Took my DM to hospital yesterday. Background is, she’s has niggling back pain for 8 weeks, has seen an urgent care GP who has diagnosed sciatica, paid for a private physio who diagnosed issues with her facet joints, and an NHS physio who said the problem is all in her hip. All have told her the best thing to do is keep moving and keep going to work.
She’s a self employed cleaner. On Friday, she was sweeping a customer’s floor, straightened up and heard a loud crack/pop from her spine a was immediately in excruciating pain that radiated from her spine round and over both hips. She ended up on the floor for ten minutes before managing to haul herself upright and get herself home. Since then, she can barely straighten up and can’t move or walk without severe pain in her back. She called her GP who can’t see her any earlier than Friday (an appointment she had to book 6 weeks ago and was told was the first available, hence the private physio).
I took her to A&E last night as she was sobbing in pain. She was examined by the doctor who said her back was completely in spasm and told her she’d need to take diazepam to relax it. She explained she has severe medication anxiety and can’t take anything like that — she’s on the waiting list for a second round of therapy to try to address this anxiety and it’s all over her notes. He said he’d send her for a scan to assess what was causing the spasm and left us in the examination room for 40 minutes before returning and saying actually, he’d spoken to his supervisor and she wouldn’t be getting a scan, after all.
I asked him how we could get her a scan as her symptoms suggested something was wrong. He said only GPs can refer for scans, so it’s up to her doctor to sort next week. If her doctor feels she doesn’t need one, she doesn’t get one, no matter how much pain she’s in. He said this was NHS policy.
Does anyone who works in this setting know if this is correct? I’m so bloody worried about her.