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Rheumatoid arthritis

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plymouthmaid · 19/12/2025 07:44

Hi All,
I’ve just had a diagnosis of rheumatoid arthritis. I was just wondering if anybody had any experience, that they could share, or tips to help managing the condition. Thanks.

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Hippywannabe · 19/12/2025 07:49

Hi, DH has it and we are also under Derriford's care (assuming from your username). Happy to chat if you want to pm me. X

Hippywannabe · 19/12/2025 07:49

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Gabbycat245 · 19/12/2025 08:31

Following as I have an upcoming appointment at the arthritis clinic for suspected RA. I'm really nervous about what it might mean re meds, lifestyle, etc. So would be good to hear from others.

How are you feeling about your diagnosis, OP?

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plymouthmaid · 19/12/2025 08:33

Thank you! Definitely a Janner, but have relocated. I’m not sure how to pm, but would be good to hear from somebody with experience. Very grateful.

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NewAgeNewMe · 19/12/2025 08:33

I was diagnosed (edit) over 20 years ago but had it much before. I’m not around much today but can answer any questions you have later. Main point if the drug doesn’t work don’t be fobbed off (methotrexate looking at you!).

Dagbonunion · 19/12/2025 08:39

Methotrexate and another disease modifying drug was offered, diagnosed 3 yrs ago, main thing is to observe triggers, for me sugar and fat, look at diet. You can a biologic treatment if the methotrexate doesn't work

plymouthmaid · 19/12/2025 08:44

I’m on methotrexate (and have steroids as a bridge) Currently feeling dreadful! The diagnosis was totally out of the blue. Very rapid onset and sent to the hospital (on the day) by my gp. I’m feeling very confused as I’ve had no real information. Like you, I’m worried about what happens in the future.
How are you feeling, Gabbycat?

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squashyhat · 19/12/2025 08:48

I have had it for 30 years. Well-controlled with drugs for the vast majority of that time, and, apart from my hands, no visible effects (but they work OK). I'm happy to answer specific questions if you pm me.

nearlyoldie · 19/12/2025 10:01

I have had RA for around 30 years, I’m now in my mid 60’s. I have had 2 knee replacements and my hands are fairly deformed. But, I have lived with the disease for so long and have adapted well.

The medication is marvellous now and slows progression down. Many people wouldn’t know I have RA despite my hands and I can honestly say it has not stopped me doing things I want to do. I can’t run a marathon, but then I wouldn’t want to!

I hate it when I have bad flare ups and need steroids (they are a wonder drug) due to their side effects. But that does not happen very often now.

Please don’t worry, it’s not as bad as you think - stay positive and read up as much as you can.

BestZebbie · 19/12/2025 10:09

plymouthmaid · 19/12/2025 07:44

Hi All,
I’ve just had a diagnosis of rheumatoid arthritis. I was just wondering if anybody had any experience, that they could share, or tips to help managing the condition. Thanks.

If they would help you, don't reject using a cane or even a mobility scooter - you wouldn't refuse to wear glasses/contacts if you couldn't see, or a coat in the rain and if you start to struggle to stand for long periods then mobility aids can be the difference between carrying on with pretty much your normal life or having your horizons limited.
One of those plastic stools that collapses into a disc that looks a bit like a giant button, on a strap, and then pulls out and locks when you need it is also good (and get a shower stool to sit on while your wash your hair and your legs if you feel unsteady, your joints will hurt a lot more if you fall over and crack them against an edge in your bathroom).

BestZebbie · 19/12/2025 10:15

plymouthmaid · 19/12/2025 08:44

I’m on methotrexate (and have steroids as a bridge) Currently feeling dreadful! The diagnosis was totally out of the blue. Very rapid onset and sent to the hospital (on the day) by my gp. I’m feeling very confused as I’ve had no real information. Like you, I’m worried about what happens in the future.
How are you feeling, Gabbycat?

Edited

I also had very rapid onset but steroids halted that - for the first four years or so I had big flares that would put me out of action, combined with ongoing fatigue, but ten years on I just take one hydroxychloroquine a day and am largely recovered (if I miss a tablet I immediately get a small flare and I'm never going to be a runner, but I no longer need any aids and can be on my feet all day moving things around and just be stiff at the end rather than requiring bedrest for a week). So it can get better!

HelpMeGetThrough · 19/12/2025 10:21

I have RA, was diagnosed in 2017. I’ve had a rough ride with it, as Methotrexate on its own wasn’t enough. I had various biologics, Adalimumab and Baricitinib, which didn’t work and now have a 6 monthly infusion of Rituximab at the hospital. I still take the Methotrexate too at 25mg weekly.

Rituximab has really been a help. I still get flare ups, but not as regularly as I did. The only time they get bad is when I’m coming up to the next infusion. I do have to take painkillers daily.

To be honest, it’s something that you do learn to live with. I do find it frustrating at times, as there are certain things I am not able to open with my hands. I do sometimes drop and break things, but I make a joke out of that, especially as we’ve probably had two new sets of wine glasses and a complete new set of dinner plates. 😁

plymouthmaid · 19/12/2025 10:26

This is all so helpful. My consultant made it sound as if the methotrexate would prevent any further issues, which was contrary to everything I’d read!

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NewAgeNewMe · 19/12/2025 10:40

Be prepared for MTX side effects. I was on it for 5 years along with hydroxychloroquine, steroids, and it just never really got under control.

I’m now on leflunomide and hydroxychloroquine and I’m a different person.

I still use a stick occasionally (great for getting a seat on the tube 😁), as I can’t manage long distances without assistance. But I still walk the dog most days.

And most importantly if I need a sofa/bed day, I don’t push it.

I’ve also cut out gluten as that was a trigger for me.

Tbh you just get used to your new normal. But bear in mind, that once on immunosuppressants you may catch more viruses than before.

any questions please do ask me.

Good luck 💐

plymouthmaid · 19/12/2025 11:53

These are so helpful and more what I was expecting rather than the sunshine and roses scenario my consultant painted!

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Wemdubz · 04/01/2026 17:33

Hi @plymouthmaid , hope you are doing ok.
You mentioned rapid onset and I wondered if you wouldn’t mind sharing how this first presented? Many thanks

plymouthmaid · 04/01/2026 18:19

Hi @Wemdubz,it started with a headache which spread to my ear, jaw and neck, all on the left side. Then had pain in my wrists which felt like I’d bruised them. This then spread rapidly and I couldn’t use my arms or hands at all and was in extreme pain. It was all very odd!

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Wemdubz · 04/01/2026 18:28

plymouthmaid · 04/01/2026 18:19

Hi @Wemdubz,it started with a headache which spread to my ear, jaw and neck, all on the left side. Then had pain in my wrists which felt like I’d bruised them. This then spread rapidly and I couldn’t use my arms or hands at all and was in extreme pain. It was all very odd!

Thank you for sharing; glad you got a quick diagnosis and I hope it can be well managed.
I think I am experiencing osteoarthritis (knew I already had this mildly in my foot) but I have rapidly worsening pain in my thumb joints and hips along with extreme fatigue. I don’t think it is rheumatoid but was interested to see how it might initially present.

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