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Schools closing for flu

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Busydoingsomething · 12/12/2025 00:02

A school near me has partially closed due to staff shortages. Another has cancelled all performances. Some of the children will have been vaccinated but I suspect, lots of the staff won’t have been. I was listening to 2 people today, on the train, discussing whether school staff should be vaccinated, to prevent the staff being off and impacting on education. Wondering if this would be a good move.

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Ilikeryebread · 12/12/2025 10:37

OddBoots · 12/12/2025 06:45

The trouble is that we have seen what happens when medical things are mandated, it feeds the conspiracy monster and caused a stronger pushback. Even suggesting that simple measures might be a good idea seems to set them off. Some humans seem psychologically allergic to science.

Its Darwin evolution in action- the thick and stupid die quicker than the smart.

What is tragic is thick as shit parents imposing their views on science on their children. A child of 6 with bad flu can end in tragedy,

Eyeshadow · 12/12/2025 10:39

BrokenSunflowers · 12/12/2025 10:29

I remember when I was at school, there would be occasions when large numbers of children and teachers would be off sick. On at least one occasion more than half the class. No one would have dreamt of suggesting the school closed. And this was a time when sick bays were still needed as parents would be uncontactable for most of the day, so children falling sick in school had to be nursed there.

Yes but we used to have a higher staff to child ratio and so if staff were off poorly then there were still enough to cover the classes.

Goinghome2late · 12/12/2025 10:41

Flu vax is not free for teachers. I pay for mine every year.

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BrokenSunflowers · 12/12/2025 10:42

Eyeshadow · 12/12/2025 10:39

Yes but we used to have a higher staff to child ratio and so if staff were off poorly then there were still enough to cover the classes.

My class had one teacher and over 30 children. As did all the other classes. No teaching assistants. We large numbers were off we combined classes or would be taught in the school hall. Office staff nursed sick kids. Not sure why you think there were more staff?

Ilikeryebread · 12/12/2025 10:42

mgjgjg · 12/12/2025 10:36

I don’t - the system is to blame, not the school.

But that doesn’t change the fact that our school was far too late getting the vaccine.

I agree.

My primary offered it in schools in late November , not even 2 weeks ago , so the vaccine isn't even effective yet.

I got mine vaccinated in early October , nearly 2 months before most of their classmates, but I had push my GP to do it who seemed to think it was the schools who should sort it.

My GP agreed when I pushed back, but the nurse in the GP practice still gave me a fucking patronising lecture, like I was gaming the system- despite offering to pay.

BillyBites · 12/12/2025 10:43

We’ve never been offered it, apart from one year when we were told we could, alongside the kids but they “forgot” to be true adult doses so we never got it in the end.
Post-Covid, everyone has been saying how schools are vital infrastructure and must never close but yet staff aren’t considered important or valued enough to be given a jab. We didn’t qualify for Covid jabs when they first came out either.
Well, you reap what you sow. Place-marking for the inevitable whingeing on here when parents can’t work as their kids are sent home as no one to teach them.

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Keepoffmyartichokes · 12/12/2025 10:44

I disagree schools are telling people to send sick kids in. The guidance states if it's a mild cold and they feel well enough send them in. Are we really saying anyone with a mild cold should be not going to school/work etc, that is madness.

PersephoneParlormaid · 12/12/2025 10:44

CosyDenimShark · 12/12/2025 08:58

The schools here have been giving the nasal sprays way too late. DS was given it 10th Dec!!, It takes 2 weeks to be effective. Unfortunately 50% of his year group (yr 11) are currently or have recently been off with flu. The symptoms given on class whats app are awful. 2 boys have fainted, 1 on a train home. 2 have been in A&E.

Primary school kids were the priority as they are super spreaders, high schools were done second, in my area

TheignT · 12/12/2025 10:45

I understand it's busy and hard to get appointments in some places but I don't understand why people would wait till mid December to get it. I always book for September or early October, waiting till now would mean you might catch it before you got the jab.

Teachers could have got it at half term. No good this year but maybe something to think about for next year.

PersephoneParlormaid · 12/12/2025 10:45

Goinghome2late · 12/12/2025 10:41

Flu vax is not free for teachers. I pay for mine every year.

Some schools pay for their teachers

Balab · 12/12/2025 10:49

I get myself and both teens a flu jab every year. Have to pay because both teens are older than the ones who get it at school. I remember 15 years ago when ds was in reception, I got flu and I could barely move. So since then I’ve got jabbed every year. Im only in my 40s, but flu is vicious at any age.

I think people don’t realise that you can pay for it and that it’s pretty easy to get at a chemist like Boots. Can book a Saturday if can’t get out of work in week.

Americasfavouritefightingfrenchman · 12/12/2025 10:51

Flibbertyfloo · 12/12/2025 00:09

Lots of people are getting flu despite being vaccinated because the strain causing the big surge isn't one of the ones included in the vaccines apparently.

This is true. At my eldest’s school kids were vaccinated right after half term and loads of them have been really ill and off for a week or so with what is believed to be a strain that wasn’t covered end November/start of December. Still a pretty good idea to offer a flu vaccine to school staff though as at least it reduces overall risk

cakebreak · 12/12/2025 10:52

volvino · 12/12/2025 10:05

Hello there!!!

👋👏👋

The melodramatic virus patrol is back.

Didn't miss them but here they are ready for the next epidemic.

OMG. Those threads. Didn't some posters refer to them as dementors?

Referring to dc as plague spreaders.

