I made a thread last year about a girl in my dd(10) class who was bullying her. I spoke to the school and I hoped it was all sorted. They went back to school in September and it seemed to have stopped. However this last week it has started again.
My dd and this girl are both friends with another girl in their class and the bully doesn't seem to like this. She seems to get really jealous when my dd and this friend do anything together. This weekend they are at a sleepover together and the bully has really taken offense at this. I presume cause she wasnt one of the girls invited. Which as this is at another person's house is obviously nothing to do with my dd.
For the last 3 days this girl has made numerous tik toks calling my dd names and sent messages telling my dd that people hate her. I was told last year that if it happens outside of school then the school can not do anything about it. So I messaged her mum asking if she could get her to remove the tik toks which I thought was a reasonable request. The mum has since sent me numerous messages blaming my dd for her child making these posts. I have ignored and blocked her as she was calling my dd names and I didn't want to engage.
I have emailed the school as it was clearly not dealt with before and my dd has phoned me in tears this evening because of these messages and videos.
I have screenshots and recordings of the messages and videos but what else can I do? Most of the stuff this girl does is under the radar, social exclusion type stuff.
I feel bad because I feel i have made it worse by messaging the girls mum but school said they couldn't do anything about social media posts and I didn't want these videos to follow my daughter around. I have no idea what I'm meant to do. My dd has no social media but friends do and send her screenshots of these tik toks and posts. I'm trying to protect her as much as possible but most of her class has seen these posts at this point.