I left a DA relationship kind of recently. It was a struggle at first but since then I’ve just been filled with gratitude and love with having my beautiful children safe and well I a safe environment.
I read the book “why does he do that” and it’s helped me not look back, even once.
I have stopped him having contact with our DS as he used him in a way to control and threaten me in the past and also the night I told him he can take me to court if he wants to see my boy.
since leaving I realised how this man basically SA’d me every night. I couldn’t say no to him or he would act like a child and fall out with me and verbally abuse me for days afterwards about it while still expecting sex at night to almost punish me. I realised a lot. I am loving being with my children knowing we’re all safe. We spend more time together happy and just… safe and normal. I love this for them. I feel awful for ever being with the POS but all I can do is learn from my situation. I am wondering however how soon it’ll be before he draws out of the woodworks asking for contct. I also want to say thank you to everyone on MN who have shared their experiences for giving me a harsh wake up call supporting me. Thank you x