonably priced; just over £1,000. That’s about the same as what I’d probably end up paying if I waited and booked somewhere closer a few weeks or months before going. Although the dream trip would cost a few hundred pounds more than what I'd normally spend once I factor in spending money, transport, food and activities etc.

The thing holding me back is that I’m in the middle of selling my place and looking to buy again, so I know there are a lot of expenses coming up. I keep going back and forth between thinking I should grab the deal now while it’s affordable, or wait until everything’s settled and then book something nearer the time even though I know it probably wouldn’t excite me as much as this trip.

Part of me is very much in the “you only live once” mindset. I’ve had a really tough year, and I feel like I deserve something nice to look forward to. But then the sensible part of my brain kicks in and starts overthinking even though I know, realistically, this money probably won’t make much difference when it comes to buying anyway. Still, it feels like a big decision.

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fivetriangulartrees · 23/12/2025 18:53

This might not be sensible (I don't know your finances) but I'd be inclined to think - if there's a danger I might not feel able to spend that sort of money on a holiday later, quick, book it now before your future self stops you.

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