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Can I ask recruitment consultants a question?

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sleepychunky · 19/12/2025 15:11

I don't have any contacts irl so here goes. I am leaving a job which I only started earlier this year. It wasn't the right fit for me and their expectations didn't match my reality. No hard feelings, but I'm now looking for another role. I found this job (the one I'm leaving) through a recruitment agency. The same agency is advertising a job I'm really interested in and would like to apply for. The problem is that it is exactly the same consultant handling this new job who placed me in my current role. So my question is, if you are a recruitment consultant, would you feel negatively towards me if I applied? And I know that my current employer has already been in touch with them (presumably to start the process around finding my replacement), so I don't know what they will have said about me that might influence things (to be clear, I didn't do anything bad). Basically how confidential are discussions and how much of what my current employer has told them would be shared with potential new employer? Would really like to apply but feel very awkward in this situation!

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Strangequinoaconcoction · 19/12/2025 15:14

I’m no expert but recruitment consultants are scum and they wouldnt give a shiny shit whether you were a good fit for the new job as long as the new company thought you were long enough that they got paid.

gallopingissuchfun · 19/12/2025 15:18

Recruitment typically works on commission. That alone means they would earn extra if they placed you for interview and you were appointed so I’d be really surprised if they would have a problem with it.

IdaGlossop · 19/12/2025 15:18

I am not a recruitment consultant but wanted to reply quickly because Christmas is so near. You have a perfectly good story to tell. Sometimes, jobs just don't work out because the fit isn't right. In your shoes, I would talk to the recruitment consultant today to get on the front foot and express your interest in the new job. They make their money by placing candidates so have to keep both employers and candidates on side.

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ThreeSixtyTwo · 19/12/2025 15:23

When did you start?
If you were there long enough for them to earn their whole commission (which might be tied to starting/probation period/something else) they should be happy to place you again

Niallig32839 · 19/12/2025 15:26

i work in recruitment and it can be tricky as you might lose the relationship with a client as they can view it as you ‘poaching’ their staff however it’s not the case and if you want to go for the job you should apply. The consultant might be able to backfill your role as well as get you a new job so win for everyone. Your employer might never need to know that you went forward for the job or how you get it.

Theres no hard and fast rules on these things and so dependent on individuals and how they feel but from your perspective as a candidate, if you want the job go for it, that’s the only part you have control over and whether you get it or it causes an issue for the consultant and client relationship that’s not for you to worry about. If you want to leave the job for whatever reason you will leave and your employer needs to handle that one way or another.

sleepychunky · 19/12/2025 15:31

I've been there 8 months - my probation was extended, which at my age and with my experience in the industry was massively humiliating. So I don't know if that will have affected commission.

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Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:02

sleepychunky · 19/12/2025 15:31

I've been there 8 months - my probation was extended, which at my age and with my experience in the industry was massively humiliating. So I don't know if that will have affected commission.

And it would seem that you won’t pass probation? Is that why you are worried about what they may say?

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:03

If you don’t pass your probation, the company will inform the recruiter in all likelihood anyway. Chances are there’s already been discussions because the recruiter who’s have been in contact to ask how their placement is working out

mynameiscalypso · 19/12/2025 18:29

Personally, I think the fact that your probation was extended is going to be the biggest issue because the recruitment consultant might be wary about placing you somewhere again.

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:30

mynameiscalypso · 19/12/2025 18:29

Personally, I think the fact that your probation was extended is going to be the biggest issue because the recruitment consultant might be wary about placing you somewhere again.

This

the recruiter will know you didn’t pass probation already

Strangequinoaconcoction · 19/12/2025 18:37

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:30

This

the recruiter will know you didn’t pass probation already

Will they care though as long as OP is good enough to impress the interviewers to be selected and last long enough at the new job for them to get their commission?

Nattalie18 · 19/12/2025 18:47

Recruiter won’t know she didn’t pass her probation. But usually recruiters will have a 3 months period for rebate so that the candidate needs to be there that long to hang onto their fee. Recruiter will be fine to put you somewhere else…. Speaking as a recruiter of 18 years. Hello to all the delightful people slating us 🤣

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:49

Nattalie18 · 19/12/2025 18:47

Recruiter won’t know she didn’t pass her probation. But usually recruiters will have a 3 months period for rebate so that the candidate needs to be there that long to hang onto their fee. Recruiter will be fine to put you somewhere else…. Speaking as a recruiter of 18 years. Hello to all the delightful people slating us 🤣

Recruiter will pick up phone and ask how placement is going

and likely in commission that once probation passed and made permanent - an additional payment

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:49

But usually recruiters will have a 3 months period for rebate so that the candidate needs to be there that long to hang onto their fee.

the op had her probation extended and is still on probation at 8 months

the recruiter will know

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:50

Strangequinoaconcoction · 19/12/2025 18:37

Will they care though as long as OP is good enough to impress the interviewers to be selected and last long enough at the new job for them to get their commission?

Depends on the info from the employer doesn’t it? At 8 months and still on probation and op appears to think that won’t pass after extension, I am guessing it won’t be glowing

Strangequinoaconcoction · 19/12/2025 18:50

Nattalie18 · 19/12/2025 18:47

Recruiter won’t know she didn’t pass her probation. But usually recruiters will have a 3 months period for rebate so that the candidate needs to be there that long to hang onto their fee. Recruiter will be fine to put you somewhere else…. Speaking as a recruiter of 18 years. Hello to all the delightful people slating us 🤣

At least you are honest about it 😀

Strangequinoaconcoction · 19/12/2025 18:52

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:50

Depends on the info from the employer doesn’t it? At 8 months and still on probation and op appears to think that won’t pass after extension, I am guessing it won’t be glowing

Surely, recruiters are interested in putting forward candidates who interview well. They don’t care if they are actually good at the job.

WhineAndWine1 · 19/12/2025 18:52

@nattalie18unless it’s a straight perm role we will know.

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:57

Strangequinoaconcoction · 19/12/2025 18:52

Surely, recruiters are interested in putting forward candidates who interview well. They don’t care if they are actually good at the job.

You don’t understand how the commission structure works

Strangequinoaconcoction · 19/12/2025 18:58

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:57

You don’t understand how the commission structure works

True, but @Nattalie18 would

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:59

Strangequinoaconcoction · 19/12/2025 18:58

True, but @Nattalie18 would

Would what?

not care about how they’d fared in previous placement, just as long as interview well?

that’s a rather different interpretation to me

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 19:01

@Nattalie18 didnt read that the op had failed her first protection and so was on an extension and had now been there 8 months and still on probation. So @Nattalie18 would have known because no commission at 3 months mark

BoredZelda · 19/12/2025 19:04

If I were the consultant, I’d be embarrassed that I set someone up in a job that wasn’t right for them.

Strangequinoaconcoction · 19/12/2025 19:06

BoredZelda · 19/12/2025 19:04

If I were the consultant, I’d be embarrassed that I set someone up in a job that wasn’t right for them.

You are obviously not suitable to work in recruitment if you have any such scruples.

Strangequinoaconcoction · 19/12/2025 19:08

Lyingonme · 19/12/2025 18:59

Would what?

not care about how they’d fared in previous placement, just as long as interview well?

that’s a rather different interpretation to me

Would know how the commission structure works

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