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Have you ever had a full sized adult crush as a married ADULT?!

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ittybittybigtiddies · 15/12/2025 11:38

Let me start by saying I’ve never felt more like I belong back in school in my entire life.

I think I have a crush on my local delivery man and I have no idea where it’s come from.

I’m happily married to DH who I’m never bored of and have no complaints. He’s down right incredible.

But my long-term delivery driver who I’ve had for 5+ years has me suddenly blushing when he’s at the door. Wtf is happening? We’ve never really had a conversation.. just the usual
hi, thanks, bye when delivering parcels.
He’s attractive, but I wouldn’t even says he’s blow me away model-like.. he’s just conventionally attractive as far as men go. DH takes the cake still.

Last week he drove by as I was coming out of my door and he beeped at me; I put my hand up in a polite wave but then felt my cheeks flushing and feeling a bit embarrassed.

The thing is, it’s not remotely sexual either! I feel like I’ve got my first crush as a kid 🫠 totally ridiculous.

Please tell me someone else has been through this 🤣 I’m laughing away at myself writing this because it’s so silly!

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didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 15/12/2025 12:11

Maybe you link the excitement of getting a new item delivered with seeing him? Could it be purely Pavlovian?

ittybittybigtiddies · 15/12/2025 12:31

You could be right.. he’s been and gone and now I feel normal again. Maybe I just like receiving things 😆😆

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