Just saw my neighbour leave the house to buy milk. Milk. We are literally in a pandemic and she wants to enjoy her tea. How many grannies have to die so she can avoid UHT.

There’s a man on my street who has walked his dog 3 times today. Unless that dog has a job in the NHS, this is outrageous.

A woman SAT DOWN on a bench. I’m shaking. Do people not understand what ‘stay home’ means???

Saw someone buy wine, crisps and flowers.
Absolutely disgusting. Selfish. Some of us care about society.

Those were the days on Mumsnet.

Did you quote the wrong person?

I'm encouraging vaccination not hazmat suits and needless isolation and bleaching vegetables

TheQuirkyMaker · 12/12/2025 10:54

Ilikeryebread · 12/12/2025 10:37

Its Darwin evolution in action- the thick and stupid die quicker than the smart.

What is tragic is thick as shit parents imposing their views on science on their children. A child of 6 with bad flu can end in tragedy,

Polio- iron lungs in every developed country until they developed a cheaper wooden one which also helped with chest pressure. Huge expense and mortality. Children would spend a few months with supported beathing until they recovered (hopefully) or died. Those who didn't die may have been crippled. Then a vaccine was found, and polio was eradicated. Now social media has done it's own research and discovered vaccines are unnecessary. Polio is on it's way back.

GentleSheep · 12/12/2025 10:58

LakieLady · 12/12/2025 08:37

That's really shocking if true.

Why are people so resistant to vaccination? I was nearly hospitalised when I had measles as a toddler, do people not realise how serious some of these illnesses can be?

Because sadly they believe all the misinformation out there, there's huge distrust in vaccines since the Covid pandemic. People seem far more willing to believe rubbish spouted by non-experts and ignore actual experts. I've said this before, if we have a really serious pandemic that has a high mortality rate, many will die simply because they think they know better and won't get a vaccine. Sad state of affairs.

cardibach · 12/12/2025 11:01

Elizabethandfour · 12/12/2025 09:26

Massive study on the flu vaccine from the Cleveland hospital. The participants were all medical staff. The vaccine made you MORE LIKELY to get the flu. Cognitive dissonance is real so people read this and still get it. The vaccine manufacturers are making a fortune so the gravy train rolls on, I have seen many, many posts on here saying I am dying with the flu but so happy I had the vaccine or I could have been so much worse.

www.medrxiv.org/content/10.1101/2025.01.30.25321421v4

That’s in America and hasn’t been peer reviewed.

JingsMahBucket · 12/12/2025 11:10

hmmnotreallysure · 12/12/2025 07:55

@JingsMahBucket if I could afford it then I definitely would. It's not due to laziness, it's due to cost.
Dh was made redundant over 8 months ago, he's been looking for work ever since, we live on UC and my part time TA wage, if I had a spare £15 to get it then I would. We can't even afford to pay our bills, mortgage and food so I can't afford to spend £15 on me as we just don't have it.
Not everyone circumstances are the same, £15 may be a drop in the ocean for some, but not for everyone.

@hmmnotreallysure got you. I’m really sorry things are financially hard for you right now. I totally feel you. My income this year is a lot lower than expected and I’m having to juggle a lot as well. Are there any community or free clinic programs that could help?

We’re in Scotland and were able to get our flu shots for free but for the first time ever I wasn’t eligible for a Covid shot even though I have a long term illness. They’ve reduced eligibility a lot this year and a private shot costs £85 each for my husband and myself. I bristled at the cost a month ago but based on how the illnesses are going around, we may rob Peter to pay Paul and get them.

cardibach · 12/12/2025 11:11

Morningsleepin · 12/12/2025 10:01

Someone asked why people are resistant to vaccines. But on the same thread, it has been pointed out that this year's vaccine does not contain the strain that is making everyone sick and there is a study from last year showing that the vaccinated are more likely to catch the flu

That study is not reliable though, for reasons already explained by a PP.

Wowwhataworld · 12/12/2025 11:15

We used to get it, nurse came to school and administered to those who wanted to take it up. When Covid vaccine came out we were allowed time to go and get this IF we wanted it. Now we don’t get either of those options and it’s so hard to fit in going between working all week and all the demands running up to Christmas with events at work and children’s schools or clubs. This is the first day I’ve had off (usually part time) only because I said weeks ago I had plans. I’ve been covering the absences for the last 3 weeks.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 12/12/2025 11:18

Do they not vaccinate the kids every year at school? DDs definitely had one every year at primary school, it was just a nasal spray.

cardibach · 12/12/2025 11:18

BrokenSunflowers · 12/12/2025 10:42

My class had one teacher and over 30 children. As did all the other classes. No teaching assistants. We large numbers were off we combined classes or would be taught in the school hall. Office staff nursed sick kids. Not sure why you think there were more staff?

Laws have changed. Without the correct staff:child ratio you have to shut. That’s why.

Keepoffmyartichokes · 12/12/2025 11:26

DeftGoldHedgehog · 12/12/2025 11:18

Do they not vaccinate the kids every year at school? DDs definitely had one every year at primary school, it was just a nasal spray.

They offer it, it's not mandatory.

Goinghome2late · 12/12/2025 11:26

PersephoneParlormaid · 12/12/2025 10:45

Some schools pay for their teachers

Lucky them. None of mine have.

Goinghome2late · 12/12/2025 11:28

On a different note my classes have been full of kids sent into school with high temps and hacking coughs for weeks.

What do people expect will.happen?